It's easy to put oneself in a category, noticing that many other dancers are not the same.
We could be new or experienced; like to dance close, or not; prefer nuevo or not, etc. Here is a category I am in: I don't REALLY enjoy dancing if there is no conversation. By that I mean - both people expressing themselves. For this to happen, the leader has to allow it - invite it. If he dances always doing what he wants without giving the woman space and time to decide little things for herself sometimes, the conversation cannot take place on a meaningful level of interaction. Well, it's a topic I have given thought to for a while because it really has impacted on my dancing enjoyment. More at ToTANGO.net. _______________________________________________ Tango-L mailing list Tango-L@mit.edu http://mailman.mit.edu/mailman/listinfo/tango-l