Hi, Charles,
I recommended to Sheryl that if she has any sway with David at all that she
suggest to him that he set up his own mailing list and not use texascavers as a
forum for his opinions and other correspondence. It should be obvious to him by
now that most of the list has no interest in what he has to say. He is probably
the most obtuse person I've ever had contact with. The utter failure of his two
springtime get togethers where apparently nobody got together should have told
him something. I think if he has his own list (which I think will probably be
small), he can control who his information goes to and might lower the heat
surrounding this and other issues. I also think he has a blog
Louise
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Date: Tue, 20 Aug 2013 19:42:47 -0500
To: sheryl.ri...@gmail.com
CC: texascavers@texascavers.com
Subject: Re: [Texascavers] Inappropriate emails
aside from my personal opinion on this matter (which doesn't matter), I have to
stay neutral on most matters. This thread, as well as the previous one on this
subject, are way off topic and do not belong on the list. Please take it to
private email.
If someone on the list offends you, you have two choices in my eyes. Hit the
almighty delete button, or email the person making the offense and talk it out
in private.
If you have thoughts or opinions on this, do not reply all, but reply to me
directly please.
Charles
Texascavers.com listserver administrator
On Tue, Aug 20, 2013 at 12:34 PM, Sheryl Rieck <sheryl.ri...@gmail.com> wrote:
I am still receiving inappropriate emails from people bashing Locklear about
his visits to Mallory. I have known David for quite some time and while he may
not always say or do the proper thing (who of us do?), he is not mean spirited
and actually is a kind, caring person. I mean, I haven't been to see her. He
went out of his way to visit. I have never known him to say anything mean
about anyone, but people sure seem to like to go after him. I realize at some
point he and Mallory had a falling out, but I know that there was
reconciliation there in the same way I reconciled with Mallory when we had a
falling out. I wonder if Mallory remembers that, that we made up, or does she
still think we are mad at each other? I believe Vickie said quite specifically
that Mal's cognitive abilities are not functioning at full capacity and she
gets a lot of things mixed up. I don't understand this continued bashing of
David. I wonder what a sad, pathetic life someone must have to wallow in this
kind of vicious behavior. And, I feel quite strongly that Vickie can manage
her's and Mallory's business quite appropriately and effectively without all
this (just judging by her posts). It is not anyone's business other than
Vickie's unless SHE specifically asked someone to intervene. I cannot believe
that the subject was even discussed with Mallory, which the emails say it did
and she was pissed at Locklear. She should be focusing on her recovery and not
being incited to anger by such hatefulness. If she doesn't want him to visit,
her mom will take care of it and this whispering and sniggering behind his back
is sickening.
I find these emails I am receiving to be hateful and hurtful for no other
apparent reason than someone wants to be an ass. I am very disappointed in one
of the people involved that I considered to be a friend. I never realized that
he gossiped and stirred up trouble the way he has been doing in this situation.
It has brought me to the unhappy realization that he is not to be trusted, and
is not the kind of person I want to call a friend.
I hope this will now stop and we can focus on Mallory and her recovery,
rejoicing in how well she is doing and not all this hate mongering.
Sheryl
