> On Sep 23, 2015, at 10:19 AM, Dave Cridland <d...@cridland.net> wrote: > > Oh, hmmm - is that saying you'd like both, but <private/> should be outbound > only?
yes, because one specifically telling my server how I want it to handle stanzas I sent, the other is providing a hint to whatever entities might handle the stanza.