Re: [Tango-L] If not thinking, and besides the music, what are you paying attention to?

2008-01-22 Thread steve pastor
Well, yes, the man should know where the woman's feet. Many instructors never add that the woman can (and I would say should) learn how to make it easier for the man to feel where her feet are. And, obviously, then, the women aren't taught how to clearly convey where their feet are. This

Re: [Tango-L] What Argentine Tango is, and what it is not.

2008-03-11 Thread steve pastor
My posts haven't been getting through, so this a final test before I maybe unsubscribe. My experience has been that ballroom teachers emphasize doing the pattern as taught. If you deviate you are scolded, either by the teacher or your partner for not dancing what is being taught. Alt

Re: [Tango-L] Heel First?

2008-03-27 Thread steve pastor
I found these two pages a while back, and they do shed light on this topic. http://www.oandp.org/jpo/library/1997_01_010.asp http://www.oandp.org/jpo/library/1997_02_049.asp There is a huge amount of information here. One of the more interesting things is the detailed descriptions of how we

Re: [Tango-L] Heel First?

2008-03-27 Thread steve pastor
Well, it looks like we disagree. It is very misleading to tell people to "just walk". Especially if you tell them they should be stepping "toe first". And, I would like to add that until you get really good at walking without picking up your toes, you will look ... oh, how can I put it wi

Re: [Tango-L] Not leading vs.leading the cross

2008-04-01 Thread steve pastor
If the cross is done automatically, without input from the man, other than being "on her left" for two steps, the woman completes a series of movements which we refer to as "crossing". This precludes the introduction of variations which can occur during this "simple" move that actually consi

Re: [Tango-L] Nuevo Milonguero

2008-04-10 Thread steve pastor
Recently I looked at "Tango Bar" again. I seemed to remember that there was an awful lot of the moves that are usually thought of as nuevo in there. There is in particular one scene in which dancers dance to "La Comparsita" in a very elegant setting. They appear to be in very close prox

Re: [Tango-L] Nuevo, Apilado... and marketing. The botom line is always $$$

2008-06-28 Thread steve pastor
"Why cant we simply say... I like dancing tango with a close embrace. "?   "Apildao" is a type of "close embrace" that relies on creating a shared axis, as opposed to "close embrace" where the partners remain more or less "on their own axis".   It isn't just dancing close to your partner.   It

Re: [Tango-L] Dancing socially to Piazzolla

2008-07-23 Thread steve pastor
When men and women have stopped being men and women and became amoebas ready to dance to anything in any role, why try to save anything?  You can't play a game where the players don't agree on the rules. And now I will go and swallow some anti-sarcasm drugs. Nina   While I appreciate Nina's sarc

Re: [Tango-L] Nuevo lead and follow and repressed teaching

2008-07-28 Thread steve pastor
"My point is that when women have the bodywork and technique, then they can be lead into a colgada or volcada without having been taught the step.  However, getting to that point requires a lot of work"   I am / was very sure that this was true regarding cose embrace / apilado. Now, as I watch pe

Re: [Tango-L] (no subject)

2008-09-11 Thread steve pastor
You could start here... I haven't read the entire article for a while. Still... http://www.indyweek.com/gyrobase/Content?oid=oid%3A31481 a review/inerview with the author of Tango: An Art History of Love (Pantheon, 2005)     --- On Thu, 9/11/08, Dubravko Kakarigi <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: From

Re: [Tango-L] variable embrace

2007-07-24 Thread steve pastor
I have come to believe that, since the term "close embrace" can mean several different things, it leads to a lot of confusion. The more erect you and your partner are when you are in your embrace, the closer your feet are together. The more forward "lean" there is to both of your postures,

Re: [Tango-L] Women's role - what teacher is better for advanced ladies.

2007-08-01 Thread steve pastor
So... when do you start counting? PSI thought it only took 6 weeks. (tongue in cheek comment) "Trini y Sean (PATangoS)" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: If more men were as good listeners as they say they should be, then this wouldn't even be an issue! And tango conversations would truly

[Tango-L] Music from Argentina (Turnabout is Fair Play)

2007-08-06 Thread steve pastor
I came across this site and thought some of you may be interested in this example of the way that cultures and musicians influence each other. http://www.englishmusicsalvajes.blogspot.com/ - Shape Yahoo! in your own image. Join our Network Res

Re: [Tango-L] Tango Competition in Buenos Aires

2007-08-06 Thread steve pastor
You may remember that there was quite a scandal in "Ice Dancing" at the Olympics not too long ago. I don't remember the details, but I think "judging" an artistic evdeavor, and assigning points is rather absurd. The only way to do this objectively is to establish standards that will be u

[Tango-L] BBC World Chamionship video report

2007-08-18 Thread steve pastor
I don't know how long it will be available, but there is a nice report on the AT World Championship event being held in BA on this page. http://news.bbc.co.uk/ This is the exact url http://news.bbc.co.uk/player/nol/newsid_695/newsid_6952500/6952537.stm?bw=bb&mp=wm&asb=1&news=1

Re: [Tango-L] Fame and photos

2007-08-19 Thread steve pastor
So this thread is now about "close embrace"? Dear Tango Experts: "Close Embrace" takes in a lot of territory. Trini wrote "And I'm grateful that Christopher & Caroline of San Francisco and Robert Hauk brought her to the States to teach." Robert Hauk is joined by (hopefully again) Steven

Re: [Tango-L] YouTube includes surprises OT, but not anymore than previous post

2007-08-20 Thread steve pastor
Please be sure to shed tears for all of the great white musicians in the first half of the 20th century who sold their recording rights for pennies and died in poverty while the promoters built lucrative music industry businesses off their backs. Carol Shepherd <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: Unf

Re: [Tango-L] Who's leading?

2007-09-20 Thread steve pastor
Overheard recently at a Portland Tango event: MAN: Would you like to do a few of these milongas? WOMAN: Not as a woman. MAN: OK. Thanks anyhow. Igor Polk <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: A woman. ___ Tango-L mailing list Tango-L@mit.edu ht

Re: [Tango-L] Nina critique of Milonga invite, cabaceo revisited

2007-09-21 Thread steve pastor
How about when you don't want to follow, but want to lead? reference my post in the "Who's leading" thread Nina Pesochinsky <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: Astrid, And when do you want to dance, but "not as a woman" (since this is what the discussion is about)? Nina At 04:14 AM 9/21/20

Re: [Tango-L] Who's leading?

2007-09-21 Thread steve pastor
For refuge from politcal correctness, I don't think anything beats Country Western. While I see, here in Portland, men practicing with men, and women leading men at practicas, (and even, rarely, at milongas) I have only seen two men dancing together once or twice at a Country Western place

Re: [Tango-L] Strong Lead - resistance effect

2007-09-22 Thread steve pastor
First, I want to thank Igor for bringing this up, more or less bolding going where no man has gone before (I exaggerate, of course.) I came close to commenting on a light is characteristic of better dancers post a short time ago. "Resistance" creates a better connection between two bodie

Re: [Tango-L] Strong Lead - resistance effect

2007-09-22 Thread steve pastor
Maybe you can use this, Igor. Excerpt from a PhD thesis... Understanding the Haptic Interactions of Working Together Kyle Brandon Reed This is about haptic communication "communicating by touch". Kyle is a Lindy Hop dancer, too. There is much, much, more in this article. I fou

Re: [Tango-L] Strong Lead - resistance effect

2007-09-24 Thread steve pastor
"if you (the leader) make a sharp step back, the connection would break, the connection would break, provided you do not hold her" Thus, we hope that the women learn to feel us moving backwards, and know that we expect them to step forward as vigorously as we step forward. Krasimir Sto

Re: [Tango-L] Strong Lead - resistance effect

2007-09-24 Thread steve pastor
If you feel that your connection with your partner is being broken by this SHARP backward movement, it would be wise to abort the movement. If your partner hasn't been giving you good forward energy, and hasn't already followed your backward movement previously, it would be wise to not eve

Re: [Tango-L] Strong Lead - resistance effect

2007-09-25 Thread steve pastor
I love the "lets dance without any arms" challenge. Sometimes, when someone has "offered a comment" on my lead, I will ask them if they would like to try dancing without the arms. Often, they decline. (This is (of course) at a practica.) Krassimire Stoyanov <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wr

Re: [Tango-L] No arms?

2007-09-28 Thread steve pastor
Perhaps you are familiar with the Tango and Chaos site by Rick McGarrey. This text is from the site http://www.tangoandchaos.org/chapt_2secrets/7natural.htm "First, the dancers in the following pictures stay straight and centered so that the muscles in the back, legs, ankles, and feet can

Re: [Tango-L] Help to find masculinity in tango!

2007-10-02 Thread steve pastor
"Please, help to find ways to uncover masculine part of tango to potential great leaders !" This is acually an interesting subject which, to me, requires a review of the changing roles of men and women in the U.S. in general (and perhaps other English speaking countries). I think these

Re: [Tango-L] The Jungle and Women's Tricky Tricks

2007-10-05 Thread steve pastor
Carol: If you feel that you can't "go over and ask", by all means be sure to look at the man when he is available. If and when he returns your gaze you can motion towards the dance floor, or raise your eyebrows in question (Are we going to dance now?) Does this sound like a certain non

Re: [Tango-L] The Jungle and Women's Tricky Tricks

2007-10-05 Thread steve pastor
More like all of the folks we keep hearing about in Buenos Aires. It takes lots of time to get to know people well enough that you know they want to dance with you from across the room. Or without even looking at them. As a guess, most of the US tango communities are no where near as ol

Re: [Tango-L] Ocho queens-bad leads-good leads

2007-10-12 Thread steve pastor
"So if you guys have all these wonderful leaders, why aren't the women picking up on this? Why aren't they becoming more skilled? Do the guys not want to dance with women who they think do not meet their criteria to dance with them? Are the guys not as good as they think they are? " L

Re: [Tango-L] Ocho queens-bad leads-good leads

2007-10-13 Thread steve pastor
girl can walk and do Ochos and Giros, just what are you leading that they don't know what to do? Especially after a couple of attempts. Keith, HK On Sat Oct 13 5:28 , steve pastor sent: > > "Why aren't they becoming more skilled?" Another answer to this is that > man

Re: [Tango-L] Ocho queens-bad leads-good leads

2007-10-15 Thread steve pastor
-L guidelines with respect to this person: List Rules, Policies and Guidelines Personal attacks of individuals (also called ad hominem attacks) have proven to be the most disruptive, with many subscribers leaving the list as a result. Hence, violators of this rule are subject to removal without notic

Re: [Tango-L] the new President of Argentina

2007-10-27 Thread steve pastor
Well, since some one else opened the can o' worms http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/americas/7050743.stm http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/americas/7046780.stm Clif Davis <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: What is the feeling about the first lady becoming the new First Person?

Re: [Tango-L] Taxi Dancing

2007-11-07 Thread steve pastor
A few nights ago I was sucked into watching an episode of "Cold Case" on network TV. It began with a woman disappearing as people panicked while listening to the Orson Welles radio broadcast of "War of the Worlds". (Apparently nobody was listening when Welles said, repeatedly, it was a br

Re: [Tango-L] The Cross :: To unwind, or not to unwind, that is the question...

2007-11-14 Thread steve pastor
Alex: "When her right foot is crossed behind, it makes a forward or side step awkward if not impossible, and the only option is a back step (for her)." I'd have to disagree with this statement, but it depends to a large amount on how well your partner, and you dance. Her right leg, whic

Re: [Tango-L] Smart tango consumers

2007-11-15 Thread steve pastor
"Sometimes you are inspired to use more double-time steps, sometimes more pauses, sometimes more sharp changes in direction, sometimes more pivoting moves. Kind of vague, isn't it?" Time for the dissenting opinion. There are reasons why you are inspired to move differently at

Re: [Tango-L] Who leads what who follows what

2007-12-01 Thread steve pastor
The reasons that men lead and women follow are not merely psychological. There are actual physical reasons. I could quote from "The Physics of Dance", but I'm just firing this off. At most levels lead and follow probably work best. It is only at what I would have to label as the "higher" l

Re: [Tango-L] Who leads what, who follows what

2007-12-02 Thread steve pastor
Shall we blame Max Roach for this? I don't play, but I believe he was quite revolutionary in his approach to drumming. But, jazz parted ways with dancers when bebop became popular. So What I find interesting, too, is how, what to us, are strange time signatures such as 5/4,11/

Re: [Tango-L] Musicality quotient P.S.

2007-12-08 Thread steve pastor
You might want to take a look at some of the pages at this site: http://www.tangoandchaos.org/chapt_2secrets/8strongstep.htm There are several pages regarding the same subject, so page back and forth. No cat-like strain required. Tom English <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: It' hard t

Re: [Tango-L] What is tango music?

2007-12-08 Thread steve pastor
Very interesting post, Janis. Tell, me, in the valses that you have, is there a predominant pattern something akin to two eight notes followed by quarter note? (or, if you will, a quarter note followed by two eighth notes? The answer to this question is, I hope obvious, but I have my rea

Re: [Tango-L] Don't blame your follower ...keys

2007-12-16 Thread steve pastor
Well, in the US, janitors and truck drivers often wear their large key rings on their belts. And a high class woman don't want no maintenance man. "Trini y Sean (PATangoS)" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: --- Keith wrote: > One final question to the many expert followers out > there. I

Re: [Tango-L] Don't blame your follower ...keys

2007-12-17 Thread steve pastor
On Thursday the 13th Mario requested tips on "Close embrace in close quarters". I have yet to see a sinlge response. Meanwhile, there have been more than 20 responses in the "Boleo & Contra-boleo" thread. I guess this speaks volumes about the interests of our on line community. Tan

Re: [Tango-L] Don't blame your follower ...keys

2007-12-17 Thread steve pastor
being nice to a newbie', so I didn't bother. Keith, HK On Tue Dec 18 1:18 , steve pastor sent: >On Thursday the 13th Mario requested tips on > "Close embrace in close quarters". > I have yet to see a sinlge response. > Meanwhile, there have been more than 20 re

Re: [Tango-L] [OT] Men|Women|Dancing Ability [WAS Re: Don't blame your follower]

2007-12-17 Thread steve pastor
"And they cringe when they see the guys on 'Dancing With The Stars' wearing spandex and gliding around...no matter how masterful and powerful the dancing might be." And rightly so. But maybe not for the same reasons as I do, which is an almost complete lack of musicality, and absolutely a

Re: [Tango-L] plantar fasciitis

2007-12-21 Thread steve pastor
I went through a bout of this a few years ago.I'm kind of curious as to what you've spent $4,000 on, because I was able to get over it relatively inexpensively. Care to elaborate about what you've done so far? Tango For Her <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: Actually, I stretch A LOT. I m

Re: [Tango-L] plantar fasciitis

2007-12-23 Thread steve pastor
I healed completely, thank goodness, because, I think, I took what I read and was told, to heart. Having had both a badly strained hamstring, and tendonitiis on the outside of my foot (brevis), I had perhaps learned my lesson. I am convinced that for the most part, our bodies are reall

Re: [Tango-L] any advice for bad shoulders?

2007-12-24 Thread steve pastor
WHAT IS DANCE FLOOR ETIQUETTE? The first goal is to avoid injury - to the follower, to other dancers, and to walls and furniture and potted plants. It is customary not to teach or talk at all on the dance floor during a dance. If you want to talk or teach or discuss a step, it is polite

Re: [Tango-L] dancing with a broom

2007-12-27 Thread steve pastor
Broom's aren't the only ideal partners. Here's another idea, compliments of Lieber & Stoller: The sad sack was a sittin on a block of stone Way over in the corner weepin all alone. The warden said, hey, buddy, dont you be no square. If you cant find a partner use a wooden chair. Tango, ev

[Tango-L] steps for close embrace in close quarters (

2007-12-27 Thread steve pastor
Jay mentioned the ocho cortado. Take a look at the photos here http://www.tangoandchaos.org/chapt_3search/10ascent.htm to see just how little room you have to use. P.S. I love this site. Tons of good stuff. - Never miss a thing. Make Yahoo y

Re: [Tango-L] The Suggested Lead

2007-12-31 Thread steve pastor
Tango For Her wote: "I think that we all find that: (1) those who agree don't write back to the group (2) those who don't agree do write to the group. " There is at least one additional possibility... Some of us disagree but realize that there is no possiblity of changing your min

Re: [Tango-L] The Suggested Lead

2008-01-01 Thread steve pastor
First a note to the the list... I have communicated with Tango for Her regarding the questions and concerns about my previous post. Now... To me the discussion about visual clues is one of do you encourage people to use them, or not, and how much. More on propiorerception, th

[Tango-L] The Suggested Lead

2008-01-02 Thread steve pastor
No apologies required! Try as I might, I know I'll never be perfect. I think it would be worse to NOT point out an error! Thanks - Never miss a thing. Make Yahoo your homepage. ___ Tango-L mailing list Tan

Re: [Tango-L] rose in the mouth...ouch!

2008-01-09 Thread steve pastor
Here's a previous post on Finnish Tango - http://pythia.uoregon.edu/~llynch/Tango-L/2005/msg03194.html - Be a better friend, newshound, and know-it-all with Yahoo! Mobile. Try it now. ___ Tango-L mailing li

Re: [Tango-L] Popularity of Milonga (the dance)

2008-01-10 Thread steve pastor
"I mean how come there are not Milonga clubs that predominantly play Milongas rather then normal break from the Tangos?" Probably for the same reason that there aren't "Two Step Clubs" , but there are country western dance places where you get not only two step, but waltz, Cowboy Cha

Re: [Tango-L] Milonga, a guy thing.

2008-01-11 Thread steve pastor
regarding Charles’ post... "as Jayrabe pointed out, there are no pauses" Actually, what Jay wrote was, "you don't put many pauses in milonga". Without specific examples, I am certain that there are pauses in milongas. They are not long pauses, but they happen fairly frequently between

Re: [Tango-L] Milonga, a guy thing.

2008-01-11 Thread steve pastor
"You'd cross her at the half-beat instead of giving her a full beat to cross. If getting her to a cross from an ocho cortado is kosher, why wouldn't walking to (or through) the cross also be okay?" It works for me. And... If I can do three quick steps while leading two for my partner, why

Re: [Tango-L] Milonga rhythms

2008-01-14 Thread steve pastor
Jay wrote, "Was it Janis or Steven who wrote: > There are two rhythms in milonga: > > 1) double rhythm -- two steps in two beats of music; and > 2) triple rhythm (called traspie) -- three steps in two beats of music (like > a triple step in swing). I'm not a trained musician, except for piano