Hi Alda,

Which island are you from?

Doug da Rocha Holmes
Sacramento, California
Pico & Terceira Genealogist
916-550-1618
www.dholmes.com


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Subject: Re: [AZORES-Genealogy] Re: Mourning period
From: Alda Jorge <aldaspl...@gmail.com>
Date: Mon, March 11, 2013 12:54 pm
To: azores@googlegroups.com

>From what I remember women in general would have to wait a year, however a man could get married right away if marrying a girl that had never been married.  The women wore black, forever it seemed.  If the woman was interested in getting married she would ditch the black to announce or let the community know that she was available to remarry.  The rules for widows varied from town to town as well as from one island to the other.  My grandmother was widowed in 1925   when she died in the 70's she still wore black  although towards the end of her life she would on occasion wear browns mixed with black


On Sat, Mar 9, 2013 at 5:54 PM, David Perry <djperr...@sbcglobal.net> wrote:
Most men in my ancestry remarried rather soon after the death of their spouses.  The women in the 1600s and 1700s seemed to re-marry though not "right away".  There seems to have been some kind of religious rebirth in the 1800's and well into the first half of the 1900's what with all the Maria's and religious middle names and the extended widowhood of my many female ancestors.  I remember in the 1950s visiting cousins of my father and there was invariably one or two old women sitting in a corner, all dressed in black with their rosary, rocking back and forth with their eyes shut praying for their dead husbands.  They were so involved in their prayers they didn't even acknowledge visitors.  All this for husbands who had been dead twenty or thirty years.
David

On Friday, March 8, 2013 11:25:38 PM UTC-8, Paul wrote:
If a married person died say in the 1800's was there a set length of time the surviving spouse mourned before they remarried? I ask this because my paternal ggg grandmother died sometime after giving birth to my gg grandmother in 1852.
 
Paul G.
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