I've locked my box down too tight

[sjm]

In an attempt to set up a very secure server I have locked it down too much.  I 
need to at least be able to ssh into it (Surely I can figure out the rest if I 
can get that far).  I ran Bastille and selected the strictest options in most 
every case (Even to set default deny on tcp wrappers and xinetd).  I have added 
rules to iptables to allow everything from my work machine's ip and to allow my 
work machine's ip in hosts.allow.  I have also closed down EVERYTHING from the 
'netstat -a' command that was listening except ports 80 and 22.  The following 
are the changes I made:

added the following to iptables (the first rule in the INPUT chain logs 
connections):
iptables -I INPUT 2 -s $WORK_MACHINE_IP -d $SERVER_IP -j ACCEPT

added the following to hosts.allow:
sshd: $WORK_MACHINE_IP $WORK_MACHINE_NAME
Also, what do packets go through first, tcp_wrappers or iptable, or something else?

The machine isn't even logging the connection attempts.  I have the log level 
set to 'notice' for kernel messages.

Thanks,

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