Anyomokolo:Let me take this opportunity to challenge you. I do not totally agree with your ideas or this woman's ideas. Some of us (women) would like to have our future kids know who their fathers are. These test-tube babies are not our ideas of naturalism.If I am not to have my eggs taken out in order to prove to myself that I can have a child without "me" then, why waste time taking sperms out in order to prove to myself that I can have a child without a "man"?? What is the point in these mind games??You were taking about psychological pain, but I think that what women like you and this other lady are experiencing is psychological pain itself. Why are y'all fighting nature?? But hey, do whatever y'all galla do. Some of us don't give a shit!Some of us are totally absorbed into the psychological feelings of LOVE. The feeling of loving a man is nothing to be ashamed of or feeling inferior about (patriarchy ideas). The love we have for our men can not be compared to anything. We do not love these men out of the idea of pleasing them. We just love them for who they are. We love them just because they were born into this world and Allah gave them to us and brought them into our lives.While this woman can pick up a sperm to fertilize her eggs, some of us will go for the natural stick Allah gave the men we love for natural fertilization. We love our men so much that we love their penises along with them. We can never give up the good, satisfying, feeling of their manhoods inside of us. These men's bodies close in unison with ours. The feeling of these men with us, emotionally, physically, deeper than spiritual. We Love Our Men, period. We will not give them up for a vibrator or these sperm-tube babies. A man is a Man.What I am asking for, is for women in abusive relationships to open up their eyes and leave these abusive men. A sensible woman should always take her time to truelly study a man before she gets into a marriage with a man. These women need to use their natural instincts to look out for themselves in a relationship or before a relationship.A culture or tradition CAN NOT take away Common Sense from those who posess it.Maybe some women DO NOT have any!? Who knows!?Zakoomu M.========================================================================
Anyomokolo <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:I am responding to a woman who sent me a private message from another group. Ed (administration), I hope that while I was gone there was a lot youth discussion around here. Right!?!
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<<I very enjoy reading you. I check group messages every day just to read you. I really admire your courage to challenge men because you speak for a lot of women. What you said about culture brainwashing girls so that “…we are easy to control, use and abuse by men because they fear our vagina and each other’s penis size…” is very true. I am an African woman who was married for two years to a man who was mentally unstable. I divorced five years ago and went back to school with a vengeance and completed my RN in 2002. I am 34 years old and six months pregnant with my second and last child through DI. My mother, who is 62 years old, said that for a young woman of your age who has never been married what you know about men is what ! will bring you happiness. She said that there is no ha ppiness withtout freedom. She said only American women are happy wives because they have freedom. …As you know in Africa there is culture and tradition, psychological war on wives by husbands that locks wives in this marriage “cult” where they are "sex slaves" who "labor 24hrs like horses to take care of men".>>
Please ‘Anonymous’, don’t use “men” and “patriarchy” interchangeably. Patriarchy is a culture whose mission is to retard girls’ mental development by replacing our moral conviction with culture and tradition. Patriarchy is a social system that raises girls to be so stupid. Let me use the acceptable term, raises girls to follow “culture and tradition and to submit to their husbands and accept the inhumane and degrading conditions of marriage. Patriarchy is a social system that is designed to brainwash women to believe that what is important to men, is also what is important to them. Patriarchy is a social system that brainwashes girls to believe that they are born for one reason and only one reason: Make men happy at all cost ! and by all means nece ssary. Patriarchy is cult where women are used and abused sexually, physically and psychologically. Patriarchy is anything and everything that does not retard erection and sexual pleasure for men. Patriarchy is a woman giving up her freedom in the name of marriage. Patriarchy is religion. Patriarchy is culture and tradition. Patriarchy is a social system that dominates the world. Patriarchy is the Taliban man in Afghanistan and they are in every society, race, and culture.
With so many women around the world who are so mentally underdeveloped as a result of these mechanisms of oppression, I can safely define Patriarchy as “A culture that gives men maximum rights to socially, mentally, physically and sexually control, torture, use, abuse, demoralize and immobilize and mistreat women with no limitations.
At a very personal level, so many things about patriarchy makes me angry especially the fact that men do not condemn each other’s ruthlessness towards women to each other. This is the number one reason on my list why do not want to get married. All men believe it is their right to control and use and abuse a woman. All men believe that it is their right to own a woman. All men believe that it is their right to make a woman suffer in order to make them happy. This is the reason men do not condemn each other’s ruthlessness towards women to each other. For a man to confront another man because of his callousness towards women or his wife would be infringing on another man ’s RIGHTS. Instead, they choo! se to infringe of our, women’s, rights. All men are flipping selfish. Period!
<<I have not read your reason for choosing to conceive through the sperm bank.>>
“Money does not bring happiness” is a cliché to many people. I feel like I am the only person in this world who understands its real meaning. Happiness is the state of the mind. Four years ago, I would have been a miserable woman without a husband because I was brainwashed by patriarchy from childhood to have that belief, and that was my state of mind at the time. Today, after evil devoured my innocence, I had the opportunity and reason to examine, with a high resolution microscope, this dominant ruthless patriarchal shit that brainwashed me from childhood. As a result, my priority has changed tremendously. All I want is a child. I am a woman, I don’t have to get married before I get pregnant because it takes only ten seconds to ejaculate. I don’t have to get married inorder to guarantee that the product of nine months after conception is 50% my genes and I don’t need a DNA test either to prove the same. My child can arrive in the back seat of my car or in a bottle; I still wouldn’t need a DNA test. Besides, I have never heard of such babies arriving in the world with ten heads. This has been my state of mind for four years.
I am determined to prove to patriarchy (culture and tradition), and rightfully so, that what is important to a man, is not what is important to me. I am determined to prove to patriarchy that it is not a right for a man to own me; it is not a right for a man to use my body for sexual pleasure; it is not a right for a man to own my vagina; it is not a right for a man to have a child. It is not my obligation to guarantee a man that ‘right’. It is a man's flipping privilege. Period!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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