Nikki,
You are right - it has been very quiet on this website. I would say
your world has turned upside down! What's up with you?! Did you
actually "feel" the UTI or was there other
evidence of it? I don't think I could feel one if I had it. I did
have one, after a few days, when I first went into the hospital with TM.
Not being able to feel anything down there, it
got a good hold of me and went systemic. I was in big trouble. But,
here I am - all better again.
You are probably better off without your fiance if he can't stick around
during the hard times. You are young and have a lot of life ahead of you
and I know these are just words to you now,
but, given time, you will see that I am right. Put your time in actions
by you, rather than thoughts - be busy. I say that, but I don't really
know how TM left you. Are you able to do much on
your own? We have all been left with varying degrees of damage from TM.
Some are luckier than others. There have been spouses that have walked out
too after years of marriage and kids.
Don't understand people like that. I have been truly blessed with my
husband, family and friends. What about your family - are they close to
you?
Please email back and let me know how you are doing.
Janice
-----Original Message-----
From: Nikki Macleod
Sent: Saturday, September 14, 2013 4:45 AM
To: heyjude48...@aol.com ; tmic-list@eskimo.com
Subject: [TMIC] Long time no chat!
Hi everyone I've noticed it's been a little quiet lately. I hope everyone is
enjoying themselves, having plenty of rest and relaxation - hoping the TM is
behaving.
On my front I've been enjoying the sunshine on my fundraising day (I'll add
a pic), had a 2 week hospital stay for a UTI and a strep B or C infection.
Came home and my world has came crashing down - my fiancé of nearly 10 years
has told me he is leaving. So, not a happy bunny at the min my mental health
is at an all time low but I suppose I'm only 26 and I need to dust myself
off and get myself up and about again. I say that but it is easier said than
done.
Hope everyone else is having a better time.
Nikki.
Durham, UK.
Sent from my iPad
