> On Thu, Feb 12, 2009 at 4:04 PM, David Gerard <dger...@gmail.com> wrote:
> 
>> 2009/2/13 Al Tally <majorly.w...@googlemail.com>:
>> 
>>> Often people don't know they're having a bad day, and may respond more
>>> harshly than they would normally. Not their fault, it's human nature.
>> 
>> There's also people's tendency to be liberal in what they send out and
>> conservative in what they accept. I remember one person moving to ban
>> sarcasm from Wikipedia project space. He was inspired to this when
>> someone responded sarcastically to him comparing them to Hitler.
> 
> on 2/12/09 7:52 PM, George Herbert at george.herb...@gmail.com wrote:
> 
> I think that "bad day" and "liberal in emit conservative in accept" go
> together fairly strongly.  People who are reasonable (most people) only get
> that way on bad days.
> 
> Part of the problem is that there's a quite legitimate tendency for the
> first thing that goes when you get grumpy or sick to be your introspective
> self-checking...
> 
> People in real life respond a bit better to "Hey, you seem to be extra
> grumpy today, why don't you take the day off?" than they do online.  There's
> the whole depersonalizing / disassociating effect of not seeing people in
> front of you when communicating electronically.
> 
George, this is often why I wonder if a person in this medium would say the
exact same words to the person if they were with them in-person, face to
face.

Marc


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