yes, you are right. at the beginning sighted or abled person shows interest
on disabled person due to his/her job income or any other attraction. latter
it gradually comes down and a disabled partner suffers a lot. i have many
evidence but, it is unfair to disclose the personal lives to the list. some
of them having dissolved married life. secondly, in our Indian family laws,
there is no remedy for men.
thanks.
----- Original Message -----
From: "ss sarfudeen" <sssarfud...@gmail.com>
To: "accessindia" <accessindia@accessindia.org.in>
Sent: Sunday, December 11, 2011 6:39 PM
Subject: [AI] Of disclosing 'Disability' before marriage
Dear members.
I totally agree with the view expressed by Bhawani Shankar Verma
earlier about the plight of the disabled partner irrespective of the
gender. It is in fact, worse for the VI women. Whether in love or in
marriage, the sighted person at some stage, rejects their disabled
partner. Another side of this reality is that even if the sighted
person willingly accepts their disabled partner, they get greatly
influenced by their family and friends in making their decisions to
reject them as these so called family and friends feel that leading a
happy married life with a vision impaired person is not possible at
all.
I am not saying this without any factual evidences.
Regards
Sultana.
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