My personal thoughts: I just don't think it is even okay to go out and "flirt" and carry on. That is putting attention that I feel is appropriate to another woman other then your spouse. Can you do that and still show you are cherishing?
AJ
That's a hard one to answer, but I still go back to what I said before. Cheating is a result of a broken relationship. I know all the wives of the guys I go out with very well. It seems to me that they don't mind because they know that there marriage or relationship is so strong that nothing will happen. I really don't how to explain it. I do somehow feel that it makes there relationship even stronger. It just seems to work for them.
Gary
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