I think this is a very negative self image of ourselves. If a person can feel comfortable about a particular religion, caste or any other identity, why can't we feel comfortable about our disabilities? One of the reasons why we are not understood properly by others is that we always try and disown our condition or hide it from others. By hiding we are not going to be accepted by the world; on the contrary, we will be rejected thoroughly since we subtly tell them that disability is not such an acceptable condition (or) I am different and I want to hide that fact. I don't know if this is what you tried telling in the below mail, but I find such discomfort almost in every disabled person I meet. I often try telling them that feeling uncomfortable about their identity will always tell others that they have a poor self esteem. Like how Africans defined blackness with the phrase "Black is beautiful" I wouldn't mind telling people that "blindness has its own beauty and serenity" We are not exactly conveying our equality with others by merely talking about our rights, we do that only by making others understand that we are like them in every other aspects. So if I want to announce my disability to convey my different'ness and also express the desire to be a part of the greater humanity, I shall do that. I remember posting a poem by Ben Okary called 'To an English friend in Africa' in which he says: "... So fear not my friend, the darkness is gentler than you think". This is what I mean by being at ease about our condition in life.
Subramani -----Original Message----- From: accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in [mailto:accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] On Behalf Of jignesh thakur Sent: Sunday, April 18, 2010 11:31 AM To: accessindia@accessindia.org.in Subject: Re: [AI] disability field in sensus Dear Sirs, If person has any disease such high BP, and he doesn't mansion on the card, it does mean that he is trying to escape from the problem, or he or she is hiding something from the world, or he or she is Acting like an ostrich Sorry to say but I don't see any benefit of writing disability on the card. It will simply destroy our chances of expectance at many places. Without manssioning disability at least we will have an opportunity to prove ourself. I think my example of trading account is enough. And I strongly believe that many of you have experienced the same at some point. At the same time we should have separate disability card, so we can produce it where ever it necessary. Let me tell you again that I am not trying to hurt anybody. I am learning from you all. Thanks. On 4/18/10, sandeep singh <sandeepsingh...@gmail.com> wrote: > Hello all, > Acting like an ostrich will not do. If we are disabled in some way, > we have to acknowledge it and if others don't, well, that's what we > are fighting for! If we keep being afraid of being disabled, the > world won't care anyway. > Regards, > Sandeep > > At 12:11 AM 18-04-10, you wrote: >>Sir, >>In our country many people consider disability as like asirias crime. >>There is a question of expectance, if the disability would menssion on >>the card, our lots of application and other things will rejected >>automatically. We live in the country where people have not much >>respect for disable person. >>My point is that the disability on the card will not give us a chanse >>to prove ourself at many places. For example once I submitted my >>documents for trading account, the company expected it willingly, but >>when we had face to face meeting for formalities, he realized that I >>am visually impaired person, and he suddenly rejected my application. >>How ever I could convince him to give me his services. If I had >>produced disability card at that time the result might have different. >>That's why I am against it. >>Though vamshisir and other are more intelligent they can thing far >>better than me. I am just writing my thoughts. >>Thanks. >> >> >>On 4/17/10, raghuraman <thinkdontbl...@gmail.com> wrote: >> > friends, i really couldnt understand the outlook of a few of our >> friends who >> > doesn't like the disability field in u i d card >> > actually speaking, we are of course disabled and it must be >> acknowledged and >> > accepted just as a teacher is a teacher and a lawyer is a lawyer >> > moreover, by not including the disability field in the u i d card >> we need to >> > use different forms or cards to get our different benifits >> > also i heard that in fact the n p r performa doesn't have disability >> > field >> > is it right >> > if so, what are the steps have we taken to resolve these problems >> > please explain >> > cheers raghu >> > >> > >> > >> > >> > To unsubscribe send a message to >> accessindia-requ...@accessindia.org.in with >> > the subject unsubscribe. >> > >> > To change your subscription to digest mode or make any other >> changes, please >> > visit the list home page at >> > >> > http://accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/accessindia_accessindia.org.i n >> > >> >> >> >>To unsubscribe send a message to >>accessindia-requ...@accessindia.org.in with the subject unsubscribe. >> >>To change your subscription to digest mode or make any other >>changes, please visit the list home page at >> >> http://accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/accessindia_accessindia.org.i n > > > > > To unsubscribe send a message to accessindia-requ...@accessindia.org.in with > the subject unsubscribe. > > To change your subscription to digest mode or make any other changes, please > visit the list home page at > http://accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/accessindia_accessindia.org.i n > To unsubscribe send a message to accessindia-requ...@accessindia.org.in with the subject unsubscribe. To change your subscription to digest mode or make any other changes, please visit the list home page at http://accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/accessindia_accessindia.org.i n To unsubscribe send a message to accessindia-requ...@accessindia.org.in with the subject unsubscribe. To change your subscription to digest mode or make any other changes, please visit the list home page at http://accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/accessindia_accessindia.org.in
