Ah Niki, come to nyc, where the gender imbalance is in your favor! Entonces, most leaders here are very aggressive in trying to get tandas. Not only will they use verbal invites, but some, pretending to be gallant but really coming off as boorish, will even interrupt your conversations, extending their hand between a man and the woman he is speaking with to get her onto the dance floor. I agree with Sergio re the value of the codigos and I refuse to give up the cabaceo, even if it means I get less dances in NYC. -Martin Nussbaum
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