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Dang i miss that show :-( i miss HBO period
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Date: Monday, January
12, 2004 05:08:47 AM
Subject: RE: [Sndbox]
They have BJ classes?
Neil and I watch this a lot. They've been doing the best of the
past couple
weeks.
Angela
"We are all books of blood, wherever opened we are red"
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Sent: Monday, January 12, 2004 5:31 AM
To: The Sandbox Discussion List
Subject: Re: [Sndbox] They have BJ classes?
Real Sex had something about this a while back.
Laurie
> Head shop
>
>
>
>
>
> We were in my friend's furnished basement. It was a
> potluck affair so there
> was a ton of food. If it weren't for the bin of
> rubber dildos on the coffee
> table, you'd swear it was a bridal shower.
>
> Later, looking around at the room full of women
> eagerly sucking on
> condom-covered dildos, all I could think was, "Wow,
> men are so lucky."
>
>
> Somehow, I just can't imagine a bunch of guys in a
> room practicing
> cunnilingus on rubber vaginas in an effort to
> improve their technique.
>
>
> But there we were, 32 of us, diligently sucking
> away, hoping to learn how to
> give a better blowjob. Our teacher, sex educator
> Lily Fine
> at the front of the
> room: "Okay, circle that tongue around the tip...
> and one, and two... now
> reverse, and circle the other way."
>
>
> I know what you're thinking. "What's to learn?" you
> ask. "Guys are easy to
> please - a few licks, some sucking, and he's pretty
> much on his way."
>
>
> Fine, however, doesn't teach her Giving Head and
> Hand Job workshops solely
> to please men (though many partners of the women who
> take her workshop have
> called the next day to thank her). Instead, the
> workshops are designed to
> give women sexual confidence.
>
>
> "I want women to walk away from this workshop
> thinking, 'I am soooo
> scorching,'" she tells us.
>
>
> They'll also walk away with practical solutions for
> common blowjob hazards
> such as gagging, jaw strain and boredom. Admit it,
> gals, we've all had a
> moment or two where we end up compiling a grocery
> list or planned tomorrow's
> outfit while wishing he would just come already,
> have we not?
>
>
> Unfortunately, it's not like we can rely on the boys
> to give us any ideas on
> how to make it more interesting. "Some guys are so
> quiet, you're tempted to
> check for a pulse," jokes Fine. And "that was great"
> is nice but not very
> helpful. Women are detail-oriented. We need
> specifics.
>
>
> If you're a gagger, offers Fine, use your hand
> around the base of his penis
> to control how much goes in your mouth. If he wants
> deep-throat action, tell
> him your mouth isn't your vagina, and you can't fit
> it all in. And if he's
> one of those charmers who tries to force it by
> shoving your head into his
> lap, simply remind him that you have one of his most
> valued body parts in
> your mouth.
>
>
> And, yes, boredom can indeed set in if you're always
> sticking to the same
> routine. Just don't sacrifice comfort for
> experimentation.
>
>
> "You want to be able to move around easily without
> needing to see a
> chiropractor the next day," she says. To avoid back
> strain, Fine suggests
> that rather than kneeling over him, get him to stand
> while you sit in a
> chair. That way you can relax, watch TV...
>
>
> And instead of just taking his dick in your mouth
> and sucking madly, advises
> Fine, try using suction around the glans (the head
> of the penis) and coronal
> ridge (the ridge that runs around the bottom of the
> head). It's less tiring
> than attempting to suck his whole penis and a whole
> lot more comfortable for
> you and your jaw. Besides, it's a big turn-on for
> him. As is licking the
> frenulum, which is right at the base the head. Try a
> little warm breathing
> on his penis or place it against your neck and purr
> for some good
> vibrations. Tease him by taking him in inch-by-inch
> and when his penis
> leaves your mouth, give it a parting kiss.
>
>
> As for "the boys," playing ball varies from guy to
> guy. "For some guys, a
> simple wave hello might be enough, while some guys
> like having their balls
> held," says Fine. "Other guys like their balls
> squeezed or tugged."
>
>
> Try putting some lube in your hand and sliding it
> over his balls while
> sucking on his penis, she suggests. If he likes a
> little more ball action,
> try "tea bagging," that is, gently sucking each ball
> into your mouth. You
> might even try GENTLY running your teeth over them.
>
>
> As for getting his bum in on the action, well,
> that's your call. Some women
> are simply not comfy going there, no matter how many
> showers he's had. If
> this is the case, but he'd like a little rimming
> action (obviously, not all
> men are comfy going there either), try using a
> dental dam, suggests Fine. In
> fact, you can place a dental dam right over his
> balls and bum and go nuts
> without any actual tongue-to-skin contact.
>
>
> Once you've got him well on his way to orgasm,
> establish a rhythm and
> maintain it. You know how when he's going down on
> you and you're about to
> come and the big goof shifts, like, one millimetre
> to the left and totally
> blows it? Same deal.
>
>
> And, yes, men like it when you swallow. "It shows
> you love and accept him,"
> says Fine. Of course, you might not want to swallow
> if there's a risk of
> STIs or HIV, or if it makes you gag. In the latter
> case, let him come in
> your mouth, but let it slowly dribble out the side
> so you don't actually
> swallow it. As for taste, Fine insists fruit like
> pineapple or strawberries
> will sweeten the load. Fine once met a 70-year-old
> woman who told her that
> her husband knows he's gonna get lucky that night
> when she feeds him fruit
> cocktail.
>
>
> Oh, by the way, it's worth noting: If you're sucking
> really hard and he
> ejaculates, it may not go down your throat and you
> could end up with a sinus
> infection. Hey, don't laugh. According to Fine, it
> happens to 7 per cent of
> heavy suckers.
>
>
> One last thing: Make eye contact when you're giving
> head. It says, "I've got
> you where I want you and I'm enjoying this."
>
>
> After all, says Fine, you can learn all the tricks
> in the book, but being
> enthusiastic about what you're doing is the biggest
> turn-on of all.
>
>
> Next week: hand jobs!
>
>
>
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