Maybe some who have strayed realized what they were about to lose and have changed. It does happen. I know the statistics say otherwise, but there are always exceptions. The main thing is they have worked through this and the marriage is stronger. I do believe you can forgive..but you never forget...and if it was me, I would wonder everytime anything didn't appear right...he was running late? any phone calls that were out of the ordinary...stuff that makes the hair on the back of the neck stand up stuff.
Laurie --- [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: > In a message dated 9/30/2003 10:17:41 AM Eastern > Daylight Time, > [EMAIL PROTECTED] writes: > > > I just have to argue that one. My husband cheated > once and he knows better > > than to do it again. He's paid the price and he > didnt like it and he knows > > what will happen if he does it again and since we > got all that worked out, > > things are better than ever. > > but MOST cheaters will repeat. There a FEW who will > never stray after the > first time, but for the most part a cheater who > strayed once will stray again > > ________________________________ > > Changes to your subscription (unsubs, nomail, > digest) can be made by going to > http://sandboxmail.net/mailman/listinfo/sndbox_sandboxmail.net ===== I wanted a perfect ending... Now, I've learned, the hard way, that some poems don't rhyme, and some stories don't have a clear beginning, middle, and end. Life is about not knowing, having to change, taking the moment, and making the best of it, without knowing what's going to happen next. Delicious ambiguity. --Gilda Radner __________________________________ Do you Yahoo!? The New Yahoo! Shopping - with improved product search http://shopping.yahoo.com ________________________________ Changes to your subscription (unsubs, nomail, digest) can be made by going to http://sandboxmail.net/mailman/listinfo/sndbox_sandboxmail.net
