Kenyans are selfish, insensitive to other people's presence and needs
Published Saturday, April 28 2012 at 00:00 Loss of the ability to feel ashamed is the loss of everything. It is the loss of the self, the ultimate loss. You are dead. It does not matter that you can eat, walk, laugh, and do all the things that the living do. Moral laryngitis and ethical paralysis is death. This is what Wole Soyinka talks o f in the treatise The Man Died. There are a lot of walking dead persons out there. Zombies, you would say. Ken Njiru of Ungwana Foundation is in the habit of making a dichotomy between what he calls Ungwana and Ushenzi. Ungwana is the ability to feel ashamed. It is the capacity to be sensitive and sensible to other people’s presence and needs. Ushenzi is quite the opposite. The mshenzi is a dead fellow. It doesn’t matter that he drives in the latest Lamborghini, dresses in purple and feasts copiously. He is dead if he is insensitive. Could anything be more obvious? To be sensitive and sensible to other people’s presence does not mean that they must be there with you, physically. Even their futuristic presence in this place, and in your own absence, matters. That is why you have seen where it is written, "Leave this toilet as clean as you should like to find it." The thought of using the washroom and leaving it decent for other people’s use belongs to that dying faculty. The ability to be ashamed – in essence the ability to remain human. If you should take a biblical approach, you will see Adam and Eve covering themselves with leaves in the Garden of Aden. They are conscious of God’s approaching presence, hence the need to cover their nakedness. The merits of what they had done aside, it is this consciousness that defines them as human. The Adam and Eve that we have seen before this event are noble savages. This is what Statist philosophers like Jean-Jacques Rousseau, and John Locke and Thomas Hobbes before him, would call them. They are asocial characters. Their entire concern in life is self-centric; no wonder they eat of the forbidden tree. To the extent that the noble savage uses his might to get whatever he wants, he is satisfied. It does not matter whom he tramples upon in the process, whose head he steps on. Such were the thoughts that visited me while I was stuck in traffic on Mombasa Road, Nairobi, for close to three hours, on Tuesday evening. Mombasa Road has enjoyed some broadening of sorts in the past two years. This critical artery is many an international visitor’s first impression of Kenya, leading as it does from the Jomo Kenyatta International Airport (JKIA). It is also the exit vein for such a visitor. The broadening of the road was among other things meant to take care of the local and international traveler, relative to JKIA. Needless to say, many have missed their flight whenever it drizzles along Mombasa Road. But it is not only along Mombasa Road that you will get stuck in unending traffic in Nairobi for the simple reason that it is drizzling. People were messed up in traffic everywhere in Nairobi, on Tuesday. The reason was not that it rained. On the contrary, it is just that we have evolved into a very hostile, selfish and shameless people. It only takes a gentle evening shower to rankle these base attributes in us. As a rule, Nairobians will not give you way in the traffic, even when common sense would suggest that it is in everybody’s interest. Every so often, you are stuck alone on the side road, waiting for a gentle spirit to allow you to join the traffic. Eventually, you have to elbow your way in by force, occasioning primitive honking. If you should be the gentle soul that tries to give way to another motorist, you will attract not just hostile honking. The fellow behind you flashes at you with perfect primitive impatience. He pulls out of the traffic and swings by your side. He utters obscenities and executes rude finger signs. Then he pulls off just as violently and primitively as he came. In the process, he almost runs into other people and blocks oncoming traffic. This is a dead fellow. That is why I don’t bother sink to his level, to answer him back. There are many like him, everywhere. You sink to their level if you answer them back. But why should there be a traffic jam on the superhighway that is Thika Road? When Eldoret North MP William Ruto was Minister for Higher Education, he said that in order for Kenya to realise Vision 2030, we needed to train more engineers and less liberal artists. I strongly disagreed. The reason we dither and flounder behind the rest of humankind is not that we do not train engineers. It is simply because the human being within us is dead. Our problem is not that we do not have superhighways. We simply do not care to be human. We have lost the ability to be ashamed, even if we cannot empathise with the next person. That is why we do psychotic and sociopathic things on the roads. The rot is everywhere. Even as we drive from church on Sunday, we behave exactly the same way. The message on Christly goodness evaporates the moment we step out of the holy shrine. Christ can wait for our next rendezvous with him, same time and place next week. It is the same in the academies and in the leafy suburbs where the cream of our society lives. It is at its worst in the economic and political domains. In finance, Kenyans will call you an idiot if you do not use your office to line your pocket with stolen wealth. That was why a few years ago, high school teachers brought our children to Nairobi, to take autographs from suspected thieves in the Goldenberg scandal. We are the dead, look no further. The writer is a publishing editor and National Director of Communications at Raila for President Secretariat Comments in chronological order (Total 3 comments) Winnie21 May 2012 12:30 PM Thats very true,i think majority of people are being driven by selfishnes and self-centeredness,they have totaly forgotten that as humanbeings relationships are the basis of our lives and that our success on the higher percentage depends on our relationship with people,thanks Maisha wa Ulimwengu18 May 2012 9:03 AM Would the author reflect on his recent article on Mudavadi? What if you reflected on the Kenyans virtues and challenge them to use them to fight the vices? What a tragedy to read all the calousness in the society? Who then is the role model? Reversing a broken down society is very expensive. Good luck in your observation. The glass is half full because for many non-urbanised Kenyans. Remember self-absorption creates a depressed society. You can have any material you may acquire but it takes very simple basic human decorum to be peaceful and kind. Kenyans lost the Harambee spirit and pride as the media and politicians became the authority in the transation to Western values. Christianity, the dorminant religion lost its salt by way of rotten clergy(I am sure the author is no stranger to this having been in touch with religion himself). A disintegrated society can only be humanized legally, that is what the Western world has evolved into. This is a tall order. Consequently, the social ties are loose. The law has to babysit the conscience. Indeed a prizy responsibility. So long. JoHn Okumu18 May 2012 1:50 AMI was hoping you would point out the very obvious dead people walking whom we elected to parliament who lack a shred of remorse or a conscience .The word enough does not exist in their vocabulary.How can someone who cannot see beyond their self interests and self be in a position to have your best interests at heart?How a segment of Kenyans can be so callous is beyond me.Maybe it will have to take God's intervention in these matters. -- You received this message because you are subscribed to the Google Groups "South Sudan Info - The Kob" group. To post to this group, send email to [email protected]. To unsubscribe from this group, send email to [email protected]. For more options, visit this group at http://groups.google.com/group/SouthSudanKob?hl=en.
