A heartrending incident, to say the least. Friends have well pointed out that all human beings are vulnerable to such incidents. Taking into account our adaptability and precautions, I involuntarily agree that blinds are more vulnerable.
So far the question of a good understanding among blind couples arises - it is highly probable that a sighted and blind match can be equally good. Marriage is a confluence of two souls; why bring any physical strength or weakness, ugliness or beauty into account? This, I think, clarifies that people who look for a true union don’t care a toss about any materialistic aspect. Love lies at the core of all the relationships. If there is love between a couple, things like disability or ability, richness or poverty and a host of other contrasts become insignificant. I am unmarried and never even had a thing like a girlfriend. But the one thing I am certain about is that Love rules! Shadab shadablucknow.blogspot.com On 8/12/10, prateek aggarwal <prateekagarwa...@gmail.com> wrote: > Well, > As i’ve already said in my previous e-mail, i did not want to take > this on a debate for VI-VI marriage, since that’s out of the context > for this story. > My point was, that whatever you decide for, please, don’t take this > story a base behind any of your decisions . > > I agree to some of the folks that we are vulnerable to this kinds of > things, but the question is, who in the world is not vulnerable to > death or any of these kinds of unpleasant > incidents? > > Kids are more vulnerable then elders, old men are more vulnerable > then kids, rich men are more vulnerable then poor, girls are more > vulnerable then guys, etc etc. > > Unfortunately, we all are living with fear of attacks, robberies, > blasts, an so on. > > I agree to all of you folks, and have no problem with what you all > have said, I just wanna make the only appeal, please, please don’t > let your decisions shake just due to this silly reason. > > If we blind people ourselves will have this terror with us, its gonna > be absolutely horrendous. > > my apologies in advance if I sounded inappropriate. > Regards, > Prateek agarwal. > Skype: > Prateek_agarwal32 > Wanna see inside me? My blog is the telescope: > http://www.myfriendprateek.blogspot.com > website: > http://www.prateekagarwal.webs.com > > the best way to accomplish your softwares/websites development needs. > You tell, I’ll build. > > > > ---------- Original message ---------- > From: Himanshu Sahu <sahu.himanshu2...@gmail.com> > To: accessindia@accessindia.org.in > Date: Thu, 12 Aug 2010 14:28:21 +0530 > Subject: Re: [AI] Blind couple found murdered, tenant missing > My deep condolence to the passed souls. > Just I had a talk with the son in law of victims (Santosh); he is in > hospital because Anjali (one of the daughters of victims) is admitted > in hospital in unconscious condition due to shock and still no > improvement. > > According to Santosh, both the culprits have been arrested and > accepted their involvement. However, the family of victims is afraid > of getting justice since both of criminals are from affluent families. > > I wish that nothing less than death penalty will be awarded to the devils. > And I agree with the statement regarding our vulnerability. Of course > we are vulnerable and only pragmatic remedy seems is the caution. > > On 8/12/10, Asudani, Rajesh < > rajeshasud...@rbi.org.in> > wrote: >> I don't want to inflame the debate about VI vi marriage. >> However, Visual impairment is not the guarantee of mutual understanding. >> Besides, we cannot ignore genetic, problems and greater chance of their >> occurrence. Here also, all three daughters are VI. >> Further, taking into account inaccessibility of infrastructure and >> services >> in general for an average VI, the prospect horrifies me, though two of my >> elder sisters are leading a satisfactory life in VI VI matches. >> Anyway, to reduce genetic possibilities of disability, in our family we >> have >> been successfully trying a Unani medicine, about which I have written >> several times in AI. >> If any VVI couple or couple with VI partner would like to use them during >> pregnancy, please get in touch with me. >> Hitherto, It has proved to be effective. >> >> >> Regards >> >> "If you believe that there is a God, a God that made your >> body, and yet you think that you can do anything with >> that body that's dirty, then the fault lies with the manufacturer." >> >> --Lenny Bruce >> >> (Rajesh Asudani) >> >> Assistant General Manager, >> Reserve Bank of India >> Nagpur >> 09420397185 >> O: 0712 2806676 >> Res: 0712 2591349 >> >> >> >> >> -----Original Message----- >> From: > accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in >> [mailto: > accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] > On Behalf Of aisha sahani >> Sent: Thursday, August 12, 2010 12:49 PM >> To: > accessindia@accessindia.org.in >> Subject: Re: [AI] Blind couple found murdered, tenant missing >> >> Hmm, >> Personally I'm not much acquainted with blind couples, or even much of >> blind people in general, but what I'd like to say is that blindness >> doesn't look like a reason for all of this bad incident to me. >> >> being a delhiIght, I keep coming across to a lot of such news in delhi >> itself where landlords are being murdered/exploited/annoyed by >> tenants. >> >> Further, horde of wrongful acts are done by home servants too. >> >> So, incidents like these are pretty general around us unfortunately >> and therefore, this should not be seen a blindness specific one. >> >> As I said, I don't know of blind couple, but I'm agreed to what said >> by Prateek, that whatever you decide, your decision should not be >> based merely on this stupid awful reason. >> >> In fact, I wonder, a match of V I with a V I in terms of life partner >> should be wonderful! >> >> Who else may be a better companion if he knows all of your problems >> and their solutions too! >> >> At least, they know all the common difficulties of each others so, one >> won't need to feel impaired while expressing the regular stuff. >> >> Looks like they can set a nice chemistry. >> >> I'm highly amazed to read about this family. A couple, 3 daughters, >> all blind, but well settled! Guys, >> Wonder, isn't it? >> >> Salute the couple! >> May your souls rest in piece. >> >> Aisha sahani. >> >> >> >> On 8/12/10, jayinfotech < > jayinfot...@yahoo.com> > wrote: >>> Mukesh >>> >>> Do not lose faith. You should take encouragement from this couple. Both >>> were >>> VH & had 3 VH daughters, all married. I think old age was major reason >>> for >>> crime was committed without fear. And how many more instance of similar >>> crime are commited in Delhi daily?? So cheer up. Think positive That >>> couple >>> was VH & had 3 VH daughters, all married. >>> >>> God bless >>> amit >>> >>> -----Original Message----- >>> From: > accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in >>> [mailto: > accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] > On Behalf Of Mukesh Sharma >>> Sent: Wednesday, August 11, 2010 08:38 PM >>> To: > accessindia@accessindia.org.in >>> Subject: Re: [AI] Blind couple found murdered, tenant missing >>> >>> Out of my personal observation More than blindness the old age was the >>> ... >>> But blindness can not be ignored. >>> And I am a little discouraged for VC marrying VC however before the >>> accident >>> I was of the view that VC with VC would make the best match. >>> I'll take time to get to normal state of mind so please ignore if you >>> don't >>> agree to my view point. >>> >>> >>> >>> -----Original Message----- >>> From: > accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in >>> [mailto: > accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] > On Behalf Of Subramani L >>> Sent: Wednesday, August 11, 2010 8:28 PM >>> To: > accessindia@accessindia.org.in >>> Subject: Re: [AI] Blind couple found murdered, tenant missing >>> >>> Hope this doesn't discourage VC men from marrying VC women. Even we >>> sometimes misunderstand safety with eyesight. I am sure the couple's >>> sight >>> or blindness had anything to do with the brutal act of tretchery. >>> >>> Subramani >>> >>> >>> >>> On 8/11/10, jayinfotech < > jayinfot...@yahoo.com> > wrote: >>>> This is real bad news. I extend deepest condolonces to families of >>>> departed souls. Hope justice will prevail & crimals nabbed. >>>> >>>> Amit >>>> >>>> -----Original Message----- >>>> From: > accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in >>>> [mailto: > accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] > On Behalf Of Vikas >>>> Kapoor >>>> Sent: Wednesday, August 11, 2010 07:31 AM >>>> To: Access India >>>> Subject: [AI] Blind couple found murdered, tenant missing >>>> >>>> Blind couple found murdered, tenant missing >>>> >>>> SR | New Delhi >>>> >>>> A blind couple was strangled to death in their double-storey residence >>>> in Vivek Vihar area of East district on Tuesday. >>>> >>>> Cash and jewellery worth of lakhs of rupees are missing from the spot. >>>> The prime suspect, tenant of the deceased, is absconding. Police said >>>> the tenant was not verified. >>>> >>>> A senior police official said, "We received a call from neighbours on >>>> Tuesday morning. The deceased have been identified as Rajendra Verma >>>> (52) and Shobha Verma (50). Rajendra Verma had opted for a voluntary >>>> retirement from JNU. The bodies have been sent for post-mortem." >>>> >>>> Additional DCP (East) DK Gupta said, "Prima facie, it seems to be a >>>> case of loot. The key suspect in the case are deceased's tenant and >>>> his associate, who are absconding from the scene after the incident. >>>> Both are natives of Uttar Pradesh. Teams have been formed and >>>> investigation is on to nab the culprits." >>>> >>>> The couple stayed in house number 137, Janta flat of Vivek Vihar while >>>> their tenant stayed on the first floor. They had been living there >>>> since July 17 this year. The tenants were introduced to the couple by >>>> Sushma, a neighbour of the deceased. >>>> >>>> The deceased had three daughters identified as Hema (19), Leena (20) >>>> and Neena (22). All three are blind and married. "On Tuesday morning, >>>> I made a call to my parents. Despite several attempts when no answer >>>> was received, I made a call to Satya Devi, a neighbour of my parents. >>>> I told her to convey my message to my parents. When Satya Devi reached >>>> my parent's residence, she found their bodies and raised an alarm. >>>> Police >>> was informed," said Hema. >>>> >>>> One of the suspects identified as Ashwini, who works at a call centre >>>> in Noida, was spotted by residents around 1 am smoking but was not >>>> seen after that. >>>> >>>> An amount of `50,000 and some jewellery was found missing from the >>>> house, they said. >>>> >>>> ---------------------------------------------------------------------- >>>> ------ >>>> ---- >>>> >>>> ---------------------------------------------------------------------- >>>> ------ >>>> ---- >>>> >>>> >>>> > http://www.dailypioneer.com/275431/Blind-couple-found-murdered-tenant- >>>> missin >>>> g.html >>>> >>>> Vikas Kapoor, >>>> MSN > Id:dl_vi...@hotmail.com, > YahooSkype Id: dl_vikas, >>>> Mobile: (+91) 9891098137. >>>> Voice your thoughts in the blog to discuss the Rights of persons with >>>> disability bill at: >>>> > http://www.accessindia.org.in/harish/blog.htm >>>> >>>> To unsubscribe send a message to >>>> > accessindia-requ...@accessindia.org.in > with the subject unsubscribe. >>>> >>>> To change your subscription to digest mode or make any other changes, >>>> please visit the list home page at >>>> >>>> > http://accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/accessindia_accessindia.org >>>> .in >>>> >>>> >>>> Voice your thoughts in the blog to discuss the Rights of persons with >>>> disability bill at: >>>> > http://www.accessindia.org.in/harish/blog.htm >>>> >>>> To unsubscribe send a message to >>>> > accessindia-requ...@accessindia.org.in > with the subject unsubscribe. >>>> >>>> To change your subscription to digest mode or make any other changes, >>>> please visit the list home page at >>>> >>>> > http://accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/accessindia_accessindia.org >>>> .in >>>> >>> >>> Voice your thoughts in the blog to discuss the Rights of persons with >>> disability bill at: >>> > http://www.accessindia.org.in/harish/blog.htm >>> >>> To unsubscribe send a message to > accessindia-requ...@accessindia.org.in >>> with >>> the subject unsubscribe. >>> >>> To change your subscription to digest mode or make any other changes, >>> please >>> visit the list home page at >>> >>> > http://accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/accessindia_accessindia.org.in >>> >>> >>> Voice your thoughts in the blog to discuss the Rights of persons with >>> disability bill at: >>> > http://www.accessindia.org.in/harish/blog.htm >>> >>> To unsubscribe send a message to > accessindia-requ...@accessindia.org.in >>> with >>> the subject unsubscribe. >>> >>> To change your subscription to digest mode or make any other changes, >>> please >>> visit the list home page at >>> >>> > http://accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/accessindia_accessindia.org.in >>> >>> >>> Voice your thoughts in the blog to discuss the Rights of persons with >>> disability bill at: >>> > http://www.accessindia.org.in/harish/blog.htm >>> >>> To unsubscribe send a message to > accessindia-requ...@accessindia.org.in >>> with >>> the subject unsubscribe. >>> >>> To change your subscription to digest mode or make any other changes, >>> please >>> visit the list home page at >>> >>> > http://accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/accessindia_accessindia.org.in >>> >> >> Voice your thoughts in the blog to discuss the Rights of persons with >> disability bill at: >> > http://www.accessindia.org.in/harish/blog.htm >> >> To unsubscribe send a message to > accessindia-requ...@accessindia.org.in > with >> the subject unsubscribe. >> >> To change your subscription to digest mode or make any other changes, >> please >> visit the list home page at >> > http://accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/accessindia_accessindia.org.in >> >> Notice: This email and any files transmitted with it are confidential and >> intended solely for the use of the individual or entity to whom they are >> addressed. 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