xactly what i meant, second this thought... On 5/19/15, Shweta Mishra <shweta.mishra...@gmail.com> wrote: > I feel, > if some one wants disabled child, then he/she should adopt a disabled > child, cause there are many disabled children, who don't have any > caretaker. > > On 5/19/15, Gunjan Singh <gladecho...@gmail.com> wrote: >> Being a disabled myself I know how much I lack in life, not only in >> vital directions but also in the daily tiny-mini things. >> Although entirely independent, there are things I can’t see or imagine >> which a sighted counterpart would. >> How could any disabled would want to selfishly create/produce disabled >> babies is leaving me in shocks. >> Unfortunately these lesbian ladies have just thought the life/worldly >> conducts were the things those could be controlled totaly by human >> beings, which is right. >> But alongside they also seem to be the weaker people internally. >> without any offences to gay relationships,which are natural to some >> people. >> The relation of ease with each other that had led these ladies to same >> sex marriage or relationship had impacted them so much that they now >> need a child that won’t ask them for more or anything that is >> different from them and which they couldn’t provide. >> If they think a hearing impaired child would be alike to them, they >> are mistaken. >> He/she can ask them for things out of their control as he/she grows up. >> Can the lesbian mothers too would be able to provide their deaf kid >> the jean of gay relationship? >> They could also commit the crime of honor killing, if not in the >> developed nation. >> Everything has a positive side along with the negative side. >> It is so difficult for disabled parents or even the non disabled >> parents to find out if their baby would have any jean of disability >> from some of their ancestors’ jean, and here they are preparing the >> babies for a lacking life. >> >> It is much more criminal deed than the barred ULTRASOUND to find out >> the sex of any child inside the womb and the foeticide. >> So bar these actually abnormal productions. >> Regardless of the status of developing/developed nationality, a >> disabled is challenged to equal troubles if located in either >> countries. >> We can respect ourselves and other disabled but can’t be such cruel to >> overlook the difficulties in our lives to gift the coming generation >> the same troubles. >> Born disabled or unfortunately met any accident is natural but >> deliberately is a crime. >> >> >> On 5/19/15, Radha <r.radh...@gmail.com> wrote: >>> I second Vamshi byeya's opinion, Certainly should have a legal ban >>> which ever country it may be. >>> >>> On 5/19/15, Vamshi. G <gvamsh...@gmail.com> wrote: >>>> If having a disabled child deliberately is scientifically possible, >>>> then it should be legally barred! This article presents a very true >>>> perception about disability instead of untrue and unnecessary >>>> pretenses. >>>> >>>> ...but we cannot change the simple fact >>>> that it is better to have five senses than four, however enhanced the >>>> loss of one allows the others to be. >>>> >>>> >>>> On 5/18/15, Karnati Srishailam <ghs.tilakna...@gmail.com> wrote: >>>>> THANK YOU >>>>> >>>>> On 5/18/15, avinash shahi <shahi88avin...@gmail.com> wrote: >>>>>> In the long argument over designer babies, did anyone imagine that >>>>>> parents might prefer a designer disability? While we were all worrying >>>>>> about the bionic offspring of the super-rich, two deaf lesbians in >>>>>> America were going round sperm banks, trying to make a deaf baby. >>>>>> http://www.theguardian.com/world/2002/apr/09/gender.uk1 >>>>>> >>>>>> >>>>>> It sounds like the start of a bad joke, except that they have now >>>>>> managed it twice, thanks to a friend with five generations of deafness >>>>>> in his family. They claim that they are especially well equipped to >>>>>> look after a deaf child, which I am sure is true, and had they adopted >>>>>> one such child, or 20, we would all be praising their goodness. >>>>>> >>>>>> The difference, of course, is that no child should be forced inside >>>>>> its parents' psychosis - whether they be from a hardline religious >>>>>> sect or Deaf Lesbians. The truth is that all of us have to contend >>>>>> with our parents, for good or ill, but at least we can't be committed >>>>>> at birth to spending the rest of our lives as circus performers or >>>>>> bank clerks, or missionaries. We have free will, and the great thing >>>>>> about growing up is personal choice. >>>>>> >>>>>> What choice is there if your parents have already decided that you are >>>>>> going to be deaf, and that deafness will be your defining identity, >>>>>> just as it has been theirs? This is not the beauty of compatibility, >>>>>> it is genetic imperialism. >>>>>> >>>>>> Deaf people, they say, have heightened senses, and a relationship to >>>>>> the world not shared by the hearing population. Fine, I have no >>>>>> trouble with that. But identity is going to be a big issue for the >>>>>> kids of the Deaf Lesbians, because both women belong to a radical >>>>>> group that defines deafness like blackness - not as a disability but >>>>>> as cultural difference. >>>>>> >>>>>> My closest friend is black. She married a white man and their eldest >>>>>> child looks like an English rose - pale skin, blond hair, blue eyes. >>>>>> Nature does this kind of thing, and it is a celebration of difference >>>>>> and sameness all mixed up together. Nobody knows what kind of baby any >>>>>> two people will produce - and surely this is a blessing, not a bore? >>>>>> Must we control everything? If the answer is yes, we are paranoid. If >>>>>> either of the Deaf Lesbians in the US had been in a relationship with >>>>>> a man, deaf or hearing, and if they had decided to have a baby, there >>>>>> is absolutely no certainty that the baby would have been deaf. You >>>>>> take a chance with love; you take a chance with nature, but it is >>>>>> those chances and the unexpected possibilities they bring, that give >>>>>> life its beauty. >>>>>> >>>>>> I am always on the side of risk, and always suspicious of control. The >>>>>> more controls we have, the less free we become. Parents usually try to >>>>>> control their children, and later their children hate them for it, >>>>>> while busily repeating the damage themselves. >>>>>> >>>>>> How would either of the lesbians have felt if their own parents had >>>>>> said that heterosexuality was such a beautiful thing that they had to >>>>>> screen out any potential gay gene in their children, just to make sure >>>>>> they had a good life? >>>>>> >>>>>> How would any of us feel if the women had both been blind and claimed >>>>>> the right to a blind baby? Even if we transform the language of >>>>>> disability into a dialectic of alternative functioning, should the >>>>>> medical system support parents who want their child to suffer a >>>>>> serious handicap? >>>>>> >>>>>> We can make our world as friendly as possible for people with >>>>>> different physical capacities, but we cannot change the simple fact >>>>>> that it is better to have five senses than four, however enhanced the >>>>>> loss of one allows the others to be. >>>>>> >>>>>> I believe that hearing, like sight, is a blessing, and if we are >>>>>> prepared to use technology to breed children we have deliberately >>>>>> disabled, it is not only the language of disability that will have to >>>>>> be radically reworked, but our entire moral perspective. >>>>>> >>>>>> What this case suggests is that we can do what we like to our >>>>>> children, even if the consequences of our actions are irreversible. >>>>>> >>>>>> As lesbians, the two women should know something about choice and >>>>>> personal freedom. They both practise as mental health specialists, so >>>>>> I hope they have a colleague who will be able to talk it through with >>>>>> two kids who turn up in 20 years, explaining that their mothers >>>>>> decided that they had to be deaf. >>>>>> >>>>>> -- >>>>>> Avinash Shahi >>>>>> Doctoral student at Centre for Law and Governance JNU >>>>>> >>>>>> >>>>>> >>>>>> Register at the dedicated AccessIndia list for discussing >>>>>> accessibility >>>>>> of >>>>>> mobile phones / Tabs on: >>>>>> http://mail.accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/mobile.accessindia_accessindia.org.in >>>>>> >>>>>> >>>>>> Search for old postings at: >>>>>> http://www.mail-archive.com/accessindia@accessindia.org.in/ >>>>>> >>>>>> To unsubscribe send a message to >>>>>> accessindia-requ...@accessindia.org.in >>>>>> with the subject unsubscribe. >>>>>> >>>>>> To change your subscription to digest mode or make any other changes, >>>>>> please >>>>>> visit the list home page at >>>>>> http://accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/accessindia_accessindia.org.in >>>>>> >>>>>> >>>>>> Disclaimer: >>>>>> 1. 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