Well on a serious note, visual ability or otherwise does matter in such matters. So, it would be good if we can discuss it from that angle. I have observed that the fact that we are not hundred percent independent in our outings, and the girl has naturally to assist us, affects social outlook. For ex. firstly, the girl herself may come to feel it something other than or less than a date, and so, the quality of relationship matters. Another challenge is to make intentions clear, as more often than not, eyes are the primary medium for expressing romantic intent.
Sahir has said: Kaun kahta hai, muhhabat ki Zuban hoti hai, Ye hakikat to nigahon se bayan hoti hai.. However, we have to change this and I have replied to him in a prolonged poem which begins like: Ham ye kahte hain muhhabat ki zuban hoti hai. Ye hakikat kyaa nigahon se bayaan hoti hai??? -----Original Message----- From: accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in [mailto:accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] On Behalf Of BHAWANI SHANKAR VERMA Sent: Thursday, December 15, 2011 7:59 AM To: accessindia@accessindia.org.in Subject: Re: [AI] Dating mohit requires barrier free environment with accessibility as well! smiles! ----- Original Message ----- From: "Srikanth Kanuri" <srili...@gmail.com> To: <accessindia@accessindia.org.in> Sent: Wednesday, December 14, 2011 10:43 PM Subject: Re: [AI] Dating > hi Mohit, go about it dear if you feel it to be right. nothing comes > out without your expression. to be frank there is no accessible dating > yet dear. :) practice from your own experiences and do what ever is > right as per your instincts. just one suggestion just be bold! > > On 12/14/11, shubham gupta <shubhamlovings...@gmail.com> wrote: >> rishi sir, >> again please try to provide the link as it has been deleated. >> >> >> Kind regards >> >> (Shubham Gupta) >> ----- Original Message ----- >> From: "Rishi Kewalramani" <rishi.kewalram...@gmail.com> >> To: <accessindia@accessindia.org.in> >> Sent: Wednesday, December 14, 2011 7:05 PM >> Subject: Re: [AI] Dating >> >> >>> Hi Mohit Bhaiya, >>> hmmm, Dating hah >>> The Saro talk of 24th Sep, 2009, had a matured discussion about >>> relationships, finding and meeting those special people, which could be >>> friendships or may be something more on a personal level, people >>> seeking >>> >>> intemacy from a visually challenged person's prospective. How do we >>> pursue >>> >>> relationships, what do we look for, how do we overcome our fears and >>> some >>> of the stereotypes that we may have to deal with etc. >>> Perhaps, you can take some tips from this talk. >>> But don't forget that you are the very embodiment of happiness. You >>> may >>> pursue a sensible relationship objectively, for your evolution, but >>> don't >>> let your happiness depend on any external source lest you are >>> disappointed >>> >>> and regret it later, smile. >>> >>> You can download and listen to this open matured discussion at: >>> http://www.sendspace.com/file/0d5g63 >>> Take care and all the very best, >>> Cheers. >>> Most folks are as happy as they make up mind to be. >>> Abraham >>> >>> ----- Original Message ----- >>> From: "Mohit Shah Shah" <mohit.shah...@gmail.com> >>> To: <accessindia@accessindia.org.in> >>> Sent: Wednesday, December 14, 2011 4:17 PM >>> Subject: [AI] Dating >>> >>> >>>> Hi all, >>>> >>>> I really like a girl in my class. >>>> I'm also friends with her. >>>> I really want to ask her out. >>>> However, I am reluctant to do so,because I think that she might not >>>> agree to go with me on account of my visual impairment. >>>> Has anyone here faced a similar problem? >>>> >>>> Please share your tips and suggestions. >>>> >>>> Regards, >>>> Mohit >>>> >>>> >>>> Search for old postings at: >>>> http://www.mail-archive.com/accessindia@accessindia.org.in/ >>>> >>>> To unsubscribe send a message to >>>> accessindia-requ...@accessindia.org.in >>>> with the subject unsubscribe. >>>> >>>> To change your subscription to digest mode or make any other changes, >>>> please visit the list home page at >>>> http://accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/accessindia_accessindia.org.in >>>> >>> >>> >>> >>> Search for old postings at: >>> http://www.mail-archive.com/accessindia@accessindia.org.in/ >>> >>> To unsubscribe send a message to >>> accessindia-requ...@accessindia.org.in >>> with the subject unsubscribe. >>> >>> To change your subscription to digest mode or make any other changes, >>> please visit the list home page at >>> http://accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/accessindia_accessindia.org.in >>> >> >> >> >> Search for old postings at: >> http://www.mail-archive.com/accessindia@accessindia.org.in/ >> >> To unsubscribe send a message to >> accessindia-requ...@accessindia.org.in >> with the subject unsubscribe. >> >> To change your subscription to digest mode or make any other changes, >> please >> visit the list home page at >> http://accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/accessindia_accessindia.org.in >> >> > > > Search for old postings at: > http://www.mail-archive.com/accessindia@accessindia.org.in/ > > To unsubscribe send a message to > accessindia-requ...@accessindia.org.in > with the subject unsubscribe. > > To change your subscription to digest mode or make any other changes, > please visit the list home page at > http://accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/accessindia_accessindia.org.in > Search for old postings at: http://www.mail-archive.com/accessindia@accessindia.org.in/ To unsubscribe send a message to accessindia-requ...@accessindia.org.in with the subject unsubscribe. 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