Oh Now I understand- I have to "court" the vendor before I order , or I mean before I am priviledged enough to have them service me. Well now I know that all I have to do is send some flowers before my order is called in and all will be OK. ;-) Vince D ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Mike Stump [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: Vince, I don't know you but I have to comment.. At 10:21 AM 1/12/00 EST, you wrote: >I e-mailed Sal and informed him that I was hesitant to order from >his company based on the negative feedback that I had rec'd. Well he >basically told me to "pound sand" and go elsewhere, his anger was coming >through even on an e-mail.<< take another look at this... is this any way to open a conversation with someone? regardless of wether or not a transaction is involved.. if I were on the other end of this opening statement from someone I didn't know (I've heard it, sold cars & trucks for a time) I become wary from the onset myself... >This after I was completely civil in my original post.<< what you thought was civil in anothers eyes is a put-off... add a personality that's a little caustic and you got what you got, "pound sand" maybe an approach on e-mail (or phone) like "hey, I'm new, don't know if I'm ready to purchase yet, but I'm looking for some specific information.." might pave a path inviting more constructive and civil communication from the beginning.. >>Most companies would have responded with something like "we will try >our best to meet your needs" or " we have had a rough past few months , but >we are working on bettering our service".<< had you tried the above this may have been more likely to happen.. >> I e-mailed him back and said I was >going elsewhere with my business, I never heard a word after that.<< Again, you set the tone for this interchange, or lack of it. >> In the end I did all that I could, I informed him why he was losing a >customer,<< You're correct that you did all that you could, to doom this deal from the beginning. >>NSP has this info >splattered all over the net, but they don't appear to care.<< I think they do care.. The people they care most about are those that want to do business in a respectful, fair, communication. That doesn't mean tow-towing to Sal or anyone else.. >>To me their attitude is clear, " >we are making money doing it this way, and we will continue to do so until >the money stops coming in, THEN we will change something"<< Remember as a seller, they have the right to measure your approach and attitude and they may not want your money.. Mike Stump [EMAIL PROTECTED] RCSE-List facilities provided by Model Airplane News. Send "subscribe" and "unsubscribe" requests to [EMAIL PROTECTED]