Natalie, I understand that very well. My husband tends very good care of my every need. It is necessary for him to have some downtime for himself in order to care for me properly and not lose his mind. He is an avid golfer, and we arranged for other family members to be with me for two or three days in order for him to go on his golf outings. I talked with caregivers as well as the ones that needing taking care of. I know my husband doesn't complain to me about my still know what they go through by talking with the other caregivers. When they are constantly there, they need time for themselves as well.
Naomi C-4 quad since July 2, 2005 ************************************** See what's free at http://www.aol.com.