Re: ugnet_: Myths women have about men

[Rehema Mukooza]

Anyomokolo:

 

Does it matter whether I'm a woman or a man??  What has my being a man or a woman got to do with you answering the questions I raised??  Let me hope my curiousity is not stopping you from answering the questions. 

 

Just answer the questions of how you are going to have your unborn daughter with your wraps.  You know Anyomokolo, you've got to make me believe your anti-patriachy statements otherwise I am not going to take your words serious.  You've got to explain your "POWER" strategy in these things. 

 

Now here goes the same question again.  How are you going to have (conceive) your unborn daughter without unwrapping it [especially to several men]??  You've already finished telling us (me) how you keep safety [by wrapping it] above everything else. 

 

The other question is.  What kind of safety against STD's is that??  Is this hypocracy or what??  Should I believe you or take what you said as a joke.  Are you going to have your unborn daughter through artificial insemination (test tube baby), to stay true to your wrapping strategy?? 

 

It's like I've said before and I'm going to say it again, Sky is the Limit!  Do what you want and be what you want.  But even the Sky is limited, once you hit it you bounce back!

 

Zakoomu R.

Anyomokolo <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:

Are you a man or a woman? I can't tell by your name. I think you are a man 'coz you are too curious.

Rehema Mukooza <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:

Anyomokolo:

 

Do whatever you wanna do with your sexual nomadism where you move from one greener pastures to the next.  Like I've said before, Sky is the limit.  Just wrap it up!

 

One question:  You recently told us that you wrap it up (safety). 

How are you going to have (conceive) your unborn daughter without unwrapping it (especially to several men)??  What kind of wrapping and safety is that??  Is this hypocracy or what??  Maybe I'm mistaken, but then I don't know until you let me what to think.

 

Are you going for artifical insemination (test tube baby) to stay truth to your allegiance of wrapping it up??  I'm curious.

 

Zakoomu R.

Anyomokolo <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:

 Next do a much better job and don't use patriarchy and men interchangeably.

A man I date does not have to be a male chauvinist in order for me to exercise my natural rights and freedom. I have the right to share my property with whomever I want, when I want to, where I want to and how I want it. What has this got to do with the mentality of the man? For all I care he could be a feminist, adon’t giva shit! I am doing what I want to do. Likewise, he can also do his heart’s desire.

Of course I will get tired when I turn 50yrs old and my daughter, which I don’t have yet, leaves home and begin following her mothers footsteps. That is right! Unlike the way her mother was raised, she is going to live her life to care for her  interest.

Rehema Mukooza <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:

Anyomokolo:

 

How many are you actually "beating" at their own game??  Hahahaha, this is the trick right here.  Are you trying to say that if women don't play men, then they have a partriachial mentality (raised to respect men)?? 

 

Are you telling me absolutely that there is no "inbetween patriachial mentality and playing" where no one has to use or serve the other?? 

Are you saying that you can not meet a man whom you are neither serving nor playing??  A sensible man who is not interested in being served or playing you.  I mean a relationship based on love and not playing or using each other.  But rather enjoying each other's company with no hidden agendas. 

 

Don't or won't you get tired of the game after sometime??  I think and I don't know if I'm right that you are attracted to playas/users/patriachial mentality based men.  Otherwise, there would be no need for you to fight the patriachial mentality in a man who does not posses it.  Do you understand my point here??   

 

Why would you in otherwise fight (by playing) something (patriachial mentality) that didn't exist in the kind of man/men you are seeing??  That tells me that the men/man you are seeing is/are playa(s). 

 

That game you are talking about from my perspective requires alot of energy to keep it running!  Seriously, you must have alot of time on your hands to keep it up.  Play on as you wish until you get tired.  Sky is the limit, games are possible! 

 

I've finished proof reading, editing, correcting grammar mistakes and all that.  What is your definition of patriachy??  I think that I have an idea of where you're coming from (understanding), but I'm so sure.

 

Zakoomu R.

Anyomokolo <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:

You are absolutely new to my style of writing, but you will learn that my words on any Internet group are very carefully chosen for a purpose. 

I have read you more than once but I don’t quite get your point. I suggest you proofread and correct your grammar, eliminate verbiage and resend. You make me lose my definition of patriarchy. Thus, as much as I would like to, I can’t answer your questions. 

Proofread your piece and resend.

Anyomokolo

 

Rehema Mukooza <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:

Anyomokolo:

 

How many are you actually "beating" at their own game??  Hahahaha, this is the trick right here.  Are you trying to say that if women don't play men, then they have a partriach mentality??  Are you telling me absolutely that there is no 'inbetween patriach mentality and playing' where no one has to use/serve the other and yet not "playing" the game?? 

Are you saying that you can not meet a man whom you are neither 'serving' nor 'playing'??  A man who is not 'using' nor 'playing' you too?? 

 

Don't or won't you get tired of the game after sometime??  I think and I don't if I'm right that you are attracted to playas/users/patriachial mentality based men.  Otherwise, there would be no need for you to fight the patriachial mentality with your actions towards.  Why would you in otherwise fight (play) something (patriachial mentality) that didn't exist in the kind of man/men you are seeing??

 

That game you are talking about from my perspective requires alot of energy to keep it running!  Seriously, you must have alot of time on your hands to keep it up.  Play as you want until you get tired.  Sky is the limit, everything game is possible! 

 

Zakoomu R.

Anyomokolo <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:

Rehema Mukooza wrote:

 

<<Play on sister, the game is on.  Just make sure you're ahead of the game.>>

 

Trust me! Am beating them at their own game. There is no turning back for me.  Power!

Anyomokolo

 

Rehema Mukooza <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:

Anyomokolo:

 

Hahahaha, lolololol.  I have nothing more to say, you said it all. 

 

I have to give it up to you for saying it as it is, "They all have a penis! Most women don't know."  You've got that right!  Hahahaha, lolololololol, Ouchhhhhh!  That hurts! 

 

Play on sister, the game is on.  Just make sure you're ahead of the game.

 

Zakoomu R.

Anyomokolo <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:

As women, unless you are me, wowen will always have myths about men becuase we are brainwashed by patriarchy childhood and raised with a limited knowledge of who men really are.

 

We are raised to live our lives to care for men best interest but not our own interest and we never question it becuase it is a very dominant culture (patriarchy) that we are born in. Well, I questioned this dominant culture three years ago, and I am who I am today becuase the answers to my question made no sense to me.

 

 We (women) are raised to be stupid so that we are vulnerable to men. It is the only single reason women are so easily deceived, used, abused repeatedly by men, one after the other. Unless of course in a culture where a woman is socially supressed like the Taliban. It is becuase we are stupid, not by nature, but becuase we are denied knowledge about men's psyche. That coupled with the fact our (woman) natural ability, which I often refer to as 'power' since I discovered it three years ago, to counteract men's natural behaviour is supressed by very serious patriarchal brainwashing from childhood,  certainly makes a woman very vulnerable and truly stupid.

 

If all women knew what I know about men, women would have no myths about men becuase all men are the same: They all have a penis! Most women don't know.

 

Power

Owor Kipenji <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:

10 myths women have about men By Susan Hayden As perceptive as women can be, they have yet to figure out the male psyche — an interesting and sometimes frightening place from which men forge their own unique approach to life. To gain a little perspective on man and his muse, we approached a variety of men with some of the more common female perceptions of them. Not surprisingly, we found out that a lot of those beliefs are, in fact, misperceptions, and the guys we spoke with were more than eager to clear them up. Though a highly subjectiv e survey, here are some of the more interesting truths revealed from the mouths of men: 1. Men are not interested in what women have to say "Men are interested in what women have to say," countered Chris, 27, "as long as it involves one of the following: Our favorite sport, our favorite activity or your naked body. For example, many men would find it extremely interesting if a woman said, 'A couple of years ago, I got so drunk that I showed up nude to a football game.'" 2. Men want somebody who is just like their mother "Men do want somebody who will love them like dear old Mom," admits Eric, 42. "But sometimes Mom also annoys us; we don't want you to be like that. So love, nurture and spoil like her — just don't be her." 3. Men only think about sex "Well, yeah," says Paul, 34. "Thinking about sex takes up a good portion of our brain power, but we don't spend all of our free time pondering when we'll make our next move." Paul also adds, "There are actually plenty of women who are more interested in sex than we are." 4. He's spoiling me, so he must have plenty of money "No, I don't," assures Brady, 49. "I'm going a little outside my comfort level to woo you, but plan to return gradually to my normal level as you fall, hopefully, madly in love with me." 5. If I sleep with him on the first date, he won't respect me "Not necessarily," suggests Juan, 21. "My impression of you is based more on how you treat me and how we connect than whether or not we're intimate on the first date." 6. I can change him "No, you can't," replies Jacques, 30. "Oh, you might get us to behave differently for a while. We might wear some newer shirts or clean up after ourselves for a few weeks, but I'm only doing it because I want to do — at least that is what I'm telling myself." 7. Men are interested in my dating history "I couldn't care less a bout your sexual history," says Thomas, 19. "I don't care if you've had one or 20 partners; just don't tell me about any of them." 8. Men don't like women who make the first move. "Sure we do," returns Romero, 39. "It's less work for us and shows us you have good taste." 9. Men prefer inexperienced women "That's one of the great myths," admits Chuck, 52. "In reality, we'd rather be with someone who knows what they're doing." 10. Men are strong "No," assures Michael, who just turned 40. "We're babies, especially when we've got a cold or you break our hearts. Got a little more insight into the minds of men? Use an quick search to find single guys near you.

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