RJ-

I taking up the self esteem debate with your colleague you may want to 
take a look at Rich-Harris' "The Nurture Assumption" (Free Press, New 
York, 1998).  On page 339 she says in part:

"According to advice-givers, selfesteem is the most valuable thing a 
parent can give a child.  ...  These writers may be putting the cart 
before the horse - mistaking an effect for a cause. ... Feeling VERY  
good about yourself may, in fact, be couterproductive. ...people with 
high self-esteem are more apt to drive under the influence of alcohol or 
exceed the speed limit. A study of college women found that those with 
high self-esteem underestimated their chances of getting pregnant: they 
considered unprotected sex to be less risky than did those with lower 
self-esteem."  Additionally, she cites studies which relate high levels 
of self esteem to violence.

Well worth a read.

All best, -D.

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On Fri, 25 Jun 1999 [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

> I am in need of information.  
> 
> What is self-esteem and what does it do?  
> 
> I am in a debate with a colleague who (w)hole-heartedly believes in the 
> construct as in "the more you have, the better you are."  I am 
> skeptical...and maybe suffering from low self-esteem (whatever that is!).  
> 
> Thanks in Advance,
> RJ
> 

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