Hai Mohit, what Ajay is telling is also right to some extent You should try to become more independent, you take driver only till college gate and back home but inside college premises and classroom try to be independent why I am telling you this is because now you are still student but when you get maried if you do not have proper mobility it will be verymuch difficult your wife cannot assist everywhere with you and your driver cannot escort everywhere, this problem with late blinds even I also went through same problem but try to become independent as much as possible.
On 6/18/12, Asudani, Rajesh <rajeshasud...@rbi.org.in> wrote: > Well, I could not understand the long list of names at the end. > Is it your family lineage? > > Coming to the point, yes your concern is perfectly valid. > Often have I found that depending on somebody leads to comprimising our will > to the will of the dependee. > In such situation, the challenge is to assert ourselves without getting > aggressive and clarify that who is in the control of the situation. > It is perhaps easier when the help is hired than when help is voluntery or > more so when help is from our family... > > > -----Original Message----- > From: accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in > [mailto:accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] On Behalf Of Mohit Shah > Shah > Sent: Saturday, June 16, 2012 10:51 PM > To: accessindia@accessindia.org.in > Subject: [AI] A question, which is not really a question > > Hi all, > > First of all, let me take this opportunity to wish you a very happy half > year. > Now, I'd like to ask a question which may not appear to be of much > importance, but which makes a lot of difference to me at least. > > As I am sure many of you know, I go to college and to other public > places with the help of my driver who acts as my sighted escort. > While this method works perfectly, I've often encountered one flaw in > the plan, so to speak. > As soon as my class gets over, my escort comes and takes me to our car > for going home. > Similarly, when we go out somewhere, my driver comes to pick me up as > soon as I come out with my friends from that place. > So, because of this what happens is that my friends get to chat and > have fun even after the class, while I miss all the fun because my > escort picks me up immediately after the work that we went for is > over. > One possible solution could be to ask my friends to drop me to my car, > but they also drop me immediately after we're done and continue > talking away and making merry afterwards. > So, how can I ask my friends to not drop me immediately to my car > considering that I don't have a really concrete reason for hanging on > in the first place? > What should I ask my escort to do in these cases? > > This is often a source of a little bit of annoyance for me and leaves, > you know, a sour taste, so to speak as I don't properly get to say > goodbye to my friends after having had such a great time. > Plus, it might even make them feel that I'm a nerd and don't wish to > socialize. > Please answer this question as earnestly and sincerely as you can > because what might seem like a petty thing to you might mean a lot to > someone else. > > I am yours most sincerely, > Mohit, Gopalkrishna, Sarvapali, Mahindra, Vishwakumar, Sarmprasad, Shah :P > > > Search for old postings at: > http://www.mail-archive.com/accessindia@accessindia.org.in/ > > To unsubscribe send a message to > accessindia-requ...@accessindia.org.in > with the subject unsubscribe. > > To change your subscription to digest mode or make any other changes, please > visit the list home page at > http://accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/accessindia_accessindia.org.in > > > Notice: This email and any files transmitted with it are confidential and > intended solely for the use of the individual or entity to whom they are > addressed. If you are not the intended recipient, any dissemination, use, > review, distribution, printing or copying of the information contained in > this e-mail message and/or attachments to it are strictly prohibited. If you > have received this email by error, please notify us by return e-mail or > telephone and immediately and permanently delete the message and any > attachments. The recipient should check this email and any attachments for > the presence of viruses. The Reserve Bank of India accepts no liability for > any damage caused by any virus transmitted by this email. > > > Search for old postings at: > http://www.mail-archive.com/accessindia@accessindia.org.in/ > > To unsubscribe send a message to > accessindia-requ...@accessindia.org.in > with the subject unsubscribe. > > To change your subscription to digest mode or make any other changes, please > visit the list home page at > http://accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/accessindia_accessindia.org.in > > -- vivek, Ph.919868954833, New Delhi Search for old postings at: http://www.mail-archive.com/accessindia@accessindia.org.in/ To unsubscribe send a message to accessindia-requ...@accessindia.org.in with the subject unsubscribe. To change your subscription to digest mode or make any other changes, please visit the list home page at http://accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/accessindia_accessindia.org.in
