Hi, Assumpta!
I would like to start off by appreciating your appreciation of
whatever I occassionally forward on this forum.I have always
thought that in communicating,one does so for a multitude of
reasons namely to share whatever information available,to
inspire others,to provoke a reaction(both positive and negative)
from others,or merely to entertain among other things!
I am but an open minded student who often seeks knowledge
and therefore an avid reader.I also most often forward articles that
in no way have a bearing to my opinions as expressed in them
but do so to share with others for their information!
If you indeed perused that article which has provoked this response
Mary,you will know the bibliography of the same and hence would
not have faulted me by asking my professional preparations to be
an expert on such issues.Experts,as per Murphy's Laws are usually
ordinary people working away from home.There is a truism in this
tautology if one takes a closer look at the myriad of experts/quasi
experts on any issues that we have in the universe.
To get to know how women fail with me,I am sure the author of
the article will soon come up with may be a multiple of Ten Most
Common reasons why .
I am also actutely aware of the fact that in this century of Gender
sensitivity,anything gets skewed whenever gender biased issues
are being discussed.Fortunately,I am an ardent supporter of Gender.
equality and my track records speaks volumes for it!
I hope this has removed the specks of imagination of my qualifications
I hope this has removed the specks of imagination of my qualifications
or the lack thereof,in sharing this article with those who read it.
Lastly,in the Uganda Argus that later became Voice of Uganda et Uganda Times/SomeTimes,there used to be a page for Ekanya!.That
happened to be my first page to read whenever I bought that paper.
May be that helped form my outlook to the World.
Thank you.
Kipenji.
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Assumpta Kintu <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:
Assumpta Kintu <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:
Hello Mr. kipenji!
Thank you for your daily contributions to the forum.
Most of us do appreciate even if we do not express our
gratitude more often.
Questions for you:
1. What are the "Top Ten Reasons Why Women Fail With
Men"?
2. Which academic preparations did you undertake to
become such an expert?
The inquirer wants to know.
ak
--- Owor Kipenji <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>wrote:
>
> “The Ten Most Dangerous Mistakes YOU Probably
> Make With Women—
> And What To Do About It...”
>
> Here Are The Top Ten Reasons Why Men Fail With
> Women—And How To Make Sure YOU Avoid Every One Of
> These Deadly Common Mistakes...
>
> -By David DeAngelo, Author Of “Double Your Dating”
>
> MISTAKE #1: Being
> Too Much Of A “Nice Guy”
>
> Have you ever noticed that the really
> attractive women never seem to be attracted "nice"
> guys?
>
> Of course you have.
>
> Just like me, I'm sure you've had attractive
> female friends that always seemed to date "jerks"...
> but for some reason they were never romantically
> interested in YOU.
>
> What's going on here?
>
> It's actually very simple...
>
> Women don't base their choices of men on how
> "nice" a guy is. They choose the men they do because
> they feel a powerful GUT LEVEL ATTRACTION for them.
>
> And guess what?
>
> Being nice doesn't make a woman FEEL that
> powerful ATTRACTION.
>
> And being NICE doesn't make a woman CHOOSE you.
>
> I realize that this doesn't make a lot of
> logical sense, and it's hard to ACCEPT... but GET
> OVER IT.
>
> Until you accept this FACT and begin to act on
> it, you'll NEVER have the success with women that
> you want.
>
> MISTAKE #2: Trying To
> “Convince Her To Like You"
>
> What do most guys do when they meet a woman
> that they REALLY like... but she's just
> notinterested?
>
> Right! They try to "convince" the woman to
> feel differently.
>
> Well, I have news for you... YOU WILL NEVER
> CHANGE HOW A WOMAN "FEELS" WHEN IT COMES TO
> ATTRACTION!
>
> Never, ever, EVER.
>
> You cannot CONVINCE a woman to feel
> differently about you with "logic and reasoning".
>
> Think about it.
>
> If a woman doesn't "feel it" for you, how in
> the world do you expect to change that FEELING by
> being "reasonable" with her?
>
> But we all do it.
>
> When a woman just isn't interested, we beg,
> plead, chase, and do our best to change her mind.
>
> Bad idea. One that will never work.
>
> MISTAKE #3: Looking To Her
> For Approval Or Permission
>
> In our desire to please women (which we
> mistakenly think will make them like us), us guys
> are always doing things to get a woman's "approval"
> or "permission".
>
> Another HORRIBLE idea.
>
> Women are NEVER attracted to the types of men
> who kiss up to them... EVER.
>
> Don't get me wrong here.
>
> You don't have to treat women BADLY for them to
> like you.
>
> But if you think that treating a woman well
> means "always getting her approval and permission
> for things", think again.
>
> You will never succeed by looking for
> approval. Women actually get ANNOYED at men who seek
> their approval.
>
> Doubt me? Just ask any attractive woman if
> Wussy guys who chase her around and want her
> approval annoy her...
>
> MISTAKE #4: Trying To “Buy” Her Affection With Food
> And Gifts
>
> How many times have you taken a woman out to a
> nice dinner, bought her gifts and flowers, and had
> her REJECT you for someone who didn't treat her even
> HALF as well as you did?
>
> If you're like me, then you've had it happen a
> LOT.
>
> Well guess what?
>
> It's only NATURAL when this happens...
>
> That's right, I said NATURAL.
>
> When you do these things, you send a clear
> message:
>
> "I don't think you'll like me for who I am, so I'm
> going to try to buy your attention and affection".
> Your good intentions usually come across to
> women as over-compensation for insecurity, and weak
> attempts at manipulation. That's right, I said that
> women see this as MANIPULATION.
>
>
> MISTAKE #5: Sharing
> “How You Feel” Too Early In
> The Relationship With Her
>
> Another huge and unfortunate mistake that most
> men make with women is sharing how they "feel" too
> early on.
>
> Attractive women are rare.
>
> And they get a LOT of attention from men.
>
> Most men don't realize this, but attractive
> women are being approached in one way or another ALL
> THE
> An attractive woman is often approached
> several times a DAY by men who are interested. This
> translate into dozens of times per week, and often
> HUNDREDS of times per month.
>
> And guess what?
>
> Attractive women have usually dated a LOT of
> men.
>
> That's right. They have EXPERIENCE.
>
> They know what to expect.
>
> And one thing that turns an attractive women
> off and sends her running away faster than just
> about anything is a guy who starts saying "You know,
> I really, REALLY like you" after one or two dates.
>
> This signals to the woman that you're just
> like all the other guys who fall for her too fast...
> and can't control themselves.
>
> Don't do it. Lean back. Relax.
>
> There's a much better way...
>
> MISTAKE #6: Not “Getting” How Attraction Works For
> Women
>
> Women are VERY different from men when it
> comes to ATTRACTION.
>
> You need to accept this fact, and deal with
> it.
>
> When a man sees a beautiful, young, sexy
> woman, he INSTANTLY feels a sexual attraction.
>
> But does the same apply for women?
>
> Do women feel sexual attraction to men based
> mostly on looks? Or is something else going on?
>
> Well, after studying this topic for over five
> full years now, I can tell you that women usually
> have their "attraction mechanisms" triggered by
> things OTHER than looks.
>
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