[Tango-L] cabaceo/rejection

2010-10-27 Thread dierdre black
At the expense of sounding arrogant/snobby.I have found if I am more discriminating and patient in choosing whom I will accept as my tango partners(ignoring some cabaceos by looking under the table for some lint, whatever), I have more than enough dances; avoid being a wallflower and in

Re: [Tango-L] Care & Feeding & Fantasy

2010-10-27 Thread Vince BaguĊĦauskas
>The cabeceo plays into this fantasy for some. For others it can present a >harsh reality. I have been thinking, over the last few weeks, about a suitable response to the topic of the cabeceo and the related topic of women refusing to dance with men who they do not consider to be at "their l

Re: [Tango-L] Care & Feeding & Fantasy

2010-10-27 Thread Sandhill Crane
--- On Wed, 10/27/10, Trini y Sean (PATangoS) wrote: > At the heart of it all, tango is a fantasy. Well, this is interesting. I wonder what the typical fantasies are. I am going to guess that the typical man's fantasy is "I am competent and capable" and the typical woman's fantasy is "I am beaut

Re: [Tango-L] apt scam in BsAs

2010-10-27 Thread Mario
Well today I went to a newsletter addressed specifically to ex pat visitors to BsAsthe thing was full of warnings about varios rip-offs including deposit rip-offs... so, I feel that I gave the correct caveot to the reader of tango L when I 'generalized' about doing business in Latin Amer