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Playtime Sharing *Mine! Mine! Me first!* What's a parent to do when a child just won't play fair? Jo Frost, author of *Supernanny: How to Get the Best from Your Children*<http://www.oprah.com/tows/booksseen/200501/tows_book_20050121_jfros.jhtml>, says that all children are capable of playtime sharing—mom and dad just have to lay down the law. *Step One: Let's Play the Sharing Game!* Introduce an activity that requires taking turns. For example, if playing "store," explain that everyone will get a chance to be the cashier, shopper, bagger, etc. *Step Two: Teach Your Child to Play Nicely.* Don't allow an aggressive child to control who gets what toy, or bully her way into playing whatever role she wants. Giving in to a child's demands in order to preserve the peace will only teach that bad behavior is tolerable. No matter how difficult, Jo says, consistency is absolutely necessary. "Be decisive and *follow through*." *Step Three: Stay Calm* If this is the first time you've tried this technique with an aggressive child, a tantrum is probably fast approaching. Stay calm and remember that * you* are in control—not the child. Deal immediately with unacceptable behavior such as kicking and shouting with a firm warning: "This behavior is no good." If the tantrum continues, it's time to discipline *Supernanny*<http://www.oprah.com/relationships/relationships_content.jhtml?contentId=con_20050121_naughtystool.xml§ion=Family&subsection=> -style<http://www.oprah.com/relationships/relationships_content.jhtml?contentId=con_20050121_naughtystool.xml§ion=Family&subsection=>.
