Re: [Tango-L] Invitation & refusal

2009-06-09 Thread Pat Petronio
Long live the cabeceo! It protects everyone. The tradition developed for good reasons, as did the other milonga codes. The communication involved is uncomplicated body language. Difficult to teach? What's so hard about it? As long as you can make eye contact with another person, you can do it.

Re: [Tango-L] Invitation & refusal and dancing to anything.

2009-06-09 Thread roger
I have turned offers of dances down, because I don't feel anything for that set of songs/tunes and consequently will not do it justice. I will however promise to dance the next tanda that "turns me on". This leads me to ask a question:- Has anyone else noticed that some people seem to dance

Re: [Tango-L] Is it Balls, or just a Heel?

2009-06-09 Thread HBBOOGIE1
Another problem I've witnessed is a man approaching a group of ladies, extending his hand directly in front of the lady he's asking to dance with and getting turned down so he simply moves to the next in line and asks her to dance? All of the ladies know that she wasn't his first choice and h

[Tango-L] Travelling argentine tango teacher

2009-06-09 Thread Andreas Hunger
There is another travelling tango teacher in Germany. Marcelo Alvarez de Argentina :-) I didn't find much about him over the web, he seems to be a folclore dancer: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Oemc22NPk5g Does somebody know him? Does he have a qualification as a tango teacher beyond being ar

[Tango-L] Let's save the social dance!

2009-06-09 Thread Mario
I've been following the debates on Tango-L for a year and a half. Most dramatic for me, has been the clash between Nuevo and Traditional styles of dance. The topic becomes even more confused when one observes the similarities between the two approaches..Nuevo is based on Traditional (so it says) a

[Tango-L] Invitation and Refusal

2009-06-09 Thread Mario
""In a setting where men are allowed to invite directly, why should women be not? Hey! We're living in the 20th century. Why should women not be allowed to invite a man, rather than sit around all night, because they're not noticed or unknown or because nobody knows how to use the Cabeceo in

Re: [Tango-L] Invitation & refusal and dancing to anything.

2009-06-09 Thread Jack Dylan
> From: roger > Some people will dance to > every tanda., indiscriminately. > > Perhaps they just love to dance and/or enjoy a wider taste in tango music than you do. Jack ___ Tango-L mailing list Tango-L@mit.edu http://mailman.mit.edu/ma

Re: [Tango-L] Invitation & refusal and dancing to anything.

2009-06-09 Thread C21DARI
In a message dated 6/9/2009 9:12:53 AM Eastern Daylight Time, ro...@websa.com.au writes: Has anyone else noticed that some people seem to dance to everything In reference to that sentence on your post, I have seen dancers dancing even to the National Anthon music (very common expressio

Re: [Tango-L] Invitation and Refusal

2009-06-09 Thread Jack Dylan
> From: Mario sopel...@yahoo.com >  In other words..please, have > patience and wait, ladies. > Just one or two questions, Mario. Firstly, has any woman at a milonga, ever asked you to dance? If yes, how did you reply? Jack ___ Tango-L

Re: [Tango-L] Let's save the social dance!

2009-06-09 Thread Jack Dylan
> From: Mario sopel...@yahoo.com > >  How can we get the two (Social + Show) under the same roof and co > > operating > with each other  >  >   We can't and why should we? Social dancing is for sharing the dance floor with many other couples and improvising figures to suit the space

Re: [Tango-L] Let's save the social dance!

2009-06-09 Thread Tango Society of Central Illinois
On Tue, Jun 9, 2009 at 9:45 AM, Jack Dylan wrote: > >> From: Mario sopel...@yahoo.com > >> >  How can we get the two (Social + Show) under the same roof and co >> > operating >> with each other >>  > > > We can't and why should we? Social dancing is for sharing the dance floor with > many

Re: [Tango-L] Let's save the social dance!

2009-06-09 Thread Sergey Kazachenko
> Nuevo dances should develop their own name, but let me suggest one > that was mentoned on another list: NUEVILONGA. This name is not only > accurate, but it is really cool!! It has EVIL in it! ___ Tango-L mailing list Tango-L@mit.edu http://mailman.mit

Re: [Tango-L] Let's save the social dance!

2009-06-09 Thread Endzone 102
On Tue, Jun 9, 2009 at 11:29 AM, Tango Society of Central Illinois < tango.soci...@gmail.com> wrote: > I see a simple solution, but it requires agreement and cooperation > among dancers. > > Nuevo and tango de salon events should be kept separate. Nuevo dances > can be held on large floors where t

Re: [Tango-L] Is it Balls, or just a Heel?

2009-06-09 Thread Trini y Sean (PATangoS)
--- On Sat, 6/6/09, hbboog...@aol.com wrote: > Another problem I've witnessed is a man approaching a group of ladies,  > extending his hand directly in front of the lady he's asking to dance with > and getting turned down so he simply moves to the next in line > and asks her to dance? All of t

Re: [Tango-L] Let's save the social dance!

2009-06-09 Thread Trini y Sean (PATangoS)
--- On Tue, 6/9/09, Endzone 102 wrote: >>     This particular horse has been beaten to > death, raised from the dead, > turned into dog food, eaten, re-purposed into fertilizer, > had grass grown in > it, eaten by the next horse in the chain to be beaten to > death. > > -Greg G Unfortunately

Re: [Tango-L] Let's save the social dance!

2009-06-09 Thread AJ Azure
You'd like to save the social dance? Go look at what that is. Not segregated. 1920s, 30s the big social dance era had all types of dancing at social events. It's time to stop the compartmentalization and segregation society seems to be heading towards. Totally xenophobic! Whatever happened to a re

[Tango-L] Dark milongas prevent Cabeceo (was Invitation and refusal)

2009-06-09 Thread Tango Mail
Martin N. touched on this topic in his post and I'd like to re-post my question from a few months back. This is directed to all and any who host/organize milongas in the US: Why do you feel it necessary to keep the room so dark? I never received any responses to that question so I'm postin

Re: [Tango-L] Dark milongas prevent Cabeceo (was Invitation and refusal)

2009-06-09 Thread Dubravko Kakarigi
This is probably not a secret to anyone -- there are milongas where lights are turned up at the end of the tanda and turned down after the first 30 seconds (or so) of the next tanda. It should not take a rocket scientist to figure this one out. === seek, appreci

Re: [Tango-L] Invitation and refusal

2009-06-09 Thread Gary
On 09/06/2009, at 3:23 AM, Nussbaum, Martin wrote: > If a woman turns > down the invite, whether verbal or cabaceo, in a definitvely cold > manner, such as slowly shaking her head no, why would you ever want to > ask that woman again ? Let her dance with Gary Barn. But that was not what I was ta

Re: [Tango-L] Let's save the social dance!

2009-06-09 Thread Gary
Someone wrote: > > Nuevo and tango de salon events should be kept separate. > ... And someone else wrote: > > It's just not ever going > to happen. You might think its "not ever going to happen", but in fact it happens a lot, and pretty successfully. Particular milongas get a reputatio

[Tango-L] Rhythm or Melody?

2009-06-09 Thread Jack Dylan
To everybody, A very basic question - should Tango be danced mostly to the rhythm or the melody? Jack ___ Tango-L mailing list Tango-L@mit.edu http://mailman.mit.edu/mailman/listinfo/tango-l

Re: [Tango-L] Rhythm or Melody?

2009-06-09 Thread Noughts
Beginners - rhythm. Pro - combination. Sent from my iPhone, from somewhere... On 10/06/2009, at 4:18 PM, Jack Dylan wrote: > > To everybody, > > A very basic question - should Tango be danced mostly to the rhythm > or the melody? > > Jack > > > > >