Derek quotes me:

> Re: ' Derek was responding to a rather longish posting, much of which is
> not
> acknowledged by him. This repeated proclivity when responding to
> counter-arguments
> suggests one of three causes:
>
> He doesn't grasp what he's just read.
>
> He forgets what he's just read.
>
> And I can't help suspecting this third factor may be ruling: he either
> willfully or in subconscious flight "overlooks" rebuttals he cannot cope
> with.'"
>
Derek then comments:
> There is another possibility.   I don't usually want to write long detailed
> posts. So I focus on what seem to me to be key points - or points of
> particular interest.
>
But, in "there-you-go-again" fashion, Derek ignores these lines in the
posting he was responding to:
> >
> > One of Derek's regularly-displayed weaknesses is that he apparently reads
> > postings solely to find what he disagrees with. I don't recall ever
> > finding him
> > saying someone has made a worthy point that he never thought of. A
> > corollary
> > weakness in him is that he regularly ignores those elements in a
> > counter-arguing
> > posting that he evidently cannot rebut.
>
It may be true that Derek prefers to "focus on what seem to me to be key
points - or points of particular interest."

But the precise point I was making was that Derek never prefers to focus
something he has learned, or something he cannot rebut. Why not? I continue to
maintain that either he doesn't grasp such things, or he forgets them, or he
suppresses them.   I don't say these things to be mean. I say them to help
expose
to him why listers find him such an unsatisfactory interlocutor. I myself find
him a great training partner. Coping with his hard questions and persistent
evasiveness is mentally salubrious.
> >
> > "In a philosophical dispute, he gains most who is defeated, since he
> > learns
> > most."
> >
>
>
>




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