Dear Gufran, Encourage and help your wife learn driving. And then both of you will be able to travel easily within the city.
However, make sure that people around you don’t get the impression that you are too much dependent or taking advantage of your wife or treating her as a driver only. Many blind persons unfortunately and unknowingly create such impression. I am raising a controversial topic here but this is my observation. Wife can be the driver, the husband should be treating her as a partner or companion and if she want to take up any other thing such as a career or course or hobby, then that should be encouraged as well. People around you should be able to see that she has a personality and life of her own too. You have been our student and hence I am taking the liberty to give this advice. Best wishes, Prashant From: accessindia@accessindia.org.in <accessindia@accessindia.org.in> On Behalf Of Dr. K. Muruganandan Sent: Monday, January 1, 2024 11:22 PM To: accessindia@accessindia.org.in Subject: RE: [AI] a query regarding car driving Hi, I think you don’t need to feel anxious about learning driving. In fact, you should appreciate your wife’s willingness to learn driving. If she’s able to cook well, she can very well learn driving. Its just a skill like cooking and reading. Literacy level should not be a problem since sign boards and signals don’t require even reading skill. Taking others suggestion, 1. Enroll your wife in a good driving school, 2. Purchase a preferably second-hand but good-condition car, 3. And get it registered it in your name! Sent from Mail <https://go.microsoft.com/fwlink/?LinkId=550986> for Windows From: gufran <mailto:gufran.ahmed2...@gmail.com> Sent: Monday, January 1, 2024 3:30 PM To: 'PAUL MUDDHA' via AccessIndia <mailto:accessindia@accessindia.org.in> Subject: [AI] a query regarding car driving Hi friends, First of all I wish you a happy and prosperous new year. Friends, I am back with another query regarding learning car driving. But before that let me give my brief about me however many members are already know me. Ok let me brief about my self. I am staying in Kolkata and working as deputy manager in SBI. My father used to drop and pick from my office, we use to commute by motorbike daily. On 4th of July I.e. 2023, we met with an accident nearby my office in which my father had a fracture above the elbow and have to go under surgery. After that incidence, I am managing my own, but my wife wants to learn driving. But the problem is that my wife is not that much literate and currently we have no car till date, however I will purchase in future as I am about to shift to my new flat with in 6-7 months. So friends I would like to know that, 1 should I allow her to learn driving? As I am not sure about her capabilities as because she did not have that much exposure regarding vehicles. 2 what would be your opinions, should I go with her decision because if we look in our society, almost the drivers are either semi literate or ill-literate. 3 as I am the only bread earner, it is not possible to higher full time driver. Does any one in this list having same or similar situation? If yes what are the remedies you guise have taken? Any suggestion or comments are welcome. Regards Gufran. Sent from Mail <https://go.microsoft.com/fwlink/?LinkId=550986> for Windows -- Disclaimer: 1. Contents of the mails, factual, or otherwise, reflect the thinking of the person sending the mail and AI in no way relates itself to its veracity; 2. AI cannot be held liable for any commission/omission based on the mails sent through this mailing list.. Search for old postings at: http://www.mail-archive.com/accessindia@accessindia.org.in/ --- You received this message because you are subscribed to the Google Groups "AccessIndia" group. To unsubscribe from this group and stop receiving emails from it, send an email to accessindia+unsubscr...@accessindia.org.in <mailto:accessindia+unsubscr...@accessindia.org.in> . 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