[Gendergap] Rebirthing PAIN or something like it - and c*nt talk

2014-07-26 Thread LB
One of my hurdles as an editor is incivility: a deficiency of it in others and, according to some of them, too much of it in me - or too much sensitivity. I started a discussion Where and how to request a Civility board

Re: [Gendergap] Sexualized environment on Commons

2014-07-30 Thread LB
Twice during my short discussion about how to start a civility board, which turned into a long discussion about the word c*nt, an Admin gave the link to the Commons search results for that word, saying that showed that the text of the word isn't very offensive. WTF?! On Jul 30, 2014 7:55 PM,

[Gendergap] Feedback appreciated

2014-07-31 Thread LB
I would appreciate some feedback on this discussion, please, especially from others who have been stalked in real life, harassed online, or Wikihounded.

Re: [Gendergap] The Insane Double Standard for Women Working in Tech

2014-09-09 Thread LB
Thanks! Lightbreather On Tue, Sep 9, 2014 at 11:52 AM, Sydney Poore sydney.po...@gmail.com wrote: This article is interesting and relevant to the gender gap issue on Wikipedia. Sydney The Insane Double Standard for Women Working in Tech

Re: [Gendergap] Shining light on the gender gap by Twitter

2014-09-09 Thread LB
I'm going to keep at it, for now. Honestly, I'm tired of it being a mostly internally discussed problem... Perhaps I'll change my mind at some point, but that's my thinking on it at this time. Lightbreather On Tue, Sep 9, 2014 at 3:21 PM, Carol Moore dc carolmoor...@verizon.net wrote:

Re: [Gendergap] Shining light on the gender gap by Twitter

2014-09-10 Thread LB
And of course, that is the nub of the problem. Women shouldn't have to keep their heads down and write about acceptable and uncontroversial things to avoid getting harassed. (Also, I'm not sure even editing women scientists would be safe.) Lightbreather On Wed, Sep 10, 2014 at 9:15 AM, Sarah

Re: [Gendergap] Wikipedia and the war on women’s dignity

2014-09-11 Thread LB
I hear you, but I would very much like to see some good newsrooms (real journalists) do regular reporting on Wikipedia. I think it would be hard on the community at first, but ultimately would help. WP is a hostile work environment and I for one am tired of it. Lightbreather On Thu, Sep 11, 2014

[Gendergap] Notice of a discussion the involves the GG Task Force

2014-09-24 Thread LB
There is a discussion at ANI that involves (partially) the Gender Gap Task Force: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Wikipedia:Administrators%27_noticeboard/Incidents#Request_administrator_to_evaluate_conduct_of_user Lightbreather ___ Gendergap mailing list

Re: [Gendergap] Survey re: gender gap

2014-10-14 Thread LB
Your survey came at the right time. I just quit Wikipedia. On Oct 14, 2014 10:32 AM, Amanda Menking amenk...@uw.edu wrote: Hi, I’ve just activated a survey re: the gender gap, primarily on the EN Wiki: https://jfe.qualtrics.com/form/SV_cILwYSqJB58SgFn This survey is a part of ongoing

Re: [Gendergap] What's happening at ArbCom re WP:GGTF

2014-11-25 Thread LB
I cannot believe the crap going on on that talk page now! Having watched this case develop over the past few weeks, I finally ventured to share my disgust with the way things ended up, and now I'm being accused of basing my opinion *completely* on gender. Another guy chimed in to say: Some people

Re: [Gendergap] [Gendergap-I] GGTF interactions arbcom case has now closed

2014-12-04 Thread LB
Don't let RO close that before I can vote... which will December 7, unless the editors who are baiting me many to get my block extended. Lightbreather On Thu, Dec 4, 2014 at 1:39 AM, Ryan Kaldari rkald...@wikimedia.org wrote: Rationalobserver has posted a survey related to the Gender Gap Task

[Gendergap] How to vote today?

2014-12-07 Thread LB
I have been trying to get a block lifted for a week now, but my request is at a critical point today - as I'd like to vote at WP:ACE. I have tried the unblock and Admin help templates on my talk page, the UTRS ticket system, and direct appeals to involved admins. Any suggestions? For details,

Re: [Gendergap] a gender gap meet-up?

2014-12-10 Thread LB
Is there a term (like joe job) for when someone pretends to be you to get you into trouble? In my case, after I'd already been blocked for a week, an IP address deleted some info

Re: [Gendergap] Rosiestep in Huffington Post (yay good news)

2014-12-11 Thread LB
Makes me smile. Lightbreather On Thu, Dec 11, 2014 at 11:01 AM, Sarah Stierch sarah.stie...@gmail.com wrote: yay rays of sunshine :) http://www.huffingtonpost.co.uk/netha-hussain/rosie-stephenson-the-woma_b_6302636.html -- Sarah Stierch - Diverse and engaging consulting for your

Re: [Gendergap] ya'll are in slate

2014-12-11 Thread LB
Excellent! Lightbreather On Thu, Dec 11, 2014 at 2:34 PM, Sarah Stierch sarah.stie...@gmail.com wrote: http://www.slate.com/articles/technology/bitwise/2014/12/wikipedia_editing_disputes_the_crowdsourced_encyclopedia_has_become_a_rancorous.html GENDER GAP TASK FORCE FTW -- Sarah

Re: [Gendergap] GGTF talk page

2014-12-30 Thread LB
Honestly, I'm leery about participating on this list a lot of the time because I don't know who everyone is - that is the name they use on this list doesn't match their name on Wikipedia. There is one I've figured out, and he is one of the ones who has said some very bad things about me on talk

Re: [Gendergap] GGTF talk page

2014-12-30 Thread LB
I think there is very little that Carol and I would agree on when it comes to subjects and article topics, and we definitely have different editing styles, but I absolutely agree with her on one thing, and that is the hostility on Wikipedia is a turn-off to a lot of women and men. I would much

Re: [Gendergap] GGTF talk page

2014-12-30 Thread LB
I suggest that an environment made up of *mostly* men is going to behave in a way that is *mostly* male. The Argument Culture http://www.mitpressjournals.org/doi/abs/10.1162/DAED_a_00211?journalCode=daed#.VKLQgF4AA by Deborah Tannen PhD Lightbreather On Tue, Dec 30, 2014 at 8:15 AM, Risker

Re: [Gendergap] GGTF talk page

2014-12-31 Thread LB
at 10:45 PM, Sarah slimvir...@gmail.com wrote: On Tue, Dec 30, 2014 at 7:43 PM, LB lightbreath...@gmail.com wrote: Why abandon it? Let's reclaim it. Just ignore those who try to distract and derail. There are sanctions so no nastiness, but nastiness is not my usual style anyway. ​I don't

Re: [Gendergap] GGTF talk page

2014-12-31 Thread LB
December 2014 at 10:31, LB lightbreath...@gmail.com wrote: Is it simply impossible to start a Wikipedia project that's open to women, or people who identify as women? (I'm sorry if I don't use the correct terms, but I haven't kept up with them in recent years.) I mean if we did it... what would

Re: [Gendergap] GGTF talk page

2014-12-31 Thread LB
that be done? Risker/Anne On 31 December 2014 at 10:31, LB lightbreath...@gmail.com wrote: Is it simply impossible to start a Wikipedia project that's open to women, or people who identify as women? (I'm sorry if I don't use the correct terms, but I haven't kept up with them in recent years.) I mean

[Gendergap] Women of GGTF

2014-12-31 Thread LB
You may be interested in the Systers forum at the Anita Borg Institute: http://anitaborg.org/get-involved/systers/ It is women only. Sorry guys. Lightbreather ___ Gendergap mailing list Gendergap@lists.wikimedia.org To manage your subscription

Re: [Gendergap] GGTF talk page

2014-12-31 Thread LB
the feminine term for user.) Not quite sure what the result is on English Wikipedia - is there a list somewhere? Risker/Anne On 31 December 2014 at 10:59, LB lightbreath...@gmail.com wrote: Well, I'm brainstorming, but yes... a project that is only open to women or those who identify

Re: [Gendergap] GGTF talk page

2014-12-31 Thread LB
enough high-quality participation b) without becoming a cabal in the style of the EEML https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Wikipedia:Arbitration/Requests/Case/Eastern_European_mailing_list that got people in so much trouble a few years ago. On Wed, Dec 31, 2014 at 10:59 AM, LB lightbreath...@gmail.com

[Gendergap] WP:WOMEN

2014-12-31 Thread LB
So, I'm reading Wikipedia:WikiProject https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Wikipedia:WikiProject and nothing is jumping out at me as prohibiting a WP:WOMEN project. It says, A *WikiProject* is a group https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Social_group of contributors who want to work together as a team

Re: [Gendergap] GGTF talk page

2014-12-31 Thread LB
December 2014 at 11:18, LB lightbreath...@gmail.com wrote: I can imagine the complaints and hurdles. The discussion is it possible? Could it work? To your specific questions, if there's no page-protection option, can there be? If it's absolutely impossible, then the moderators would have to keep

Re: [Gendergap] GGTF talk page

2014-12-31 Thread LB
...@gmail.com wrote: On 31 December 2014 at 11:18, LB lightbreath...@gmail.com wrote: I can imagine the complaints and hurdles. The discussion is it possible? Could it work? To your specific questions, if there's no page-protection option, can there be? If it's absolutely impossible

Re: [Gendergap] GGTF talk page

2014-12-31 Thread LB
would just be making another Teahouse but for women. It's funny seeing this conversation happening again. :) it's good though Sarah (Sent from my phone) On Dec 31, 2014 8:38 AM, LB lightbreath...@gmail.com wrote: I've started two separate mailing list topics today - Women of GGTF

Re: [Gendergap] WikiProject Women

2015-01-01 Thread LB
it is, although hypothetically it's mentoring and... well, I keep coming back to I'm not sure what it is. I have a hard enough time keeping up with my current load, and am not particularly interested in going to more venues, but I may be the exception. Risker/Anne On 1 January 2015 at 19:49, LB

Re: [Gendergap] WikiProject Women

2015-01-01 Thread LB
, LB lightbreath...@gmail.com wrote: Thank you, Heather! This is what we run into on the WP GGTF every time we open something up for discussion. All I wanted to discuss the possibility of such a group. Are there any policies that would make it impossible? How would we determine who is a woman

Re: [Gendergap] press coverage of Gamergate arbcom case

2015-01-24 Thread LB
I just went and read GorillaWarfare's votes. She is my eyes and ears there. that is, I trust her judgement. She is an excellent arbitrator, and I wish the Committee had 4 or 5 more like her. On Jan 23, 2015 10:07 PM, Ryan Kaldari rkald...@wikimedia.org wrote: The rediculous thing is that none

Re: [Gendergap] press coverage of Gamergate arbcom case

2015-01-24 Thread LB
I think one thing that could help is to reclaim the GGTF. The thing is to remain unflappable and ignore The Troll. On Jan 24, 2015 9:36 AM, Sarah slimvir...@gmail.com wrote: On Sat, Jan 24, 2015 at 7:26 AM, J Hayes slowki...@gmail.com wrote: well, they did not revdel it. arbcom can drive the

Re: [Gendergap] Stepping down as list mod - volunteers needed

2015-01-23 Thread LB
I might be interested. What all's involved? Lightbreather On Fri, Jan 23, 2015 at 2:07 PM, Leigh Honeywell le...@hypatia.ca wrote: Hey Kevin, don't worry about getting Emily added - I'll handle it. Sorry to hear you've been ill! To the rest of the list, another volunteer or two would be

Re: [Gendergap] Thank someone today.

2015-02-04 Thread LB
I agree, Kerry. I try to use the thank button at least once a day. Lightbreather On Wed, Feb 4, 2015 at 4:50 PM, Kerry Raymond kerry.raym...@gmail.com wrote: We talk a lot of about the culture of Wikipedia being negative, critical, abrasive etc; this is a turn-off to a lot of women (and also

Re: [Gendergap] Opinion pieces on cisgender...Test Kaffeeklatsch area for women-only

2015-01-20 Thread LB
You know what I want? A place where women can come together and talk. I hope they won't get hung up on - or especially belittle each other - if they prefer to say *about themselves* I am a woman, or I am a cisgender woman, or I am a woman-born-woman, or I am a trans-woman, or whatever. And I sure

[Gendergap] Request re the Gendergap mailing list subscription page

2015-01-21 Thread LB
I would like to suggest that the Gendergap mailing list subscription page https://lists.wikimedia.org/mailman/listinfo/gendergap include the five bullet points in the Gender Gap Discuss section https://meta.wikimedia.org/wiki/Gender_gap#Discuss - No personal attacks - Try to stay on topic

Re: [Gendergap] Test Kaffeeklatsch area for women-only

2015-01-17 Thread LB
It's tempting, but I'm not ready to make that leap yet for my purpose. I really want it for women only, which isn't quite the same as not men. I'm leaning toward Anne's those who self-identify as women. It was my first instinct, and that's usually the way to go. Lightbreather On Fri, Jan 16,

Re: [Gendergap] Diversity training for functionaries. In London?

2015-01-19 Thread LB
Thanks, Leigh. That guy attacked me regularly during the cuntgate business on WP, and especially while the GGTF ArbCom was open. Lightbreather On Sun, Jan 18, 2015 at 11:33 AM, Leigh Honeywell le...@hypatia.ca wrote: Tim, this kind ofsnippiness is inappropriate and unhelpful. I'll be

[Gendergap] How to proceed?

2015-01-16 Thread LB
So I made the WikiProject Women proposal at the IdeaLab: https://meta.wikimedia.org/wiki/Grants:IdeaLab/WikiProject_Women 10 days ago now, with some remarkable support https://meta.wikimedia.org/wiki/Grants_talk:IdeaLab/WikiProject_Women#Idea_support_as_of_2010-01-13_20:47_UTC, IMO. I'd like to

[Gendergap] Test Kaffeeklatsch area for women-only

2015-01-16 Thread LB
Based on a discussion at the WikiProject Women IdeaLab talk page https://meta.wikimedia.org/wiki/Grants_talk:IdeaLab/WikiProject_Women#best_practice.3F, I have started a test Kaffeeklatsch https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/User:Lightbreather/Kaffeeklatsch area for women (cis, lesbian, transgender)

Re: [Gendergap] Test Kaffeeklatsch area for women-only

2015-01-16 Thread LB
and even proud to be women.* ...wha? On Fri, Jan 16, 2015 at 4:13 PM, Carol Moore dc carolmoor...@verizon.net wrote: On 1/16/2015 2:20 PM, LB wrote: Based on a discussion at the WikiProject Women IdeaLab talk page https://meta.wikimedia.org/wiki/Grants_talk:IdeaLab/WikiProject_Women

Re: [Gendergap] Test Kaffeeklatsch area for women-only

2015-01-16 Thread LB
to be an insult that eliminates womens experience as women, who've been identified as and identify as women from birth, and are happy and even proud to be women.* ...wha? On Fri, Jan 16, 2015 at 4:13 PM, Carol Moore dc carolmoor...@verizon.net wrote: On 1/16/2015 2:20 PM, LB wrote: Based

[Gendergap] Question at the Village Pump

2015-01-22 Thread LB
There is a question at the Village Pump that should be of interest to members of this list. Risk in identifying as a woman editor on Wikipedia https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Wikipedia:Village_pump_(miscellaneous)#Risk_in_identifying_as_a_woman_editor_on_Wikipedia Lightbreather

Re: [Gendergap] Diversity training for functionaries. In London?

2015-01-18 Thread LB
My auto correct changed on-wiki to on-line. I did/do mean on-wiki. On Jan 18, 2015 9:53 AM, LB lightbreath...@gmail.com wrote: Please don't misrepresent me. Wanting ONE safe place on-line for women only (which is what I want) is not the same as wanting no men anywhere where women

[Gendergap] Goings-on at WER

2015-01-25 Thread LB
Some of you may already be aware of this, but there is a did you ask any women question that has blown up all out-of-proportion at WP Editor Retention. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Wikipedia_talk:WikiProject_Editor_Retention#How_many_women_have_been_involved_in_these_discussions.3F

Re: [Gendergap] press coverage of Gamergate arbcom case

2015-01-30 Thread LB
Marie I always find your replies so interesting. Glad you share. On Jan 30, 2015 5:46 AM, Marie Earley eir...@hotmail.com wrote: There is something I thought I should mention as a UK member of this list. Hate speech (including online) is illegal in the UK. When the Bank of England announced

[Gendergap] WikiProject Women

2015-01-06 Thread LB
Well, I don't know if I did it right, but per Sarah's and Siko's suggestion, I started this: https://meta.wikimedia.org/wiki/Grants:IdeaLab/WikiProject_Women Just bare bones for now. I will work on it some more tomorrow. Lightbreather ___ Gendergap

[Gendergap] Article: How to Edit Wikipedia: Lessons from a Female Contributor

2015-01-13 Thread LB
Published today by the Anita Borg Institute. Please share, if you're inclined. How to Edit Wikipedia: Lessons from a Female Contributor http://anitaborg.org/news/blog/how-to-edit-wikipedia-lessons-from-a-female-contributor/ Lightbreather ___ Gendergap

Re: [Gendergap] Strong support for grants directly related to addressing the gender gap

2015-01-06 Thread LB
I put my name down as a volunteer back in October - October 7, to be precise. On New Year's Eve I asked the simple question: Is it possible to start a Wikipedia project that's open to women, or people who identify as women? There are a handful of people on this list who are opposed to the idea,

[Gendergap] 5 days left to Inspire Campaign: What to do about WikiWomen Project

2015-03-26 Thread LB
I worried over this earlier in the month, then I got a brief vacation with my sisters. Now I'm back and I need to make up my mind whether or not I want to pursue the WikiProject Women proposal that I made back in January. (Since there are only five days left in the Inspire Campaign.) Here's a

[Gendergap] Outcome of IdeaLab/Inspire campaign

2015-04-13 Thread LB
My arm is in a cast/splint. Not in good spirits, not getting around well. Got a request to participate in a survey re the Inspire campaign. Made me wonder: What was the result? Which, if any, ideas are going to be supported. I gave up on WikiProject Women because there was so much hatred thrown

[Gendergap] Outcome of IdeaLab/Inspire campaign

2015-04-13 Thread LB
WikiProject Women was actually at the top of the Leaderboard: *https://meta.wikimedia.org/wiki/Grants:IdeaLab/Inspire/Leaderboard https://meta.wikimedia.org/wiki/Grants:IdeaLab/Inspire/Leaderboard* Lightbreather ___ Gendergap mailing list

[Gendergap] Systers-Wikipedia

2015-04-21 Thread LB
There is now a Systers-Wikipedia private mailing list for Wikipedia women editors only. If you are a Wikipedia woman editor (including transgender), contact me for info on how to join. I meant to announce this a few weeks ago, but an unplanned, personal business trip and a broken elbow held me

Re: [Gendergap] Systers-Wikipedia

2015-04-27 Thread LB
excludes me, and at the same time I support experimenting with different types of safe spaces when there is a perceived need. Fae On 21 April 2015 at 19:49, LB lightbreath...@gmail.com wrote: There is now a Systers-Wikipedia private mailing list for Wikipedia women editors only. If you

Re: [Gendergap] Systers-Wikipedia

2015-04-27 Thread LB
me, and at the same time I support experimenting with different types of safe spaces when there is a perceived need. Fae On 21 April 2015 at 19:49, LB lightbreath...@gmail.com wrote: There is now a Systers-Wikipedia private mailing list for Wikipedia women editors only. If you

Re: [Gendergap] Women reluctant to comment online - any relation to the WP gender gap?

2015-05-03 Thread LB
A reminder to women on this list, if there is something you want to discuss privately with other women Wikipedia editors, go to this page - Anita Borg Institute - Systers Technical Interests http://anitaborg.org/get-involved/systers/technical-interests/ - and scroll down, you will see a link to

[Gendergap] Retired

2015-05-26 Thread LB
Due to off-wiki harassment, I have retired. Thank you to those of you who have been friendly with me over the past year. Lightbreather ___ Gendergap mailing list Gendergap@lists.wikimedia.org To manage your subscription preferences, including

Re: [Gendergap] Retired

2015-05-26 Thread LB
in the future where changes have been made to the point that you are interested in and comfortable coming back. Best, Kevin Gorman On Tue, May 26, 2015 at 5:35 PM, LB lightbreath...@gmail.com wrote: Due to off-wiki harassment, I have retired. Thank you to those of you who have been friendly

[Gendergap] How may Trump win effect the WP working environment

2016-11-24 Thread LB
In light of Trump boasting of grabbing women "by the pussy" and of him calling Clinton a "nasty woman" on national TV during a formal presidential debate, I wonder what effect, if any, his election may have on the WP working environment. Since the election there have been numerous reports of

[Gendergap] Re: #MEMORY (WAS: Re: List update)

2021-05-16 Thread LB
So sad to hear that Sarah/Slim Virgin has passed. I wish I could leave my condolences. I wasn't aware of her until she invited me to join the Gender Gap Task Force, but from then on she was someone whose take on Wikipedia and Wikipedians - including myself - was important to me. I especially