"A woman who is good also needs to understand that she will have a big
effect in influencing the quality of the men's dancing in her community. If
she expects them to come up to her standard. If she doesn't lower her own.
She needs to be the muse. If she wants to help the men in the community
im
Sean here. I should know better, but here are a few of my thoughts on the
subject.
--- Patricia Katz wrote:
"I see many leaders with very good potential stay at a level that
is below their ability; these leaders don't take workshops or privates when
very good teachers are in town. It seems most
> As for this whole card/cabaceo issue, I wonder if it is all over a single
> girl who can't say "no"?
Gosh, how naive I was to think we managed to close this part of the
discussion.
No, if you want to point fingers, point towards me. I can't count
the times I've heard followers complaining ab
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> From: Trini y Sean (PATangoS) patan...@yahoo.com From Sean.
> These women need a serious reality check about their own abilities. >
Agree. Many beginner ladies can get dances with good leaders and they
soon have an inflated sense of their own ability. Thereafter, t
Trini, here.
--- On Tue, 10/19/10, Balazs Gyenis wrote:
. This made me think about how they could handle the
> problem and tried to come up with a solution which (a) could plausibly
> reduce refusal stress,
Stress is a result of feeling a lack of control. Give a person a sense of
control and
