I agree with Melina, she nailed this topic. Use the cabaceo, people, it
works, everywhere, even in America. Its human nature. The only
exception is where milonga organizers keep it so darn dark you have to
use radar instead of cabaceo to find partners, which is unfortunately
becoming more common
""In a setting where men are allowed to invite directly, why should
women be not?
Hey! We're living in the 20th century. Why should women not be allowed
to invite a man, rather than sit around all night, because they're not
noticed or unknown or because nobody knows how to use the Cabeceo in
> From: Mario sopel...@yahoo.com
> In other words..please, have
> patience and wait, ladies.
>
Just one or two questions, Mario. Firstly, has any
woman at a milonga, ever asked you to dance?
If yes, how did you reply?
Jack
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On 09/06/2009, at 3:23 AM, Nussbaum, Martin wrote:
> If a woman turns
> down the invite, whether verbal or cabaceo, in a definitvely cold
> manner, such as slowly shaking her head no, why would you ever want to
> ask that woman again ? Let her dance with Gary Barn.
But that was not what I was ta
> But that was not what I was talking about. There were people here
saying that if a woman says no (for any reason, in any way), then they
blacklist her.
It's not a question of blacklisting, but of taking no for an answer.
If a woman didn't want to dance with me 10 minutes ago, or last week,
John said:
>
> It's not a question of blacklisting, but of taking no for an answer.
> If a woman didn't want to dance with me 10 minutes ago, or last week,
> or in November 1962, I assume she doesn't want to dance with me now.
I suppose I have less absolute settings. There are some women where
