Part of my problem is my OCD, which races to thoughts that if this person disagrees with me, they must hate me, and if they hate me, they will find out who I am in real life and find some way to hurt me.
Is there any way to work on this? --- In [email protected], "ED" <seacrofter001@...> wrote: > > > > Hi DP, > > What you oberve in yourself is quite normal and natural in all humans to > a greater or lesser extent, and is due to one's sense of self, which has > it's own fall-out, and which fallout can be perceived as good, bad, both > good and bad, neither good nor bad, or all of the above, or none of the > above. > > --ED. > > > > --- In [email protected], "D P" <wookielifeday@> wrote: > > > I haven't been on here for a long time, and I apologize. > > I have written about this before, but I still struggle with it. I simply > cannot > walk away from an argument, especially on the internet. I just find > myself not > able to back down when faced with an argument. It's especially hard when > somone > insults my intelligence. Obviously this is just ego. But why is it so > hard to > back down? What can I do? > ------------------------------------ Current Book Discussion: any Zen book that you recently have read or are reading! Talk about it today!Yahoo! Groups Links <*> To visit your group on the web, go to: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/Zen_Forum/ <*> Your email settings: Individual Email | Traditional <*> To change settings online go to: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/Zen_Forum/join (Yahoo! ID required) <*> To change settings via email: [email protected] [email protected] <*> To unsubscribe from this group, send an email to: [email protected] <*> Your use of Yahoo! Groups is subject to: http://docs.yahoo.com/info/terms/
