So looks like I will remove the Apple ID in that menu.

   Thank you Daniel.

   On 8 Sep 2022, at 11:28 am, Daniel Kerr via WAMUG
   <[1]wa...@lists.wamug.org.au> wrote:

   Hi Stephen
   Sorry, may not have written that well.
   On her iPad she would be removing your mobile number, as you mentioned
   she’s getting your texts. So you want to remove the mobile number that
   the texts are *meant* to be what you want to remove.
   Eg if I was doing it on my iPad with no phone number (just an Apple
   ID), would be removing my mobile OFF the iPad in the setting I
   mentioned.
   (Or if no mobile, then the AppleID that the messages are being sent
   to).
   Hope that helps.
   Kind regards
   Daniel
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     On 8 Sep 2022, at 9:23 am, Stephen Chape via WAMUG
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      Thanks Daniel.
      I went looking for that but her iPad has no phone number.
      So her only option is the Apple ID … that is my issue.
      On 7 Sep 2022, at 11:11 pm, Daniel Kerr via WAMUG
      <[1][5]wa...@lists.wamug.org.au> wrote:
      Hi Stephen
      Yes, if you’re using the same AppleID that would be why,
      You can disable it by the following…
      On your wife’s iPad go to Settings - Messages.
      Tap on “Send & Receive”. You’ll see a list od AppleID’s and phone
      numbers. Untick the phone number you don’t want her to receive them
     on.
      (In the top section)
      This will then remove it from the “list of replies”.
      That should then resolve it.
      Kind regards
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        On 7 Sep 2022, at 10:38 pm, Stephen Chape via WAMUG
        <[4][8]wa...@lists.wamug.org.au> wrote:
         Hi folks.
         When I send an SMS from my iPhone 13 to anyone else with an
     iPhone
        my
         wife also receives the reply on her iPad.
         I am guessing this is because we use the same Apple ID for all
     our
         devices and these go as iMessages.
         Is there any way of stopping this without changing the Apple ID
     ?
         Regards
         Stephen Chape
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