 I no longer trust him. I believe God also knows how deeply hard it is for some of us to carry this out so He often provides comfort, strength and community to help us do so. The feelings, attitudes and even the extent of the involvement can be the same, as well as the consequences for the marriage it affects. People buy things every day. As long as the root problem of the marital infidelity is not dealt with your depression and sadness is not likely to get any better. So I told him this was either going to make it or not, but that he had to go. I have a mom who is very critically abusive to me and one Christian brother told me that I have to put up with her put-downs because God commanded me to honor her. Though medication might help you cope with things in the short run, you'd just be medicating a symptom instead of working on the cause. I strongly believe it is better to not cover up abuse. That's a great step because covering up such severe problems only serves to keep them in the dark and continues to give them power. Organizations like churches, hospitals, community centers and recovery groups sometimes offer free support groups or individual counseling based on a sliding scale fee. Even with all the information we have given it as a society over the past several decades, domestic violence remains a common struggle for many individuals and couples. Some individuals are intimidated or afraid of the idea of going for counseling and e-counseling offers a positive solution to bridge that gap. I think it has something to do with the fact that I am so sad and depressed about my problems with my marriage that I almost take it out on him. He had to discontinue going because we aren't able to afford it. I think that your 'trust radar' is right on target and that you have very reason to be vigilant and deeply concerned. In sum, there are different ways that you can honor your mother without subjecting yourself to further abuse and you don't need to feel guilty about it. And I certainly understand your concern in your husband's sudden lack of allowing you to read his secret e-mail account. The application offers directions, local search, scalable maps, satellite imagery, and traffic updates. People buy things every day. Give him some time and space, and whatever you do don't stop loving him and being there for him. I did so in order to not have to keep this secret to my self. |
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