TPW: My view on this is that he shouldn't. Once a cheater always a cheater. Your support should probably better focused on giving him a hand with obtaining custody of the kids and emotional support that a victim (Yes I believe that is the proper term here) needs.
One thing Christian values and Asatru Values have is a strong family code of ethics and a desire for spousal fidelity. Infidelity is both an insult to the spouse and an act of betrayal towards the family.
It cannot be forgiven so easily.
Luckily the son is a teen-ager so it's not so bad. But he will have to be nurtured in being reminded that not all women are as treacherous. Such situations do leave a lingering thought in one's mind.
I am sorry if I sound callous, but sometimes one must cut the Gordian knot!
TPW
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