you are a freak indeed ! I was not wondering how AIDS spread so fast, I was just pointing out to you that it is behaviour like yours that caused it. Dumb as you are, you still think that the thin rubber can protect you 100% !
Unknowingly, when you sleep with the married man you are also sleeping with his wife, who (if she is doing the same as her husband) is also sleeping with a lover. You are also sleeping with the regular one on the side who might be sleeping with another woman, who (if she is like you) will have another guy, and so on. Then you chuck the regular one and exchange him with another. And the story goes on. Do you actually realize how many people you are sleeping with (women incl.) ?
Freedom, indeed !
Kasangwawo
From: Anyomokolo <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> Reply-To: [EMAIL PROTECTED] To: [EMAIL PROTECTED] Subject: Re: ugnet_: Why young women date married men Date: Fri, 9 Jan 2004 13:26:36 -0500 (EST)
Jonah, you are responsible for your own carelessness. Stop wondering how AIDS spread so fast and wrap a condom around it.
Are you HIV positive? How did you get it?
Anyomokolo
jonah kasangwawo <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: and some people still wonder how AIDS spread so fast !!!!
>From: Anyomokolo
>Reply-To: [EMAIL PROTECTED]
>To: [EMAIL PROTECTED]
>Subject: Re: ugnet_: Why young women date married men
>Date: Fri, 2 Jan 2004 13:02:34 -0500 (EST)
>
>I would chose to date a married man over single/unmarried guy becuase a
>single man would always want to control, dominate and own me. A married man
>is already controlling his wife. I don't want any man to control my life
>and freedom. Unlike these Makerere students, I have my own money and will
>never trade my freedom with $$$. I can have a married man and another, a
>regular one, on the side if I choose to. If the regular one begin to
>control my freedom, I will chuck him immediately. The married one will
>always be around while I look for another regular.
>So, to conclude, for me, a married man is a complete package. I can get
>what I want and maintain my freedom. I don't know about other women but my
>freedom is very important.
>
>My freedom is very important. Very important. Actually it is the reason I
>can't get married.
>
>Anyomokolo
>
>
>
>
>Owor Kipenji wrote:
>
>Why young women date married men
>By Muhwezi G. Bonge
>Jan 2 - 8, 2004
>
>
>Most people including my self must be wondering why that cute lady that any
>man would love to have as his own is comfortably engrossed in the arms of a
>married man.
>
>Why she risks being found out by the wife of the man she is dating? It's
>much more than you think so let's take time to reflect on what that married
>man has that a bachelor doesn't.
>Faridah Nabagereka acting as Ashiraf Ssemwogerere's girlfriend in
>Gawandagala, Bat Valley theatre (Photo by Willy Tamale).Some ladies confess
>that usually married men can't admit that they are married but she later
>finds out when she has already given too much to leave him. There is a lot
>that ladies find in married men than you can imagine.
>
>
>Most ladies confess that they date married because married men give them
>security. Does this mean that youthful guys can't provide that security?
>The argument here is that although she knows he is married, she can count
>on him to be responsible and maintain her and his wife. When a woman is
>dating a married man, she does not have to worry about cheating after all
>the whole relationship is based on cheating. So she does it for fun.
>
>Usually a married man is mature and cares for her feelings more than the
>youthful men. For example when a married man takes her out he does those
>'small' things that really count like opening the door for her to sit,
>pulling the chair for her and even calling her after the date to know if
>she is feeling fine. More to that, women confess that married men are
>sincere and gentle. So guys take heed, if you think by not giving your all
>or by not showing your weaknesses, you are being a man. Wake up, you are
>missing the point.
>
>Married men usually have that financial superiority which sometimes,
>youthful men don't have and even if he is doing well financially, he can't
>take care of all her needs.
>
>Cynthia a second year student at Makerere university admits that she is
>currently dating a married man so that he takes care of her needs like
>food, airtime, service fee, mention it, but still maintains her boyfriend
>who completed last year and is working right now. Why is it that she
>doesn't ask such things from her boyfriend? She argues that she feels that
>she is exploiting someone she loves and more to that, her boy friend has to
>work for their future.
>
>Then why exploit the married man? She feels he is also exploiting her, so
>it is a situation of mutual exploitation. Asked if her boyfriend finds out?
>She says she plays her cards so well that even if she receives a call from
>the 'big daddy' when she is with her boyfriend she has to divert the
>conversation to become neutral so that her boyfriend can't suspect
>anything.
>
>Married men treat them like little goddesses. For example a married man
>will buy her airtime without expecting a call from her but just to please
>her. She will use all the airtime without giving him a single call and once
>it is finished she will go back for more.
>
>Married men and young ladies in relationships are out there to exploit one
>another. So is it ethical to do this? The debate remains open.
>
>
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