C'mon, Dave. I am the moderator of TT, not the moderator of SLC. The point is not to whom you are directing the attention, the from whom you are directing it.

From: Dave <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>
Reply-To: TruthTalk@mail.innglory.org
To: TruthTalk@mail.innglory.org
Subject: Re: [TruthTalk] DaveH's Reply to the Controversy
Date: Sun, 27 Nov 2005 01:22:03 -0800

*Dave, you have tried to shift the focus of your bad behavior onto _nearly everyone_ on the list*

DAVEH: Nonsense, Perry. Not to _*nearly everyone*_.....Just to the *hypocrites* that deserve it. Are you feeling a bit guilty?

*there will be plenty of time for you to divert the focus to others later.*

DAVEH: Yeah, I know that Perry. As you may have seen by my other posts tonight, I've had *plenty of time* to do just that.

BTW Perry....are you not going to chasten Kevin for not agreeing to apologize to the folks in SLC that he has offended? If not, doesn't that strike you as a double standard, expecting me to apologize for offending somebody, and not expecting Kevin to do the same???

Charles Perry Locke wrote:


*Dave, you have tried to shift the focus of your bad behavior onto nearly everyone on the list*...lets deal with your bad behavior first...*there will be plenty of time for you to divert the focus to others later.*

Perry

From: Dave <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>
Reply-To: TruthTalk@mail.innglory.org
To: TruthTalk@mail.innglory.org
Subject: Re: [TruthTalk] DaveH's Reply to the Controversy
Date: Sat, 26 Nov 2005 19:29:49 -0800

DAVEH: May I assume your answer means Perry did not analyze you correctly, and that you will not be apologizing to those you offend, Kevin?

Kevin Deegan wrote:

*Your Filthy garments are Rejected by God, just as your righteousness is, they are NOTHING but FILTHY RAGS!*

*/Dave <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>/* wrote:

    */_   What difference does it make why the LDS folks in SLC are
    offended by the likes of you waving their underwear around like
    fools. _/*

    DAVEH:   I just thought you would want to take Perry's
    advice..........

    **the principle I was taught is that when you offend someone you
    apologize...even if you didn't mean to, even if you were joking,
    even if you think they are faking offense, apologizing is the
    right thing to do. Izzy got it. _Kevin got it_. _/Evidently
    arrogant people don't get it./_ **

    ............to heart, Kevin.   Apparently, contrary to Perry's
mistaken opinion......you still.......*don't get it*, Kevin. And, IFF Perry's next statement is correct.......

    *_/Evidently arrogant people don't get it./_*

    .........then logically, would that not make you *_/arrogant/_*?

    Kevin Deegan wrote:

    */_   What difference does it make why the LDS folks in SLC are
    offended by the likes of you waving their underwear around like
    fools. _/ The point is that you are offending them (not me) by
    doing such.  As Perry suggested....don't you think you owe them
    an apology?*
    May I quote you?
    DAVEH:   ???   Huh?   Just exactly what do you think I said that
    would justify that reaction?  Please quote my specific comments
    so that we can see what you are talking about.  If y ou don't
have any specific quotes, *then we can assume you are making this up!
    *
    The best you can do is draw some imaginary picture in your mind
    of "waving their underwear around like fools"
    Fools wear them as a RELIGIOUS expression!
    They are the equivilent of the Pagan ROMAN CATHOLIC Scapular.
    They Trust their scapular LDS trust undies.
    N o wonder they are offended I would not want anyone to know
    about such foolishness.

    */Dave <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>/* wrote:

        /*if you won't list the imaginary offense about SP's then
        stop whining about it.*/

        DAVEH:   Your retorts are so predictable, they are simply
        laughable Kevin!   :-D

            What difference does it make why the LDS folks in SLC are
        offended by the likes of you waving their underwear around
        like fools.  The point is that you are offending them (not
        me) by doing such.  As Perry suggested....don't you think you
        owe them an apology?

        *If you said such about someones wife, they would be
        justified in punching your lites out.*

        DAVEH:   ???   Huh?   Just exactly what do you think I said
        that would justify that reaction?  Please quote my specific
        comments so that we can see what you are talking about.  If
        you don't have any specific quotes, then we can assume you
        are making this up!

        Kevin Deegan wrote:

        /*if you won't list the imaginary offense about SP's th en
        stop whining about it.*/
                 *If you said such about someones wife, they would be
        justified in punching your lites out.* The State of Utah
        would see it this way too.
        On the other hand LDS who assault SP's because they are
        offended go to jail. That is after they find the smallest SP
        to attack from behind. Or better yet slam an elbow into the
        back of a Women holding a scripture sign . Must have been
        OFFENDED by the BIBLE. By the way it was a good thing here
        husband did not see that one. That is OK because God will
        judge. I bet He is even more upset knowing that the Woman
        that LDS THUG hit from behind has cancer!
        *Spare me your whining if you can not discuss the problem
        seek couseling.*
*Get over it your Religon is VILE & I will not Respect it.*
        Aint gonna happen
        There is NOTHING Sacred in Mormonism.
        It is a good thing we are not in the OT cause they were told
        to TEAR DOWN the groves!
        In America there is Freedom of speech, you do not have the
        freedom to avoid offense.
        If you are OFFENDED by SP's take the recommendation of the
        Supreme court Plug your ears and avert your eyes!

        */Dave <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>/* wrote:

            *Maybe DH was angry.*

            DAVEH:   LOL.....Even you should know me better than
            that, Kevin.  I simply don't get angry.  (Or at least I
            haven't yet....I wonder what I would really say/do if
            that situation ever to happen....)

            *he WILL not list just what exactly is so OBNOXIOUS
            about it*

            DAVEH:   Why should I list such?  I am not the one
            offended by it, Kevin.  Obviously, there are a lot of
            LDS folks in SLC who are offended though.   I tend not
            to take offense at such silly stuff, but apparen tly
            others do.  They are the ones you should be apologizing
            to, according to Perry....

            /*_the principle I was taught is that when you offend
            someone you apologize_...even if you didn't mean to,
            even if you were joking, even if you think they are
            faking offense, apologizing is the right thing to do.
            Izzy got it. Kevin got it.*/

            .........So Kevin....did you g et Perry's message???  If
            so, will you be apologizing to the folks you offend in
            SLC?   Now....assuming you did not get the message (and
            will not apologize to those you have offended), would
            you be surprised if I continue offending the hypocrites
            of TT?

            *It seems DH is saying it is OK to talk about his
            bedroom if it is done in jest.*

            DAVEH:   Isn't that what some TTers were doing when
            asking me about when and how I wear my underwear?  I
            just replied in kind.  Or, did you really think they
            were serious? &nb sp; C'mmon now, Kevin.....you are a
            smart guy, aren't you!

                 Now the big question, Kevin.....had I seriously
            responded to those very personal questions as though
            they were /not/ asked *in jest*, would you have been
able to avoid mocking, demeaning and denigrating my answers?

            Kevin Deegan wrote:
Why? Jjust because it is really the Street Preachers fault?
            *Maybe DH was angry.* Of course he equates SP in front
            of the Temple as Obnoxius  etc blah blah blah. But *he
            WILL not list just what exactly is so OBNOXIOUS about
            it*. anyway SP 's at the Temple have nothing to do with
            his off color Humor [sic]
It is all about offense not right & wrong . it is only wrong if you can find someone to be offended by it. Right? *It seems DH is saying it is OK to talk about his
            bedroom if it is done in jest.*
*//* */Charles Perry Locke <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>/* wrote:

A totally arrogant and insensitive reply, in my opinion.

                >From: Dave
                >Reply-To: TruthTalk@mail.innglory.org
                >To: TruthTalk@mail.innglory.org
>Subject: [TruthTalk] DaveH's Reply to the Controversy
                >Date: Fri, 25 Nov 2005 14:52:53 -0800
                >
                >*And I apologize to all, especially to DaveH for
                provoking him. *
                >
                >DAVEH: Thank you for your apology, Izzy.....But, as
                I'm sure you already
                >know.....it is not necessary to apologize to me.
                (Though the thought and
                >consideration is most appreciated.) I had taken
                absolutely no offense at
                >a ll in what you had posted. And....I suspect that
                you took no offense at
                >what I posted in reply. (If I am wrong about that,
                let me know and I'll
                >offer a sincere apology.)
                >
                > As for other TTe rs being offended.....that rather
                surprises me. As
                >Perry correctly surmised, my comments were all done
                in a humorous
                >tone........./While I am sure Dave is
                joking,/.....that was not intended to
                >offend anybody. (I am mystified as to why anybody
                would take personal
                >offense at such humor anyway.) I was merely trying
                to keep the
                >conversation at the same level as those responding,
                while trying to make a
                >point at the same time. That point is that many
                TTers seem to have a
                >double standard. On TT it is OK to publicly discuss
                and mock personal
                >things (whether they be religious ceremonies,
                religious clothing or even
                >sexual practices) of somebody who has a presumed
                inferior (from the
                >majorities persp ective) belief or position in
                life. Some TTers even brag
                >about their right to publicly ridicule and demean
                Mormons' beliefs and
                >practices, right at the doorstep of LDS religious
                gatherings. And what
                >further and truly amazes me, some TTers support
                their obnoxious actions,
                >regardless of how offens ive they are to other
                people. Sure....it is legal
                >for them to do that, but IF LDS people find their
                tactics and behavior
                >offensive, do those practicing such tactics and
                behavior ever back off in
                >deference to the LDS folks' feelings???
                >
                > So.....when I publicly post some (what I consider,
                and I suspect a few
                >others will agree to be) entertaining material in
                TT in reply to questions
                >that were I to directly answer would undoubtedly
                bring ridicule and
                >derision, then why would anybody be offended? Did I
                attack anybody? If
                >not, then I did not violate any ad-hom
                rules?.....none! Were my posts
                >distasteful?.....No more than those who asked the
                questions, IMO and also
                >in the opinion of some TTers without an ax to
                grind. I do not recall using
                >any foul language, or obnoxious (shoutin g)
                mannerisms. I merely tried to
                >respond politely, humorously and in kind to each
                post that was made about
                > the discussion. Yes....I did try to /drag in/---as
                Perry put it in a
                >private post---others to illustrate the absurdity
                of what was being
                >discussed. Until your own ox is being gored, there
                is little motivation
                >for some to get excited! :-)
                >
                > Yet is is apparent that a co uple TTers have
                fairly thin skins and took
                >offense at my comments related to them. If street
                preachers truly are
                >unable to discern humorous content, and have so
                little latitude for the
                >rights of others to use free speech that is not
                even lewd.....then how do
                >they tolerate truly ugly behavior? It simply amazes
                me that some street
                >preachers demand the right to be obnoxious and
                irritate others without
                >regards to offending them, and then feign offense
                when somebody treats them
                >far more respectfully in TT . (And in fairness to
                the street preachers on
                >TT....I realize that not all have complained about
                what I have posted
                >here.....thank you for your tolerance....my
                comments are not directed
                >toward you.)
                >
                > Soooooo (excepting Izzy)........for those TTers
                who claimed offense and
                >continue to believe........
                >
                >/*Dave owes an apology to all of us,*/
                >
                >..........because of what I directly said to or
                about them.....I view you
                >as being big hypocritical *cry-babies*.....a term
                that was once used in TT
                >to describe me, but seems much more applicable to
                some TTers who *whine*
                >all the time about how offensive I am. Buck-up
                folks. Most of you are
                >adults, and if you can't tolerate a Mor mon boy's
                playful and tame comments
                >that were made in an effort to diffuse a
                potentially unpleasant subject,
                >you're going to have big time trouble in the real
                world.
                >
                > In reviewing all t he posts that came in today
                about this, I fail to see
                >anything I said that would have directly or even
                indirec tly attacked or
                >offended anybody. If you disagree, feel free to
                either post on TT your
                >reasons for disagreeing, or send them to me
                off-Forum. If you can show me
                >where I /crossed over the line/ as Perry suggested,
                then I'll offer you a
                >sincere apology.
                >
                > If on the other hand, you can get a laugh (or
                perhaps even crack a
                >smile) out of what has been posted regarding this
                matter, then I commend
                >you for avoiding the arrogant indignation trap. It
                is not my intention (as
                >Judy implied) to bring discord to TT. If anything,
                I prefer to posture my
                >posts to alleviate the tension here. That's why I
                use lots of smilies to
                >help others know when I am joshing around for the
                sake of levity. For
                >those who took offense at what I posted, go back
                and look at the smilies
                >before you dig you rself deeper in a huff. Even
                Izzy knows how smilies
                >work. And, Dean has been known to use them often,
                but perhaps he overlooks
                >them when reading others' comments. As for
                Perry....do you have a single
                >funny bone in that body, Perry!?!?!?! ;-)
                >
                > In fairness to Perry....I realize that you are the
                moderator, and as
                >such cannot take everything quite a lightly as
                other TTers, especially wh en
                >the problem pertains to another TTer. However, you
                did claim a personal
                >offense....which I view rather dimly.
                >
                > Welllllllll........I took a risk in posting the
                above, as our TT
                >moderator has privately cautioned (requested might
                be a better term) that I
                >avoid continued discussion regarding this matter.
                However, I do believe I
                >have a right to respond to the many comments that
                have been posted today,
                >and I also believe there is a lesson to be learned
                in all this. And that
                >lesson is the d ouble standard that some TTers
                have. They can dish it out
                >(as Izzy has been known to say), but they seem to h
                ave a problem when it is
                >served up for their own consumption. If any of you
                want to hammer this
                >Mormon boy or his beliefs, that is your privilege
                and right. But then
                >don't complain when I fail to turn the other
                cheek....it is one of my many
                >flaws! Nor should you get your noses be nt out of
                shape over a few humorous
                >comments.....it is unbecoming of a Christian to be
                so weak kneed! :-)
                >
                >
                >
                >
                >ShieldsFamily wrote:
                >
                >>*And I apologize to all, especially to DaveH for
                provoking him. * Now move
                >>on, Class! iz
                >>


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