Sounds like a very tragic end of term. I have had to deal with deaths due to 
car accidents/texting, and am having increasing issues with social 
anxiety/stress responses in recent years. Many tipsters must be ending things 
up? and are busy with final exams.  I have ended over a week ago(I am teaching 
half-time now to prep for retirement), attended graduation, starting 
yard/garden work, doing an online MOOC? class at MSU, and catching up with some 
fun reading. Other than dealing with weird Michigan spring (hail, snow and rain 
on Mothers day),I am enjoying a break from classes.
Gary Peterson
Psych at SVSU


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From: "Annette Taylor" <tay...@sandiego.edu>
To: "Teaching in the Psychological Sciences (TIPS)" <tips@fsulist.frostburg.edu>
Sent: Tuesday, May 14, 2013 9:27:12 AM
Subject: RE:[tips] testing

This has been a particularly hard semester! But not with things that I need to 
seek help for from TiPS.

We had 4 student suicides this semester. I don't think we have had 4 total 
during the previous 23 years that I have been here. This was really rough. The 
first announcement about the sad and sudden passing of a student left me 
wondering if it had been a car accident, or a sudden bursting of an aneurysm. 
But more than one? more than two? No, it turns out that these beautiful, 
bright, young people took their lives. Very sad. It was only after the third 
that the word spread--can't stop social media--about the suicides. 

This is one time that social media truly has a negative effect. I recall 
Cialdini's writing in Influence about how there has been a concentrated move by 
news media to suppress stories of suicides because they then tend to come in 
clusters--perhaps some element of social comparison at work. At any rate, give 
the local news media their due, there has been nothing in the local news about 
these. But social media has been busy and finally the school paper had a 
special story last week with an emphasis on healing and where to get help and 
how to pick out warning signs, etc. I thought it was well-written.

In the last month I've had students take a one to two week leave-of-absence to 
go home to see their psychologists. In the previous 23 years I don't remember 
once having a student bring me a note from their psychologist about their 
fragile condition. I have had the occasional student with various problems, but 
this was unusual.

Then, we have finals starting on Thursday and I've had 5 emails asking me 
what's on the final! Well, if they had come to class, if they had asked their 
friends, if they had asked classmates for notes from the days they 
missed...then they would have known that there are multiple study guides posted 
on blackboard...yes, I am one of those "easy" teachers who posts study guides 
(honestly, they are so lame...mostly a list of terms from each chapter but 
students seem to find those so "helpful"; I mean, all they would have to do is 
type up a list of terms in bold font in either the text or on their ppt slides, 
the latter also posted to blackboard. But students find them very helpful.).

Then there are still unreturned midterm exams for at least 7 students--very 
unusual at my school--these are students who have not been back to class since 
the last midterm. I have 79 students in various classes this semester (yes, we 
are a small, private, liberal arts school so we cap at 25 to 30 per section), 
so almost 10% have not been in class for at least 2 weeks. I don't have an 
"attendance policy." Some of those are the ones who emailed me about "what's on 
the final?" And if you are wondering whether in this fragile climate I gave 
sweet answers, the answer is NO! I was pretty blunt. Read the syllabus, 
everything you need to know is in blackboard. Come to class once in a while. 
Read the syllabus; it advises you to get notes from 2 classmates if you must 
miss a class. Ok, I try to diffuse it with humor, and then I gave them all the 
info they need to know.

I'm grumpy...but I'm going to the Kings game tonight :) Woo hoo, first Stanley 
Cup play-off game. Don't ask what the tickets cost...I'm sure it will be a 
"priceless" experience (we just talked about subjective utility in cognitive 
class :).

APS next week; AP readings a week after that, and then a little time off :) to 
catch up on other commitments.

I wonder why tips has been so silent... ;)

Annette



Annette Kujawski Taylor, Ph. D.
Professor, Psychological Sciences
University of San Diego
5998 Alcala Park
San Diego, CA 92110
tay...@sandiego.edu
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