> > > > > > > My Lessons in Life > >(An Article Address by > Azim Premji in the 'Shaping Young Minds Program' (SYMP) on 'My Lessons in > Life'. Azim Premji ranks 21 on The World's Billionaires 2007 - Forbes.com) > >I am very happy to be here with you. It is always > wonderful to be with young people. As my >hair turned from black, to salt and pepper and finally > salt without the pepper, I have begun to realize the importance of youth. At > the same time, I have begun to truly appreciate some of the lessons I > have learnt along the way. I hope you will find them useful when you plan > your own career and life. > >1- > The first thing I have learnt is that we must always > begin with our strengths. > >There is an imaginary story of a rabbit. The rabbit was > enrolled in a rabbit school. Like all rabbits, it could hop very well but > could not swim. At the end of the year, the rabbit got high marks in hopping > but failed in swimming. > >The parents were concerned. They said, 'Forget about > hopping. You are, anyway good at it. Concentrate on swimming.' > >They sent the rabbit for tuitions in swimming. And > guess what happened? The rabbit forgot how to hop! As for swimming, have > you ever seen a rabbit swim? > >While it is important for us to know what we are not > good at, we must also cherish what is good in us. That is because it is only > our strengths that can give us the energy to correct our weaknesses. > >2- > The second lesson I have learnt is that a rupee earned > is of far more value than five found. > >My friend was sharing with me, the story of > his eight year-old niece. She would always complain about the breakfast. > The cook tried everything possible, but the child remained unhappy. > >Finally, my friend took the child to a supermarket and > brought one of those ready-to-cook cereal packets. The child had to cut the > packet and pour water in the dish. The child found the food to be absolutely > delicious. The difference was that she had cooked it! > >In my own life, I have found that nothing gives as > much satisfaction as earning our own rewards. In fact, what is gifted or > inherited follows the old rule of 'come easy, go easy'. I guess we only know > the value of what we have, if we have struggled to earn it. > >3- > The third lesson I have learnt is, in Cricket, no one > bats a hundred every time. > >Life has many challenges. You win some and lose some. > You must enjoy winning. But do not let it go to the head. The moment it > does, you are already on your way to failure. > >And if you do encounter failure along the way, treat it > as an equally natural phenomenon. Don't beat yourself for it or anyone else > for that matter! Accept it, look at your own share in the problem, learn > from it and move on. > >The important thing is, when you lose, do not > 'lose the lesson'. > >4- > The fourth lesson I have learnt, is the importance of > humility. > >Sometimes, when you get so much in life, you really > start wondering, whether you deserve all of it. We have so much to be > grateful > for. Our parents, our teachers and our seniors, have done so much for us, > that we can never repay them. > >Many people focus on the shortcomings, because > obviously, no one can be perfect. But it is important to first acknowledge, > what we have received. Nothing in life is permanent, but when a relationship > ends, rather than becoming bitter, we must learn to savor the memory, of the > good things, while they lasted. > >5- > The fifth lesson I learnt is, that we must always > strive for Excellence. > >One way of achieving excellence, is by looking at those > better than ourselves. Keep learning what they do differently. But excellence > cannot be imposed from the outside. We must also feel the need from within. > It must involve not only our mind, but also our heart and soul. > >Excellence is not an act, but a habit. I remember the > inspiring lines of a poem, which says that “Your reach must always > exceed your grasp”. That is heaven on earth. Ultimately, your only > competition is yourself. > >6- > The sixth lesson I have learnt is, never give up in the > face of adversity. > >It comes on you, suddenly without warning. Always keep > in mind, that it is only the test of fire, that makes fine steel. > >A friend of mine shared this incident with me. His > eight-year old daughter was struggling away at a jigsaw puzzle. She kept > at it for hours but could not succeed. Finally, it went beyond her bedtime. > >My friend told her, "Look, why don't you just give > up? I don't think you will complete it tonight. Look at it another > day." > >The daughter looked with a strange look in her eyes, > "But, dad, why should I give up? All the pieces are there! I have just > got to put them together!" > >If we persevere long enough, we can put any problem > into its perspective. > >7- > The seventh lesson I have learnt is, that while you > must be open to change, do not compromise on your values. > >Mahatma Gandhiji often said, "You must open > the windows of your mind, but you must not be swept off your feet by the > breeze." > >Values like honesty, integrity, consideration and > humility have survived for generations. At the >end of the day, it is values that define a person > more than the achievements. Do not be tempted by short cuts. The short cut > can make you lose your way and end up becoming the longest way to the > destination. > >8- > And the final lesson I learnt is, that we must have > faith in our own ideas even if everyone tells us that we are wrong. > >There was once a newspaper vendor who had a rude > customer. Every morning, the Customer >would walk by, refuse to return the greeting, grab the > paper off the shelf and throw the money at the vendor. The vendor would > pick up the money, smile politely and say, 'Thank you, Sir.' > >One day, the vendor's assistant asked him, "Why > are you always so polite with him when he is so rude to you? Why don't you > throw the newspaper at him when he comes back tomorrow?" > >The vendor smiled and replied, "He can't help > being rude and I can't help being polite. Why should I let his rude behavior > dictate my politeness?" > > >I hope you achieve success in whatever way you define > it and what gives you the maximum happiness in life. > >"Remember, those who win are those who believe > they can." > >“Prayer is not a spare wheel that you pull out > when YOU ARE IN TROUBLE, It is a steering wheel that keeps you on the right > path throughout your life. > > > > > > > > >__._,_.__ >. > >__,_._,___ --~--~---------~--~----~------------~-------~--~----~ You received this message because you are subscribed to the Google Groups "shiagroup" group. To post to this group, send email to shiagroup@googlegroups.com To unsubscribe from this group, send email to shiagroup+unsubscr...@googlegroups.com For more options, visit this group at http://groups.google.com/group/shiagroup?hl=en -~----------~----~----~----~------~----~------~--~---