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From: mye <m...@bali.to> Subject: [PSF] Fw: HOW TO OBSERVE 'LAILATUL QADAR'? To: pengajian...@yahoogroups.com Date: Monday, August 30, 2010, 10:14 PM Dari ustadz Joban di milis IMSA. Silakan dinikmati. Yusuf Forwarded by mye <m...@bali.to> ----------------------- Original Message ----------------------- From: "Mohamad Joban" <mjo...@comcast.net> To: <as-sy...@yahoogroups.com>, <ims...@googlegroups.com>, <imaam...@yahoogroups.com>, <imsa-sisters-cons...@googlegroups.com>, <musl...@sammamishmosque.com>, <icmi...@googlegroups.com> Date: Mon, 30 Aug 2010 14:52:10 -0700 Subject: [Imsa] HOW TO OBSERVE 'LAILATUL QADAR'? ---- Assalam-o-Alaikum, Where HAS all the time gone? The past 3 wks of Ramadan have just whizzed by, haven’t they? I can’t believe it’s already the 19th of Ramadan. So today I’d like to talk about importance of the last ten days of Ramadan. What is laylatul qadr? It is the night of Power. What does that mean? The night of Power is better than a thousand months. (so worshipping on this night is better than if you worshipped for a thousand months (that’s about 83 yrs, and 4 months)! SubhanAllah! And what else? On this night, God’s decrees for the next year are brought down to the earthly plane. It is true that everything has been determined since the beginning of eternity and written down in the Preserved Tablet, but it is said that during this night, the Angels are informed of the destinies of the worshippers for the following year. It is a blessed Night. So, everything will be decreed on this Night. It is a night when fates are determined and it is a night of high standing. So when is it? "Search for the Night of Qadr in the odd nights of the last ten days of Ramadan." [Saheeh Bukhaari] Therefore, Laylatul Qadr (the night of Power) could be on 21st, 23rd, 25th, 27th or 29th of Ramadan. Some say it is more likely to be on the 27th or 29th…but only Allah knows best. It is better to worship on all 5 nights…and cover all your bases! One thing to note, in the Islamic calendar, the new day begins after Maghrib (sunset). So, since today is the 19th of Ramadan, tonight after sunset it will be the 20th of Ramadan. Make sense? So the night of power this year (2010) should be sought on the nights of Tues, Aug 31, Sept 2, Sept 4, Sept 6, and Sept 8. If you recall, we started Taraweeh Prayer the night before fasting. Also, when the moon is sighted at the end, we don’t pray taraweeh the night before Eid. According to the hadith, the Prophet (SAW) was told when exactly the night of power would be. But as he was about to tell the people, 2 men were fighting/arguing. And this made the Prophet (SAW) forget exactly which night it was. (Remember, when people fight, satan is sure to be there, just as when people worship, the angels are sure to be there.) It is also said that on the night on power, it will neither be too hot, nor too cold, and there will be a slight drizzle. But Allah knows best. If nothing else, recite the shahada at least 3 times each night in the last 10 days. Shahada: La ilaha illal lah, Muhammadur Rasu-lul-lah” Which means “There is no god but Allah, and Muhammad (peace and blessings be upon him) is the messenger of Allah”. So do you have to stay up all night? If you can, that’s great! But it is best to sleep for a little while after Taraweeh, and then worship in the middle of the night. You can stay up till suhur or worship for a while, and then go back to bed. You can even set your alarm to wake you up a few hours before suhur to worship (or even an hour before suhur…whatever you are able to do). The quality of worship is more important than the quantity of worship. This is not a time for people to stay up all night playing video games, or chatting with friends. The key is to worship…and talk to your Rabb (Lord). An hour (or a few hours) of sincere worship is far better than staying up all night goofing off. Oh, and remember, witr is the last prayer. So if you plan on waking up in the last part of the night to pray, then don’t pray witr after isha or after taraweeh. Just be sure to pray witr sometime before suhur. So what can I do to worship on Laylatul Qadr (the night of Power)? 1. You can take that vacation time you’ve been saving up and make itikhaf. That’s when you seclude yourself at the masjid, and leave all worldly things for a few days/nights. Spend time with your Lord, without other distractions. Or take the vacation, and worship most of the night (and day too InshaAllah), and not have to worry about going to work. 2. If you can’t do that, Go to the masjid and pray and worship there. Most mosques have programs…speeches, salatul tasbih, etc. 3. If you are not able to do that, then pray at home. Find a place where there are no pictures of faces (for angels do not come where there are pictures of faces). Make wudhu, and pray, read Quran, pray saltul tasbih with your family, read hadith, make dhikr (praise), make dua (supplication), ask for forgiveness, just talk to your Lord…go to Sajdah…stay there a while, cry, beg, etc. Allah (SWT) says ask, and I shall give. So ask! There was a sheikh who said when he was 12, he thought to himself, if Allaah will give us anything on this night, what are the main things I really wish for. He made a list of about 6 things, and asked for them every night (in the last ten days). He said 2 years later he had memorized the Quraan mashaAllah (which was one of the things on his list). So similarly, Look into your lives and see what it is you need to make them complete. Make your list, and raise your hands up and ask Allaah, from the bottom of your heart, what it is you want. Also, cry if you can, and if you can’t, then just try. I know it sounds strange, but once you break that shell around your heart, you will become more sincere. Also, I tell my kids not to ask for just worldly possessions. (otherwise, they’ll start asking Allah for all kinds of toys, etc…LOL). Instead, break it down: 1. Recite durood first. 2. Thank Allah for what he has given you. 3. Ask for forgiveness…past, present, and future sins. 4. Ask for iman, taqwah, hidayah, health, wisdom, best life in this world, and the best in the next; for Quran and islam to be easy for you; protection from hell, ask for Jannatul Firdaus (the highest level of paradise); grant victory to the muslims; keep us away from all the shaitans; save us from the punishment of the grave; show us the straight path, not the path of those who have earned your anger, nor of those who go astray. Etc, etc, etc… 5. Then ask for whatever else you want. J And Du’a (supplication) can be made in any language, not just Arabic! J And when there is group du’a, say “Aameen” out loud. According to one hadith, if/when your ameen and the ameen of the angels come together, that du’a will surely be accepted inshaAllah. One other thing, I always remind my kids that there are 3 kinds of duas. 1. You will get what you asked for right away, or very soon. 2. You will get what you asked for…but later…sometimes, much later. That thing you asked for may not be the best thing for you till later in your life. Allah knows best, and he wants what’s best for you. Believe that. 3. The thing you asked for you will never get because it is not good for you. Remember, Allah knows what you do not. (Just like a child may really want something, but the parent/adult knows it is harmful to that child, or it is better the child not get that…but the child doesn’t understand, and he gets mad at the adult). We can not be like that child. We can not get mad at God because we did not get what we asked for. Trust in Allah. He’s on your side. He’s your best friend. Talk to him like he’s your best friend (remember when you are praying, you are talking to Allah). Treat him like he’s your best friend (don’t forget about him, or abandon him), read his letters (i.e., the Quran) and cherish his words. Remember them, and live by them. 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