~Hi All --
          One more cute "Personality" quizzy for y'all.
 
        And this really cool thing I got in my in-box today. Great way to start the New Year! Here ya go:
 
 
 
Today we again look at the third Fortune Quotient, Forgiveness. Not
forgiving, holding on to our grievance story, is one of the most effective
ways known to man or woman to block our ability to Manifesfest all that we want
from life.

ENTER THE WISE ONE

I was very touched and liberated by a forgiveness story in the wonderful book
_Soul Mate Dolls: Dollmaking as a Healing Art_ by Noreen Crone-Findlay. Here
it is for you modified and adapted in a way that worked and played better for
me . . .

At the very end of a year, you find yourself busily preparing for the new
year. All of a sudden, in the midst of your activity, a wise being arrives.
It finds you wherever you are -- your car, your workspace, your kitchen. It
takes the form of something you consider the embodiment of wisdom. For each
of us, it will assume a different form.

This being asks you if you would like some help in preparing for the new
year. You say, "Sure, thank you."

It shines a spotlight on you and you see a long, hollow hose extending from
your heart. You are very curious. You observe that the hose is filled with
energy being successfully sucked from your body. At the other end of the hose
is a very ugly and just plain creepy, yucko monster. It sucks and saps and
consumes the energy from your heart.

Slurp, suck, swig. It licks its lips as it guzzles your heart energy.

SOME MIGHTY IMPORTANT QUESTIONS

This draining and sapping upsets you. You wiggle and wrangle, and resist the
ugly thing. It does not go away; in fact, it gets stronger. The wise one
looks on and eventually says, "Want some help?"

You reply, "Yes, please, if you can."

The wise being shows you a clamp that you can apply to the hose to stop the
siphoning of your energy. You reach for the clamp. The wise one holds it back
and says, "First you need to talk to the monster. It is some form of your
lack of forgiveness."

Ask it what feeling it feeds on. Is it hate, anger, revenge,
putting-off-to-tomorrow, self-pity, self-righteousness, the compulsion to be right? What feeling?
You ask the monster and it answers truthfully. You know its answer is right
for you.

The wise one tells you to ask the monster where the feeling came from. It
also says the answer will come with this wording:

"The feeling comes from the time that _____________[fill in the name] did or
did not_______________[some action] to or for or with me."

"Steve did not show support for me. Tara did that cruel thing to me. Liz did
nothing to be with me. It will all fit into that wording, that formula," the
wise one says.

"If you want to stop the ugly one from draining you, I will now give you the
clamp," the wise one says.

TODAY'S THE EXPIRATION DATE

The ugly one senses its termination and rails and entices. The ugly one
tempts and lures you. It says, "Of course, you should not forgive."

You watch its voracious sucking and slurping from your heart for a minute or
two and then hold out your hand for the clamp. The wise one gives it you and
the clamp feels solid. You open the clamp and close it on the hose. The ugly
one's life force slowly comes to an end. The ugly one struggles and then
expires. The hose shrinks and detaches from your heart.

The wise one picks up the remnants of the ugly one and throws it on a strong,
warm fire. You begin to feel a strong, warm, invigorating fire in your heart.

BEAUTIFUL, BLOOMING BLOSSOMS

The wise being hands you the seed of forgiveness. You think carefully as you
decide where you will plant it. It is magic so can be planted anywhere
important to you. In your garden, in a houseplant, under your desk, in your
oven, in your coffee mug. It is up to you where this new seed will grow.

You ready the place and then plant the seed. The tiny thing begins to sprout.
Your heart thrills with its development. As it grows, you feel more and more
peace and happiness. It becomes a beautiful plant with an extraordinary
blossom on it. You smell the flower's perfume and see its exquisiteness, and
you are thankful.

Each day of the New Year, the plant produces a new forgiveness flower. Each
day of 2003, you gently snip it from the plant and carry it with you. Each
day, your heart sings because it is filled to capacity with energy of
kindness and compassion. Each day, the flower of forgiveness protects you so
nothing again drains your heart.

FORGIVENESS PUSH-UP

Burning is an efficient and symbolic way to rid yourself of something. Today
let's burn our grievance story. Our grievance story holds us in bondage and
is a part of the hose that depletes the force and fullness of our heart.

You know the story. That one that you tell over and over about how someone
has not done what you thought they should, not treated you the way you think
you should be treated. When you tell the story, you often get sympathy. You
find yourself mulling the story over in your mind. It fuels the old feelings.
Even if you have vowed not to tell it again, you break that vow. It sometimes
feels good to tell this tale of woe and wrong. You know that story? That's
your grievance story.

Write it out either in longhand or on the word processor. Put in every little
detail. Be as blaming and feel as wronged as you want. Go over the top. Write
the most blazing, flaming rendition of your grievance story ever. Let the
computer keys or your writing utensil smoke with the strength of your passion
about this story.

When you have finished, get a bowl or an ashtray and light a match to the
paper on which your story is written. Burn, burn, burn your grievance story.
Let the grievance float away with the smoke. Tell it good-bye, farewell,
adieu.

Be happy in the knowledge that letting your grievance story drift up until it
vanishes is freeing your heart and skyrocketing your skill and capacity for
Manifesting.

What a splendid New Year's Eve gift to give yourself.

Yours in the spirit of laughter and joy,

Stephanie

©Copyright 2002 Stephanie West Allen

             ~Works for me!

                     ~GW

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