"That is; he sets the cadence the movements the vital feel of the dance. He is also responsible for what comes next, this in itself can be a BIG job and an intimidating one. This situation is a big reason why it should be the man who decides when and with whom to dance."
He may decide with whom he wishes to dance, but it is the follower/woman who actually makes the final decision. She may accept or look away when he uses the cabaceo or say "yes or no" when he asks her directly. http://www.torontoagentinetango.blogspot.com _______________________________________________ Tango-L mailing list Tango-L@mit.edu http://mailman.mit.edu/mailman/listinfo/tango-l