Ibatis.net 1.51 1:N or N:M clarification

[Dario Cecere]

Hi, this is my first list message! first i would like to thank you every 
developer for the great work done

I'm using 1.5.1 NET DataMapper to design a domain, and i need to model 
some classses such as there are someone that have complex lists 
attached, and i cannot use lazy loading (i need ALWAYS access to the 
child objects),

Looking in the ibatis.net 1.5.1 documentation, i don't know if a JOIN 
with 1.N or N:M scenario is supported, e .g. if i can use the 
resultMapping="" attribute on resultmap with a IList Property, and in 
such case how the resultset will be "splitted" between parent and child 
object  (i guess would be accoring to the parent primary key, but what 
if it is not present in the command?)

(Documentation says that the feature is not supported but active 
discussions are in place, but after these words there is a box that 
reccomend not to use JOIN always in a 1:N or M:N scenario versus 
lazyloading, so i'm asking for this)

Another question: would be great to have Ibatis.net supports field 
(private, protected), and i saw that 1.5.1 only maps public properties, 
altough in this mailing list i noticed some messages regarding this 
support, maybe is under developement ?

Thanks in advance, (i know, there are great features implemented and 
people asks for other more complex......)

Dario Cecere