@amar You are just thinking of children. But if I am blind and if I marry sighted person in that case we both will have to lose a lot I will have to compromise with his education, social status or earning. If he is well educated, socially perfect and economically sound then he won’t accept me rather he won’t have any reason to accept me. At the same time he will always remember that he had to marry me because I had nice job or he couldn’t find proper girl in able bodied society. And if I marry with blind person and if we both are totally blind then we can bring our children properly if we have proper income For education we can hire personal teacher. For mobility we can keep full time driver. In that case also we may face difficulties but it would be 1000 times better then compromise.
On 7/2/14, Amar Jain <amarjain2...@gmail.com> wrote: > @Rajesh Sir: Noted with thanks. > > @Bhawani Sir: somehow I skipped your reply. I get what you are saying. > Lets not talk of the higher studies. Would be happy to understand, > with a simple illustration like this. > > I am blind and you are sighted. May be we are equal in terms of > education. You can help your child progress at a very young age. > > Examples could be proper hand writing, well maintained body language, > helping child with the home work, projects (which even sighted people > find challenging now a days due to the increasing educational > competition), fansy dress competition, eating etiquettes, drawing, > etc. etc. > > You could play with your kid in amusement parks and let him do > whatever he wants. Whereas I may not be able to take part into certain > activities. > > You can see and safeguard your kid in a park even if he is playing > against your will. I cannot do so unless he gets hurt because there is > no way for me to see as to what is it that he is doing and whether it > is fine for him to do at this young age or not. I can simply be > worried and be hopeful that all goes well. > > In such a case, is there anything specific we as individuals could do > to make sure that there is a good connect between you and your > children or the answer is that the children develop that understanding > slowly in life? > > Now if I am blind and my spouce is blind, what are the solutions which > people adopt? > > To my mind the answer could be either that you depend on the support > of teachers (assuming that even they take the pain as if it was their > own kid), or you depend on your family members who are non-blind. > > That is one of the major challenge which I feel a blind couple can be > confronted with. And I want to understand based on the personal > experiences of the members the ways to tackle with the same. > > Regards, > -- > Amar Jain. > Website: www.amarjain.com > > > > Register at the dedicated AccessIndia list for discussing accessibility of > mobile phones / Tabs on: > http://mail.accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/mobile.accessindia_accessindia.org.in > > > Search for old postings at: > http://www.mail-archive.com/accessindia@accessindia.org.in/ > > To unsubscribe send a message to > accessindia-requ...@accessindia.org.in > with the subject unsubscribe. > > To change your subscription to digest mode or make any other changes, please > visit the list home page at > http://accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/accessindia_accessindia.org.in > > > Disclaimer: > 1. Contents of the mails, factual, or otherwise, reflect the thinking of the > person sending the mail and AI in no way relates itself to its veracity; > > 2. AI cannot be held liable for any commission/omission based on the mails > sent through this mailing list.. > Register at the dedicated AccessIndia list for discussing accessibility of mobile phones / Tabs on: http://mail.accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/mobile.accessindia_accessindia.org.in Search for old postings at: http://www.mail-archive.com/accessindia@accessindia.org.in/ To unsubscribe send a message to accessindia-requ...@accessindia.org.in with the subject unsubscribe. To change your subscription to digest mode or make any other changes, please visit the list home page at http://accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/accessindia_accessindia.org.in Disclaimer: 1. Contents of the mails, factual, or otherwise, reflect the thinking of the person sending the mail and AI in no way relates itself to its veracity; 2. AI cannot be held liable for any commission/omission based on the mails sent through this mailing list..
