Maybe you should teach Ms. Lily. :-)
David L.
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ok i have some major problems with these tips
They'll also walk away with practical solutions for common blowjob hazards such as gagging, jaw strain and boredom. Admit it, gals, we've all had a moment or two where we end up compiling a grocery list or planned tomorrow's outfit while wishing he would just come already, have we not?
you wanna avoid jaw strain? dont be thnking of tomorrows grocery list. sex is 95% mental if he senses your not into it he wont be into it and then it will take forever.
Unfortunately, it's not like we can rely on the boys to give us any ideas on how to make it more interesting. "Some guys are so quiet, you're tempted to check for a pulse," jokes Fine. And "that was great" is nice but not very helpful. Women are detail-oriented. We need specifics.
whats wrong with asking the guy what he wants? and i have to say ive never seen a man quiet during a bj so that should be a big signal somethings not right.
If you're a gagger, offers Fine, use your hand around the base of his penis to control how much goes in your mouth. If he wants deep-throat action, tell him your mouth isn't your vagina, and you can't fit it all in. And if he's one of those charmers who tries to force it by shoving your head into his lap, simply remind him that you have one of his most valued body parts in your mouth.
number 1 if you threaten a man about biting its going to take a very long time for him to relax and finish the job. fear of amputation is not a turnon for men. number two there are many tricks to relax the throat to be able to deepthroat. most men though only want to try that once to see if you can do that. it actually does very little since the main erotic points are at the base of the head. if you do it right they wont even care if you deepthroat.
And, yes, boredom can indeed set in if you're always sticking to the same routine. Just don't sacrifice comfort for experimentation.
if they are bored with a bj your doing something wrong, routine has nothing to do with it
"You want to be able to move around easily without needing to see a chiropractor the next day," she says. To avoid back strain, Fine suggests that rather than kneeling over him, get him to stand while you sit in a chair. That way you can relax, watch TV...
watch tv? yeah ok. im sure a man would deeply appreciate knowing your more interested in i love lucy reruns then him.
And instead of just taking his dick in your mouth and sucking madly, advises Fine, try using suction around the glans (the head of the penis) and coronal ridge (the ridge that runs around the bottom of the head). It's less tiring than attempting to suck his whole penis and a whole lot more comfortable for you and your jaw.
if you hit the right spot on that ridge then your jaw wont have to tire for the simple fact you can acheive success without even putting him in your mouth
As for getting his bum in on the action, well, that's your call. Some women are simply not comfy going there, no matter how many showers he's had. If this is the case, but he'd like a little rimming action (obviously, not all men are comfy going there either), try using a dental dam, suggests Fine. In fact, you can place a dental dam right over his balls and bum and go nuts without any actual tongue-to-skin contact.
if the partner finds it that bad then they shouldnt do it all. what a mood killer to say honey i find your skin gross let me put a dental dam on so i dont have to touch it
And, yes, men like it when you swallow. "It shows you love and accept him," says Fine. Of course, you might not want to swallow if there's a risk of STIs or HIV, or if it makes you gag. In the latter case, let him come in your mouth, but let it slowly dribble out the side so you don't actually swallow it. As for taste, Fine insists fruit like pineapple or strawberries will sweeten the load. Fine once met a 70-year-old woman who told her that her husband knows he's gonna get lucky that night when she feeds him fruit cocktail.
ok my question on this is why would you blow a guy who has sti or hiv? and peppermints work better for flavor
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