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All of us?
My, my, that's going to be quite a network...
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--- On Wed, 2/2/11, sherp...@aol.com wrote:
what i said initially ,which was never met with a rejoinder(an answer to a
reply) was this: "the man creates a space that invites the woman to
move into, not pushing or shoving, but inviting" as gavito said," the
lead moves the woman away from the
i am a teacher of tangoi teach men to lead , i do not teach on the
dance floor I charge for lessons...I have danced and studied tango
since 1998 and I know what is necessary for a woman to follow from a
man who is trying to lead. the assumptions that have been made about
me, my skills
On 02/02/2011 20:13, sherp...@aol.com wrote:
> thank you mr. huck for continuing to ignore me...why is a simple statement
> of my feelings about men ignoring women's tango advice so over the top...
Because it lumps al men together and is overgeneralising, as I also
said.
> it further illuminates
thank you mr. huck for continuing to ignore me...why is a simple statement
of my feelings about men ignoring women's tango advice so over the top...it
further illuminates the inabilties of some male posters to take women's
answers, suggestions and comments about tango and the list seriously.
On Wed, Feb 2, 2011 at 11:19 AM, barbara
wrote:
> On 01/02/2011 10:04 p.m., sherp...@aol.com wrote:
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>> i notice over and over again, that this list is mainly made of up men
>> who communicate only with one another...when a woman responds, she is
>> cut off or ignored...
>
> Gee I thought it was
Well said! Always the Same, same, same.
Patricia
http://www.torontoargentinetango.blogspot.com
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Gee I thought it was only me!
On 01/02/2011 10:04 p.m., sherp...@aol.com wrote:
> i notice over and over again, that this list is mainly made of up men
> who communicate only with one another...when a woman responds, she is
> cut off or ignored...if this is how you dialogue, it must be an
> indica
On 02/02/2011 05:04, sherp...@aol.com wrote:
> i notice over and over again, that this list is mainly made of up men
> who communicate only with one another...when a woman responds, she is
> cut off or ignored...
I read you post to the end, just to be sure you don't accuse me of
cutting you off, b
>when a woman responds, she is
>cut off or ignored...if this is how you dialogue, it must be an
>indicator of how you dance( with all the hand wringing and
>complaining) totally self-focused men, ignoring the woman's point of
>view
A little slack directed our way is necessary.
I do think
i notice over and over again, that this list is mainly made of up men
who communicate only with one another...when a woman responds, she is
cut off or ignored...if this is how you dialogue, it must be an
indicator of how you dance( with all the hand wringing and
complaining) totally self-focus
John said:
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> It's not a question of blacklisting, but of taking no for an answer.
> If a woman didn't want to dance with me 10 minutes ago, or last week,
> or in November 1962, I assume she doesn't want to dance with me now.
I suppose I have less absolute settings. There are some women where
> Sent: Sunday, June 07, 2009 7:40 PM
> Subject: [Tango-L] Invitation & refusal
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> Hey! We're living in the 20th century.
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> Hey! We're living in the 20th century.
betwixt and between...
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=c1KEFgD6Dtg
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Subject: [Tango-L] Invitation & refusal
Hey! We&#
> But that was not what I was talking about. There were people here
saying that if a woman says no (for any reason, in any way), then they
blacklist her.
It's not a question of blacklisting, but of taking no for an answer.
If a woman didn't want to dance with me 10 minutes ago, or last week,
On 09/06/2009, at 3:23 AM, Nussbaum, Martin wrote:
> If a woman turns
> down the invite, whether verbal or cabaceo, in a definitvely cold
> manner, such as slowly shaking her head no, why would you ever want to
> ask that woman again ? Let her dance with Gary Barn.
But that was not what I was ta
> From: Mario sopel...@yahoo.com
> In other words..please, have
> patience and wait, ladies.
>
Just one or two questions, Mario. Firstly, has any
woman at a milonga, ever asked you to dance?
If yes, how did you reply?
Jack
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In a message dated 6/9/2009 9:12:53 AM Eastern Daylight Time,
ro...@websa.com.au writes:
Has anyone else noticed that some people seem to dance to everything
In reference to that sentence on your post, I have seen dancers dancing
even to the National Anthon music (very common expressio
> From: roger
> Some people will dance to
> every tanda., indiscriminately. > >
Perhaps they just love to dance and/or enjoy
a wider taste in tango music than you do.
Jack
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""In a setting where men are allowed to invite directly, why should
women be not?
Hey! We're living in the 20th century. Why should women not be allowed
to invite a man, rather than sit around all night, because they're not
noticed or unknown or because nobody knows how to use the Cabeceo in
I have turned offers of dances down, because I don't feel anything for that
set of songs/tunes and consequently will not do it justice. I will however
promise to dance the next tanda that "turns me on".
This leads me to ask a question:-
Has anyone else noticed that some people seem to dance
Long live the cabeceo!
It protects everyone. The tradition developed for good reasons, as did the
other milonga codes.
The communication involved is uncomplicated body language. Difficult to
teach? What's so hard about it? As long as you can make eye contact with
another person, you can do it.
I agree with Melina, she nailed this topic. Use the cabaceo, people, it
works, everywhere, even in America. Its human nature. The only
exception is where milonga organizers keep it so darn dark you have to
use radar instead of cabaceo to find partners, which is unfortunately
becoming more common
>
Hi all.
Dan asked:
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> In the end, and dare I raise the question, "Should a woman ever
> ask a
> man to dance" at a milonga that is? If they're friends, dance
> partners
> etc. that's a different story. I don't think it generally fits in
> with the
> style, origins and etiquette
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