Thanks...learning when to say no is a valuable lesson :) Laura Sergio Vandekier wrote: > Laura says: "Oh rats! I have to put up with this rude behaviour in Europe, > and now I discover that I will have to put up with it when I visit B.A. since > I'll be a foreigner. Of all the codes, the cabaceo is the one that makes the > most sense to me across cultures. I use it as much as possible, and it's so > nice when it works." > > > Dear Laura my advise to you is: when somebody comes to the table to ask you > to dance say No! thank you!. The men at the milonga will immeditely know that > you are an experienced dancer and will invite you to dance using the > "Cabeceo". > > Ruben uses a very relevant popular expression that I will translate: > > > "Al que nace barrigón es al ñudo que lo fajen". (For those that are born with > a big belly is useless too use binders.) > > This is a popular expression that is used frequently. It indicates the > impossibility to change behavior, attitudes or systems. > > Have a nice day, Sergio
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