If a bunch of ppl are giving me the same feedback.  I would step back and
have my ears wide open

-Dan

We have two ears and one mouth so that we can listen twice as much as we
speak.

Epictetus <http://www.brainyquote.com/quotes/authors/e/epictetus.html>




On Tue, Oct 6, 2015 at 1:19 PM, Curtis Rueden <ctrue...@wisc.edu> wrote:

> Hi Wayne,
>
> > I'm glad Greg was able to help you solve your problem.
>
> Greg's response was great. But in fairness, it was Bernd who actually
> stated the solution to Michael's problem. It would be nice if this thread
> could wrap up with Michael acknowledging that Bernd's fix actually does the
> job.
>
> Regards,
> Curtis
>
> On Tue, Oct 6, 2015 at 3:11 PM, Wayne Fay <wayne...@gmail.com> wrote:
>
> > If you disagree with almost everything I said, there's really no point
> > in continuing to discuss it. The possibility of either of us being
> > convinced to change our minds is vanishingly small.
> >
> > I'm glad Greg was able to help you solve your problem.
> >
> > Respectfully,
> > Wayne
> >
> > On Tue, Oct 6, 2015 at 2:17 PM,  <michael.ctr.taru...@faa.gov> wrote:
> > > Wayne,
> > >
> > > Thank you for your reply.  I think I disagree with almost everything
> you
> > said.
> > >
> > > First I did not attack anyone.  Was my attitude bad, yes.  Did it get
> > worse when I felt like I was not getting the explanation I needed, most
> > assuredly.  I called no one a name, nor insulted anyone's intelligence,
> and
> > when I came close to it I apologized.  That's more than I got from
> several
> > of the responders.  Just check the thread, its all there.
> > >
> > > Second, are you implying that you only support people that are happy
> > with the product?  It sounds to me that you are on the defensive already
> > and as soon as you get someone that is frustrated or displeased.   Like
> it
> > is somehow their fault.
> > >
> > > Third, how do you know how much time I've invested in trying to learn
> > Maven?  How much is enough before I can have this "intelligent" Maven
> > dialog with the Maven community?  Users don't want to ask people for help
> > (i.e. at least I like to try and figure things out for myself), but there
> > comes a time when you are just plain stuck.  Maybe its because of a
> mental
> > block and maybe something you've read and researched just does not make
> any
> > sense.  Yes I understand that there are some people that probably post
> > questions without having made an effort to learn anything.  How do you
> > determine that?  How do you differentiate someone who has made an effort
> > from someone who is just trying to get an easy answer?
> > >
> > > With respect to vocabulary and the lingua franca, does "bogus" fit in
> > that category.
> > >
> > > Your comment about the Maven 4.0.0 POM model is particularly
> > frustrating.  When you told me to do the research on the original
> version I
> > did exactly as you instructed.  That is how I determined that it was
> > 2.2.1.  I'm sorry but I think the POM model version question is valid.
> In
> > your original reply you did not know the time frame.  I replied to you
> that
> > it goes back at least five years.  You did not respond.  So while I was
> > doing the research on the version and I found out it was 2.2.1 I thought
> > the POM model version could be a problem.  To tell me now after the fact
> > that I should not have been concerned would mean that I would either have
> > to assume that you know that or I would have to be a mind reader.
> > >
> > > And finally I demanded nothing from anyone.  I asked if two of the
> > repliers were contributors, and I reiterated a basic question I asked
> from
> > the beginning, several times.
> > >
> > > Yes I am partly to blame here.  But many of the Maven User List
> > responders have a little dirt on their hands too.  I don't see any of you
> > acknowledging that.
> > >
> > > Regards,
> > > Mike
> > >
> > > Michael Tarullo
> > > Contractor (Engility Corp)
> > > Enterprise Architect
> > > NSRR System Administrator
> > > FAA WJH Technical Center
> > > (609)485-5294
> > >
> > >
> > > -----Original Message-----
> > > From: Wayne Fay [mailto:wayne...@gmail.com]
> > > Sent: Tuesday, October 06, 2015 12:30 PM
> > > To: Maven Users List
> > > Subject: Re: Copy-dependencies goal error
> > >
> > > Maven is a rather complex piece of software. Many problems cannot be
> > simply distilled to "here's your simple problem, and here's your simple
> > solution." I understand this is what you want, but it is rarely that
> > simple. And attacking the people on this list who are trying to help you
> > when you are frustrated with the type of support they are providing is a
> > really bad approach to problem solving. Also recognize that many people
> on
> > this list are not US-born native English speakers, so there is sometimes
> a
> > language barrier even when we are all writing English.
> > >
> > > By using a free product, you (and your employer) should recognize that
> > you are trading off dollar costs for other costs - including your own
> time.
> > Please don't complain about people asking you to do something very simple
> > like install a couple other versions to see if that fixes your build
> issue.
> > It doesn't sound like you went back and tried 2.2.1 as I originally
> > recommended - simply to get more information about what happened,
> certainly
> > not intending to guarantee that would fix your issue. I'd be curious
> about
> > the error message you say that you got in 3.0.5.
> > >
> > > (Also, as a side-note, the POM model has been 4.0.0 for a long time -
> if
> > I was worried about that, I would have mentioned it. This is where "not
> > really knowing the product at all, and not wanting to" becomes a problem,
> > you are making bad assumptions.)
> > >
> > > And yes, the users of this list generally expect people to have some
> > passing familiarity with the product and the lingua franca that is
> > utilized. There are several free resources online to help you "get up to
> > speed" in the form of user's manuals etc. Your response here will most
> > likely be "but I don't want to learn Maven, I just need to use it for
> this
> > quick thing in my job so just help me with that" and the collective
> answer
> > here will be "but Maven is complex, there are so many variables,
> providing
> > simple solutions to problems is even tougher when the user lacks the
> > standard foundational knowledge that is typical."
> > >
> > > It is fine that you only use Maven for your job and thus don't want to
> > learn much - just get your issue fixed. Please understand that our
> > collective tolerance for such users, when they have the wrong attitude as
> > you have demonstrated in this thread, is pretty low. Especially when you
> > say this is part of a COTS software which means that vendor is "passing
> the
> > buck" for support to this list when they themselves should provide you
> more
> > support which you are paying for. In the ideal scenario, you open a
> ticket
> > to that vendor, they have an internal person who is good with Maven who
> > provides you with support, and only if they cannot solve the problem
> would
> > they come to this list for support on your behalf.
> > >
> > > You should not be unhappy with the users of this list. You should
> direct
> > that anger to the COTS vendor who is failing to provide you with support
> > for a product that you have paid for! If your emails to this list
> > demonstrates how angry you get when you haven't paid for something and
> > don't get what you expect, I don't want to be around when we throw
> > substantial real dollars into the mix - I anticipate a stream of
> > obscenity-laced emails flying in every direction.
> > >
> > > Demanding short & simple responses to all inquiries such as yours will
> > result in little traffic on this list as there is rarely a short & simple
> > response to most of the questions. And yes, demanding is the only word
> > which is appropriate in the context of this thread.
> > >
> > > We're happy to (try to) support you here, but I'd suggest that you
> adopt
> > a somewhat different approach & attitude first.
> > >
> > > Thanks,
> > > Wayne
> > > Apache Maven PMC Member
> > >
> > > On Mon, Oct 5, 2015 at 4:42 PM,  <michael.ctr.taru...@faa.gov> wrote:
> > >> Here is why I care:
> > >>
> > >> Well I'm not a Maven contributor.  I don't wish to be.  I don't even
> > want to use the product, and wouldn't if I wasn't required to for my job.
> > >>
> > >> So I get the impression that certain people answer questions because
> > they are contributors and answer the question as if everyone else is a
> > contributor and is expected to know the product as such.
> > >>
> > >> You folks in the open source arena have a lot to learn.  Your reply
> > that you "fixed my stupid pom" is one of those things.  Good customer
> > support would go something like this.....
> > >>
> > >> The problem you are having is because...... <provide an explanation
> > >> here that someone who is not a contributor or even an intermediate or
> > >> advanced user can understand>
> > >>
> > >> Here is what you need to do to fix that problem..... <provide the fix
> > >> and explain why this fix is needed in this case>
> > >>
> > >> You have done nothing to educate the user and to make them more
> > self-sufficient.
> > >>
> > >> Michael Tarullo
> > >> Contractor (Engility Corp)
> > >> Enterprise Architect
> > >> NSRR System Administrator
> > >> FAA WJH Technical Center
> > >> (609)485-5294
> > >>
> > >>
> > >> -----Original Message-----
> > >> From: Bernd Eckenfels [mailto:e...@zusammenkunft.net]
> > >> Sent: Monday, October 05, 2015 5:12 PM
> > >> To: users@maven.apache.org
> > >> Subject: Re: Copy-dependencies goal error
> > >>
> > >> Am Mon, 5 Oct 2015 21:08:02 +0000
> > >> schrieb <michael.ctr.taru...@faa.gov>:
> > >>> Answer a simple question for me, are you a Maven contributor?
> > >>
> > >> I fixed your stupid pom, so why would you care?
> > >>
> > >> Gruss
> > >> Bernd
> > >>
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